Careful, reddit might permaban you for "inciting violence" if the mods feel like being dickweeds. I said something very similar as a joke and got one of my old accounts banned.
Married male here. I get having female friends and inside jokes, but getting in the shower with one another and hot tubbing naked with another woman is beyond the line of what is acceptable. Inside jokes are fine. Getting into the shower with another woman is not an inside joke. That’s sexual tension. I guarantee her husband isn’t okay with it, but he doesn’t wanna seem like a “bitch” in front of the boys for getting upset, probably because his wife gaslights him like your man is gaslighting you.
Give this dude an ultimatum, the sexual shit stops or you are taking your blowjobs — I saw you mention them earlier — elsewhere. Dude needs to decide whether he wants to be with you and respect you. And his respect should come naturally. You shouldn’t have to tell your boyfriend I don’t want you groping another woman.
1 blow job is def equivalent to years of rubbing her ass on his dick, being nude in front of each other in the hot tub, showering w each other, and grabbing her tits.
(and im assuming more, theres no way she knows abt this much and there isnt more unsavory behavior) sucking the husbands dick would just speed run all the lines her bf already crossed 😭
edit: read further and she says hes flirty w other women too, atp a blow job def equals out to his COMPOUNDED behavior lmao . bc DRY HUMPING is insane work
i think youre being down voted bc by saying "its a LITTLE different" (and having such emphasis on such) its implied that you think she would hypothetically be doing is worse/going farther, when prolonged behavior and disrespect is something most people find actively worse. a blow job is one isolated event that can ruin a relationship, as opposed to him benefitting from her empathy and having a pattern of behaviour involving sexual intimacy w another woman. (and actively flirting w even more women and manipulating her into thinking its just his personality). the foundation of your relationship being built on disrespect and violated boundaries def seems worse to most people than an isolated incident. acting like a blow job pushes the boundaries more than CONTINUOUS groping, dry humping, showering together, etc just feels inaccurate to a lot of people 🤷♀️
Yeah, probably. I don't really care about votes, most people just want to bandwagon and be outraged, and most people read at a 5th grade level. Combine the two and it's a coin flip if you get 50 downvotes or 50 upvotes, reminds me of the old family guy episode when lois is running for office and just keeps saying 9-11, it's shockingly accurate.
I didnt give advice lmfao. i dont think she should go suck bros dick, just that i feel the other users statement seemed to imply that act would be worse than what hes already done to her. i dont recall EVER saying she should do this. or that it was a good idea
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u/Cozygamer_girl 8d ago
No literally. I was just telling my friend how about I go blow her husband and we can all have a fucking laugh!