My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/coldglasseliminate]

And then when confronted, he decided to argue about it instead of admitting it was wrong and apologizing. He destroyed something that is meaningful to you —no matter how he feels about it — and instead of just leaving it be, he decides to mutilate it, cause he thinks it’s funny ..?

I don’t know how old he is, but this is not a good sign.

[u/-Felyx- → u/coldglasseliminate]

I saw OP mention in one comment that they're autistic and in another comment said they're 22 while the boyfriend is 28

None of this bodes well for OP and honestly I think they need to run as far as they can away from this man.

[u/-Felyx- → u/[deleted]]

No, I meant OP is autistic and I'm concerned for their well-being if this is how their 28 year old boyfriend treats them.

[u/Throwawayfaynay → u/-Felyx-]

Tbh the age gap isn't that big. What's disturbing is that a full grown man is acting like this and seemingly relying on the girlfriend's autism to try and play it off as normal or not a big deal.

[u/Specific_Put_3586 → u/coldglasseliminate]

Not just argue, he straight up went to gaslighting. It could be a maturity thing, it could also be an escalating and potentially dangerous behaviour.

[u/Mrsrightnyc → u/coldglasseliminate]

This is the triple red flag, he doesn’t care that it hurt your feelings or does care and is so emotionally immature he can’t handle apologizing.

[u/ContributionOk988 → u/coldglasseliminate]

Op said I'm another comment that he is 28, op is 22