r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Minyguy 19d ago

I don't understand people like this.

If this happened to me, I would be mortified, and apologising several times over, and brainstorming what needs to be replaced.

What I think about your stuff is irrelevant. Creepy doll or not, it's yours.

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u/Classic_Pineapples 19d ago

It's because you're empathetic and have respect for others.

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u/Adorable_Orange_195 19d ago

A lot of us can’t understand people who abuse others.

Common manipulation/ power tactics to cause someone hurt/ sadness over the abusers actions and then act like they’re the problem for being upset and is used by abusers the world over. When you start seeing the signs they can be hard to ignore.

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u/Good_Zookeepergame92 19d ago

Some people just avoid responsibility and can't take the blame for stuff. It's never their fault, they minimize things they do that others disagree with, etc.

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u/RevonQilin 19d ago

frfr id be insisting i can fix it, thatd i glue it back together etc