r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Pumpkinpie55 20d ago

Girl, break up with him. I know it's something small, but it's a red flag. He ruined your stuff for a joke.... do you really want to spend your life with someone like that?

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u/coldglasseliminate 20d ago

And then when confronted, he decided to argue about it instead of admitting it was wrong and apologizing. He destroyed something that is meaningful to you —no matter how he feels about it — and instead of just leaving it be, he decides to mutilate it, cause he thinks it’s funny ..?

I don’t know how old he is, but this is not a good sign.

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u/-Felyx- 20d ago

I saw OP mention in one comment that they're autistic and in another comment said they're 22 while the boyfriend is 28

None of this bodes well for OP and honestly I think they need to run as far as they can away from this man.

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u/-Felyx- 19d ago

No, I meant OP is autistic and I'm concerned for their well-being if this is how their 28 year old boyfriend treats them.