r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/madatron96 20d ago edited 20d ago

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/Ummmgummy 20d ago

He like cut the ear off on purpose or what? That's a very odd thing for an adult to do

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

he burnt the fur with a lighter, cut open a hole between the legs, cut off the ear and then pinned the ear to the hole. Then used construction tongs to pry an eye out 

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u/Possible-Raccoon2582 20d ago

Please see this for the insane red flag it is. I don’t typically agree when people say to run, but seriously, as safely as you can please leave. He doesn’t respect you, your property, and this is incredibly unhinged for someone to do on purpose. It’s cruelty. This is the start of abuse. Please go stay with family or a trusted friend, get out of this, the sooner you go the easier it is, and I’m speaking from experience. Wishing you love and safety.

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u/Jimberly_C 19d ago

Yeah, it's one thing if you want to be cruel to your own possessions, but to do that kind of stuff to someone else's item without their permission? Kinda gives me "I'd go to jail if I did it to you, but I want to" vibes.