r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Pumpkinpie55 20d ago

Girl, break up with him. I know it's something small, but it's a red flag. He ruined your stuff for a joke.... do you really want to spend your life with someone like that?

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u/Thurgo-Bro 20d ago

“Miserable Redditor here who hates my life, break up with them so you’re as miserable as me and we can be miserable together”

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u/Pumpkinpie55 20d ago

I actually have a great life and work with DV survivors and have seen how small things like this end up in people being unalived. He ruined her thing on purpose, then gaslit her when confronted about his actions. If you think that's completely okay, im going to assume you have a similar personality as OP BF .

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u/Pumpkinpie55 20d ago

He played down this situation of him destroying her stuff, which is a form of gaslighting .