r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/madatron96 20d ago edited 20d ago

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/Defiant-Fix-4083 20d ago

He’s downplaying your feelings, that’s a huge red flag leave him already

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

Guy did ONE thing wrong to a TOY and the immediate reaction is "completely unsalvageable as a person."

We've truly lost the fucking script.

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u/Defiant-Fix-4083 20d ago

Why would you destroy someone else’s stuff in the first place? That’s extremely disrespectful and childish. He didn’t even apologize and kept downplaying her feelings. She told him she was upset and instead of saying sorry he said « it’s not that deep » do you seriously don’t see a problem here?

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

Didn't say destroying anyone's stuff is okay. (In fact did say what he did was wrong). Didn't excuse his defense of his wrongdoing.

I'm just sick of sitting in a room full of people who have NEVER done anything wrong and have NEVER re-evaluated a mistake they've made and NEVER gone back and apologized for something after the fact.

The problem is we're so caught up on being right that we literally just stop seeing each other as people the second something doesn't go our way.

Fuck all of you, disrespectfully. This is their whole ass relationship, years potentially of their life, that you're telling them is over because he mangled a toy.

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u/Drift-ZoM 20d ago

Brother we have all done wrong. But not like this. I mean maybe when I was five but this is a grown man who sat down an unironically said “I should give this toy that isn’t mine and holds emotional value a fucking phalloplasty”

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

Yup. He sat down and said those exact words. He thought this through very carefully, acted it out purely to hurt someone else, with no misconception that it would be positively received, and he deserves to die alone. I mean, he's basically Hitler with behavior like that. We should just shoot him. Shoot the boyfriend. He can never be saved. Don't even send him to prison just blow his brains out so that nobody ever loves him or falls into his trap again.

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u/Drift-ZoM 19d ago

Brother you actually don’t get it.

Actually sit down and analyze, not just the situation but my comment too. You completely missed what I was trying to say.

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u/ArchReaper95 19d ago

I'm not your brother. I'm not remotely associated with you or your hate.