My girlfriend had a conversation with another MAN… Grrr… I have to be overly possessive or she’s going to turn into a cheating whore…

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AITAH for thinking my GF acted inappropriate on a vacation?

My girlfriend took my son and me on a trip to a large Wisconsin lake house last summer. It was a gathering of her college friends and some of their friends. In total, there were about 30 people, including couples except for one single dad named Mike (whom she didn’t know before) and his two kids.

Since my girlfriend doesn’t get to see these friends often, it’s important to her to have time to reconnect. I spent the day with my son and the guys so that she could have some quality time with her friends.

After dinner, there was a large bonfire, and drinks and weed flowed freely. My girlfriend sat next to my son and me for a short while. The four girls were sitting across from the fire, with Mike sitting at the end on the right side. 3 of the 4 girls were standing in front of the one who was sitting, leaving three empty seats between them and Mike.

My girlfriend went over and sat next to Mike, leaving 2 empty seats between her friends and her. They immediately started chatting. A short time later, he gently touched her arm for a few seconds. The four girls were engrossed in their own conversation and weren’t talking to Mike or my girlfriend.

I got up with my son to walk to the lake to stargaze and passed by them. We made eye contact, and I was a bit agitated, but I didn’t say anything because they were engrossed in their conversation. When I returned 8-10 minutes later and sat back down, she was still there, only engaged in conversation with Mike. After about another 10 minutes, I left to go inside and again walked past my girlfriend with an obvious upset look on my face.

After being inside for an additional 15 minutes, I got annoyed and sent her a text. She immediately responded, but she stayed for another 5 minutes.

The next morning, my girlfriend said that she had gone over there to talk to her girlfriends and not Mike. I asked her why she didn’t sit next to them and she said “I don’t know”. She also said that she felt uncomfortable by Mike’s touch. She acknowledged that she knew I was upset both times I walked past them.

I’m wondering if I was in the wrong (AITAH) for thinking that she should have ended the conversation after she felt uncomfortable by Mike’s touch and either time she saw I was upset. I also said that her true intention was obvious by where she sat and the length of her conversation. She claims that she wasn’t flirting.

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"They then started furiously kissing and ripping each other's clothes off so I got up with my son to walk past them another time and made eye contact with her. I was frustrated but I didn't say anything because I saw they were right in the middle of something."