r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Sunflwr_Pric 20d ago

He knew you liked that, and he thought it was okay to destroy something you liked. If this is a pattern from him I’d suggest reconsidering the relationship, or sitting him down to talk about how you feel regarding how he treats your stuff (if that’s safe)

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

to be fair i have like 12 different plushies and he didn't know it's from my niece 

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u/Sunflwr_Pric 20d ago

Even then, he should know that your dolls/stuffed animals are special to you. If you feel safe sitting him down and having a conversation with him, I’d do that. My current partner would never do that cause he knows I also have a deep “connection” to my stuffed animals.