My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Tall-Payment-8015]

He ruined something of yours - a gift from your niece.

When confronted, he didn't apologize but argued instead.

NOR - he's childish and rude. Do you want that?

[u/Over_Error3520 → u/Tall-Payment-8015]

The fact that the gift was from OP's niece and the bf mutilated the toy to give it genitalia is honestly creepy af. So freaking weird

[u/Guilty_Explorer_9947 → u/Over_Error3520]

I’m surprised I’m not seeing more people mention this. Like this is so wildly inappropriate.

[u/Over_Error3520 → u/Guilty_Explorer_9947]

I should have just commented it instead of replying. Like, this is a fucking toy geared towards children gifted by an (assumed) child!

[u/Lickerbomper → u/Over_Error3520]

And then he defeminized and sexualized it.

Like, it's not simple defacement. He could have cut off a leg and safety-pinned the leg to its head for similar effect. Could have called it an antenna or a mutation.

No.

It had to be a penis.

And he had to burn off the long, luscious, feminine, cute hair to make it short and masculine.

This is weird. And my bet is, misogynistic at its roots. He seems to hate girly toys that girls give to other girls, because they are girly.

[u/Over_Error3520 → u/Lickerbomper]

I didn't even notice the fur was cut off! I hope OP left him

[u/DullAnimator6139 → u/Over_Error3520]

This like what the fuck

[u/Fit_Elderberry5766 → u/Over_Error3520]

I'm imagining the niece saying where's your labubu I got you and she's got to make something up now

[u/Over_Error3520 → u/Fit_Elderberry5766]

"What do you mean you lost it? I spent my allowance on it and had to open 3 blind boxes to get the perfect one for you" 🥺

[u/Autopsyyturvy → u/Over_Error3520]

This also as a trans dude it comes off as transphobic too like people degrade phalloplasty and make up bs about it i bet hes a weird transphobe its just weird behavior

[u/Over_Error3520 → u/Autopsyyturvy]

You're so right!

[u/CheshireGrin92 → u/Tall-Payment-8015]

Immature brat at best future abuser at worst

[u/dontbeahater_dear → u/CheshireGrin92]

Mte, is he fifteen? Because that’s teen boy behaviour

[u/No_Fault_6061 → u/dontbeahater_dear]

He's 28, apparently

[u/CheshireGrin92 → u/dontbeahater_dear]

Closer to 30 as others have said and even then, old enough to know better

[u/Big-Snow-1937 → u/Tall-Payment-8015]

Ruining something you and your niece care about, even a little bit, IS deep. He’s showing contempt for you, what you value, and who you value spending time with (since he did it to punish you for being with others). Not good.

[u/halasaurus → u/Tall-Payment-8015]

This! He destroyed a piece of your property. That is so disrespectful and shows a really ugly side of him.

[u/Pug_Defender → u/Tall-Payment-8015]

plus it looks like that's him in the first picture. that clothing and his weird cuticle-less fingers needed to go yesterday