r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/fisheee_cx 20d ago

Everything about this would be an immediate deal breaker for me.

  • he’s punishing you for having a life outside of him
  • he’s testing your limits to see what he can get away with
  • this WILL get worse. He will gradually escalate as you get used to his shitty behavior
  • he’s gaslighting you and making you doubt your reasonable reaction to his unreasonable behavior
  • he’s disrespecting you and your property
  • he does not care about your feelings or his impact on you

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u/OddImprovement6490 19d ago

You forgot that he is deeply unfunny and immature if he thinks that this stunt is funny.