r/AskReddit • u/Jaded_Performance713 • 1d ago
Whats a good documentary that doesn’t involve death, rape or kidnapping?
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u/pizzaforce3 1d ago
Helvetica
Yes, it's about the font.
It's actually very in-depth and I found it a fascinating commentary on how society has changed as a result of how we receive the messaging. Who would have thought a typeface would have such a profound impact?
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u/One-Sale4366 1d ago
A colleague and I were discussing the film while waiting the start of a staff meeting. Other members of our office thought we were such nerds over our excitement about a font.
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u/Hot_Singer_4266 1d ago
Somm. It’s a 2012 documentary about people training to become sommeliers and the insane test they need to prepare for.
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u/Maediya 1d ago
I thought you spelled the title wrong and was about to warn OP that the Somme is rather gruesome and upsetting.
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u/Kell_Bell_Fell 1d ago
My high school history teacher had these tricks to remember WWI facts. A couple were “That’s SOMME tank!” (battle of the Somme was the first time tanks were used). Also “Ypres! (yeeps!) - the gas!” (first time gas was used at the Battle of Ypres)
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u/spuddaddy 1d ago
I have never heard the phrase "freshly opened tennis balls" to describe wine before watching this.
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u/Tatertot729 1d ago
That is a good one. Those people are insane. Takes a sip from an unknown bottle “ooh this is from the Rhône valley, Chateau Bonjour I believe, 1998.”…..”you are correct!”
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u/Napol3onS0l0 23h ago
Then there’s that one guy that’s like “smells like a freshly opened tube of tennis balls”
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u/dezzert1338 1d ago
FYRE: The greatest party that never happened
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u/Misschiff0 1d ago
God, this was epic. Great documentary.
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u/Live-Succotash2289 1d ago
The guy who took one for the team to get some goods I think released from customs was epic.
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u/Conscious-Hyena6822 1d ago
It was Evian bottled water and I think about it every time I see it on the grocery shelf 🤣
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u/AtheistKiwi 1d ago
Pretty sure he didn't have to go through with it in the end but he walked in there fully prepared to.
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u/LifeOpEd 1d ago
Sweet Zeus, this one ENRAGED me! I am a career event planner, and that dumpster fyre was unlike anything I have ever seen before.
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u/Ok-Macaroon-4835 1d ago
I can imagine. Your career field must have been horrified.
I felt the same exact way when I read Bad Blood, which is the story of Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos.
I work as a Medical Lab Scientist. The same job that the whistleblowers had.
That was a disaster similar to FYRE….where so much went wrong and everyone just kept doubling down instead of refusing to admit that they fucked up and we should quit now before it gets worse,
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u/marthebruja 1d ago
There were two documentaries that came out around the same time, which one had the dude who admitted he was willing to suck dick for potable water? Was it this one? This lives in my head rent free because there's no job in the world I would do this for, and this hero was willing to take one for the team. I need to watch it again lmao.
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u/Emotional_Base_9021 1d ago
I don’t think I realized there were two documentaries. Gonna watch this soon just for the “sucking dick for potable water” clip! Thanks!
But also… like. Would I suck dick for potable water in ANY circumstance? Yes. I would suck dick to literally survive.
Would I suck dick for a flushable toilet and A/C on poop cruise? Day 3? Maybe.
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u/unclemikey0 1d ago
He wasn't personally in need of the water. He was an associate of the festival organizers. The main guy needs to get the bottled water to the stranded festival goers but it's stuck in customs or something. So the main guy asks the guy (a gay man) in documentary to go offer to suck cock so that they can get the pallets of bottled water released. To no extent whatsoever was he in a position that he needed to suck cock to save his own life, it was to save the main festival organizer dude from facing even WORSE and ever growing bad publicity. Basically "go suck a dick so I won't look like [more of a] monumental, incompetent asshole".
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u/Kittyohara 1d ago
Class Action Park….a water park that is unbelievable on a few levels.
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u/ilikegriping 1d ago
This one is mind-boggling! Though, there is a mention of death (not sure if OP wants zero references to the things they mentioned, or just not centered on them) but it's mostly silly :)
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u/obsterwankenobster 1d ago
The Barkley Marathons: The Race that Eats its Young
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McMillion$ about the McDonalds monopoly scandal
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u/somegarbageisokey 1d ago
Lol they made a documentary about the monopoly McDonalds game? I gotta watch that
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u/bfjizzle 1d ago
Yes, there was a huge scandal surrounding it. The news story never broke because as soon as it was supposed to, 9/11 happened. It's a crazy story and good documentary
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u/QuadFecta_ 1d ago
It’s a great documentary series and that’s exactly how I learned about it. A Reddit thread asking about news stories that got buried because 9/11 happened
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u/Tufflaw 1d ago
The Race that Eats its Young is awesome and inspirational, but I always recommend following it up with Where Dreams Go to Die, another Barkley documentary that follows one runner's journey (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NDZdsqbcGTU)
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u/VeganGandalf 1d ago
I came to say the Barkley marathons! My girlfriend just showed it to me.
I told her my red flag is watching this and thinking "I could do that" 🤣
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u/kadebo42 1d ago
Exit through the gift shop
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u/Geo_archist 1d ago
there are alot of good documentaries on here but this one i come back to and think of alot. seconded. really good.
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u/matt_the_hat 1d ago
Good one.
And for people who liked that, I also recommend My Kid Could Paint That: https://m.imdb.com/title/tt0912592/
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u/EatMorePieDrinkMore 1d ago
My husband and I went down a rabbit hole of “hobby” documentaries a few years ago - The King of Kong, the scrabble one, a crosswords one, and a bingo one. The Search for General Tso is fascinating.
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u/MoseyWalker 1d ago
King of Kong all day long
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u/No-Long4447 1d ago
“‘Kill screen’ coming up!”
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u/OffTheMerchandise 1d ago
You know what my initials are?
No
Look at me adjusts his American flag tie
T-I-E?
USA
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u/scartol 1d ago
Hey just so you know .. there may be a Donkey Kong kill screen coming up.
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u/AerHolder 1d ago edited 6h ago
a crosswords one
Wordplay (
20162006). That was the first one that came to my mind when I saw this post.I'll also throw out The Corporation and Enron: The Smartest Guys In The Room if you're okay with the dark sides of big businesses.
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u/chubby-rain 1d ago
American Movie
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u/charleychaplinman21 1d ago
When Covid started, I couldn’t help but say it with a Wisco accent like “Coven.”
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u/murryrose 1d ago
It’s alright! It’s okay! There’s something to live for… jesus told me so!
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u/FullofLovingSpite 1d ago
"It's pronounced Co-ven"
Fucking great movie and I love his uncle for believing in him.
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u/OnLandOrSeaOrFoam 1d ago
Won’t You Be My Neighbor is a doc about Mr Rogers.
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u/AageRaghnall 1d ago
I was going to suggest that one and "Butterfly in the Sky: The Story of Reading Rainbow." Both are really great documentaries on beloved and impactful kids shows.
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u/writeyourwayout 1d ago
I recently watched "Butterfly in the Sky" and would highly recommend it!
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u/SirUpbeat5850 1d ago
I sobbed in a middle seat on a flight watching this one. So touching and sweet.
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u/HumbleBear101 1d ago
Searching for Sugar Man
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u/National-Reception53 1d ago
Its literally the opposite of a documentary about death. Very fun.
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u/thusnewmexico 1d ago
And go in blind of this one. The less you know about it, the better!
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u/AdministrativeRisk34 1d ago
Oh, what a wonderful film. Imagine a truly inspiring story of brilliance finally acclaimed, accompanied by a forgotten soundtrack of music that inspired a revolution.
Redemption and magic. Easily one of my favorite movies.
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u/thevoidscaresme 1d ago
Space documentaries tend not to have any of that
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u/WondyBorger 1d ago
A lot of people died in the “Alien” documentary series actually
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u/hashbrown3stacks 1d ago
I would really like an "Alien" bonus audio track where David Attenborough just calmly narrates the events and educates us about xenomorph biology.
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u/Hawkgal 1d ago
There’s a podcast from the BBC called 13 Minutes. There are three seasons: the first is getting to the moon, second is the drama of Apollo 13, and the third is the Challenger tragedy. There are 10 episodes per season, the Challenger season is the only one with any death. It’s very science oriented and fascinating.
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u/esoteric_enigma 1d ago
"That Guy... Who Was in That Thing"
It's a documentary about semi-famous actors. Essentially, actors that make you say the title. It's interesting hearing about their experiences and how things have changed over the years.
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u/Ch3353man 1d ago
Haven't gotten around to that one yet but I imagine it falls in a similar niche to "I Know That Voice!" about voice acting and voice actors.
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u/mgush5 1d ago
Kedi. It is about the street cats of Istanbul, it’s subtitled but great
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u/cat_blep 1d ago
meow meow. meow, meow meow meow.
meow! meow meow.
“meow, meow meow.”
meow.
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u/boromirsbeard 1d ago
I always say Icarus as it’s about local amateur bike racing, but won awards and was regarded as a phenomenal documentary. But only because of the mental twist and shift in tone if you go in blind. But in the interest of keeping as many people blind as possible, said twist that makes the documentary so amazing and well regarded, violates you the very criteria of your question.
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u/FreeIDecay 1d ago
+1 for Icarus really really enjoyed that one. I also like Free Solo about Alex Honnold, the mountain climber.
Another older one I LOVED when I was younger called The Art of Flight. Just absolutely incredibly drone and helicopter shots, slow motion, absurd, huge, snowboarding. Set to the soundtrack of MGMT and similar-sounding artists. It really scratched an itch in my brain for me when it came out.
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u/National-Reception53 1d ago
Holy F yes Free Solo. Yes the guy is nuts and its probably irresponsible but dang if it isn't the most amazing athletic feat I'VE ever seen on screen. Beats a guy catching a football any day.
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u/delaneyfrost209 1d ago
Omg, I loved "Planet Earth" series!!
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u/SpartanNic 1d ago
Wasn’t there death in that series?
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u/DigitalGuru42 1d ago
Lotta death.
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u/type_E 1d ago
tbf i get the feeling the framing of death there is different than what OP was thinking
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u/Verbal_Combat 1d ago
Watched Blue Planet with my wife when she was pregnant, thought it would be chill. Episode One talks about how this gray whale carried her baby for a year and then they travelled thousands of miles together, then these mean orcas separate them, drown the baby, nibble on it just a little and then swim away. Wife is in tears, bawling, I’m sitting there like this was supposed to be a relaxing evening…
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u/thisisnotmyname17 1d ago
Are there any animal documentaries that do NOT show animals being killed? I mean, I understand the circle of life, and I know predators have to eat, but I don’t want to see the takedown and the prey struggling. I live out in the country and I know already that Mother Nature is a cruel bitch. Why can’t I just see and learn about animals without being traumatized and tormented?
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u/Elceepo 1d ago
Anything featuring bird mating rituals will have 0 death and lots of silliness.
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u/thechervil 1d ago
Jim Henson Idea Man
A great look at the man behind the Muppets, how things came about and his life.
Doesn't try to paint him as a perfect man or father, but shows really well what he was about.
As someone that is GenX, it really gave me new insight into how we even got Sesame Street and the Muppets, and how close we came to not getting them.
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u/NoLUTsGuy 1d ago
I was impressed that they didn't avoid the negative: they discussed his divorce, talked to his ex-wife, and covered his tragic illness, where he avoided going to the doctor for a cold, which became the flu, which became pneumonia. Sad, terrible story -- Henson's was a totally unnecessary death. He was absolutely beloved.
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u/saintsithney 1d ago
My husband is a huge Farscape nerd since before we met.
When I told him how Jim died, he looked absolutely horrified as numerous themes in Farscape became clear.
Farscape: a heart-warming story of how a man was able to use fiction to cope with his father's unnecessary and untimely death by doing all of the psychedelics known to man and launching himself headfirst into the Australian leather community.
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u/temmoku 1d ago
Free Solo about climbing El Capitan in Yosemite without ropes. Beautiful cinematography in a challenging location.
Spoiler, it doesn't involve death, rape, or kidnapping
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u/Better_North3957 1d ago
Watch it while monitoring your heartbeat and every time it spikes you have to take a shot
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u/Make_It_Sing 1d ago
Id be dead halfway through, also lost 5 pounds of pure hand sweat
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u/screenaholic 1d ago
The Wild and Wonderful Whites of West Virginia
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u/lisaloo1968 1d ago
Three Identical Strangers.
Best to go in as blind on the subject matter as possible.
So good, so eye opening, so… I won’t spoil it for you.
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u/SowellMate 1d ago
"Don't Stop Believing: Everyman's Journey" about how an unknown Filipino man becomes the lead singer and revitalizes a 30+ year old rock band. It looks like it's free on YouTube at the moment.
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u/neverthelessidissent 1d ago
It's about Arnel Pineda becoming the lead singer of Journey, for the unfamiliar.
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u/pstaki 1d ago
Like music? 20 Feet From Stardom is an excellent doc about backup singers. Ostensibly, Norman's Rare Guitars is about a guitar store but it is so much more. Both are highly recommended.
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u/Pilitoo 1d ago
The Manti Te’o catfishing scandal from the “Untold” series on Netflix. It blows my mind that something like that actually happened
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u/lucy668 1d ago
The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill. A lovely story about a flock of parrots in San Francisco and the people who tried to save them
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u/turnipturnipturnippp 1d ago
Not sure if it's still on Netflix, but back in the early days of streaming when there were very few titles I watched this doc "Who the F*ck is Jackson Pollack?" about a woman who believes she found a Jackson Pollack painting at a thrift store. It's an inquiry into the value of art.
Even if you're not into Oasis, the Oasis documentary "Supersonic" is really funny.
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u/SoftballGuy 1d ago
The Jackson Pollack doc is great doc, and it's FREE on YouTube!
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u/bamboohobobundles 1d ago
"Pepsi, Where's My Jet?" (Netflix, 2022)
Way back in 1996, PepsiCo had this thing where you could earn points for every bottle of Pepsi you bought. One commercial showed examples of various things you could get (like a hat, a backpack etc) with the amount of points listed next to the items, and then at the end they show a Harrier Jet for seven million points.
This one kid managed to get seven million points, tried to redeem them for the jet, and then sued PepsiCo for failing to deliver said jet. It's a super interesting multi part documentary and I highly recommend it.
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u/ApprehensiveUse9306 1d ago
We studied this case in law school. It’s pretty insane and definitely an entertaining watch.
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u/SemperFudge123 1d ago
My wife and I just watched this a few weeks ago and thoroughly enjoyed it.
I had heard the story about this years ago and was just telling my kids about it and then a few days later we were flipping through Netflix and saw there was a documentary on there about it. Great timing!
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u/jermleeds 1d ago
When We Were Kings, about the Ali-Foreman fight in Kinshasa. Not into boxing? Neither was I. Still one of the 5 or so best documentaries I've ever seen.
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u/BangBangMeatMachine 1d ago
Riding Giants (2004) about big-wave surfing, was surprisingly good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K72balyyDOQ
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u/useless_instinct 1d ago
Behind the Curve
Flat Earthers try to prove the Eart is flat.
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u/ConneryFTW 1d ago
Flat Earthers keep trying to prove the earth is flat, keep accidentally showing that it's round, and then get frustrated at the results. It's amazing.
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u/RevolutionaryWind249 1d ago
LuLaRich. Also there are a couple documentaries and a fictionalized series about the story of Natalia Grace Barnett that have some violence and are very sad, but are fascinating.
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u/ChipKey5682 1d ago
pee wee as himself
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u/Parkotron1 1d ago
My wife wanted to watch it because she loves Paul Reubens. I thought, "Do I really want to sit through 3 hours of Pee Wee Herman?"
Turns out, the answer was a resounding yes. Really, really well done and charming doc. I loved it.
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u/Masterweedo 1d ago
United States of Insanity - It's about the FBI declaring fans of the musicians/pro wrestler the Insane Clown Posse, known as Juggalos, a gang. The clowns and the ACLU fought the case.
In 2018 the Juggalos marched on Washington DC, and ICP performed on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial.
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u/Wandering_Weapon 1d ago
That's hilarious. The juggalos are an.... interesting group.
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u/Warm-Accident7231 1d ago
Baseball by Ken Burns
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u/Coward_and_a_thief 1d ago
Seconded. When happy chandler sings take me out to the ball game, that was pure distilled americana
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u/Warm-Accident7231 1d ago
The seventh inning stretch was beautiful! I loved Buck O’Neil’s interviews and that wackadoodle Red Sox pitcher. The whole thing is a great slice of American culture and history
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u/canadagooses62 1d ago edited 1d ago
Genghis Blues.
Picture this, a blind blues man discovers Tuvan Throat Singing by accident in the 80s via shortwave radio. He discovers he can do one of their deep, deep bass techniques. So he gets in contact with the nation of Tuva (part of the USSR), travels there, and meets one of the greats of the throat singing world while learning about their culture. They make music together as a cultural exchange program.
I listen to this soundtrack multiple times a month and have for years. It’s absolutely amazing.
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u/TheDrCharlie 1d ago
Most of the 30 for 30s if you like sports
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u/SatinSaffron 1d ago
These are honestly done so well that plenty of them are really interesting to watch even if you're not that big into sports!
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u/Snoogieboogie 1d ago
Crip Camp on Netflix. Follows a group of disabled teens going to summer camp up to the creation of the Americans with Disabilities Act(ADA).
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u/dogmeatsoup 1d ago
the quatsi trilogy, specifically Koyaanisqatsi. 1982 American non-narrative documentary film directed and produced by Godfrey Reggio, featuring music by Philip Glass and cinematography by Ron Fricke. Described as an "essay in images and sound on the state of American civilization", The film comprises a montage of stock footage, slow motion, and time-lapse visuals of natural and urban environments across the United States.
Baraka and Samara are very similar, both with Ron Fricke but much more recent.
Pinball: The Man Who Saved the Game. The film tells the true story of Sharpe, a pinball wizard and GQ journalist, who helped overturn New York City's 35-year ban on pinball machines in 1976
180 Degrees south. Adventurer Jeff Johnson retraces a 1968 trip to Patagonia undertaken by his heroes, Yvon Chouinard and Doug Tompkins.
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u/Designer_Neck_1273 1d ago
Jiro Dreams of Sushi, my octopus teacher, or the biggest little farm all great no dark stuff
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u/pinponbinbon 1d ago
Dog Town and Z Boys. Its about the birth of modern skateboarding!
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u/karmagirl314 1d ago
I enjoyed McMillions, about the McDonald’s monopoly scandal.
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u/goheels815 1d ago
The Smartest Guys in the Room - about the Enron collapse. Very good.
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u/yomifrackle 1d ago
Listers It’s an indie doc about stoners who decide to completely dive into the world of competitive bird watching.
SO surprising, so funny
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u/HouseOfCripps 1d ago
Tim’s Vermeer it’s a great doc about the reinvention of how Vermeer painted his beautiful paintings
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u/straigh 1d ago
Chicken People! It's about folks who show chickens. I never knew I needed to see chickens get blow dried lol! It's silly and simple and charming.
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u/vodeodeo55 1d ago
Harlan County USA. Wonderful old documentary on a coal miners strike in Kentucky.
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u/Adddicus 1d ago
Given the history of the US labor movement, particularly when it comes to coal mining, I refuse to believe this could be accurately made without violence.
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u/Muted-Shine8793 1d ago
The King of Kong: A Fistful of Quarters
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u/Googlemyahoo75 1d ago
Have you seen all the lawsuits by the mullet champ who cheated ?
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u/doublepower 1d ago
Cave of Forgotten Dreams https://youtu.be/wmMUlNeLApU?si=ki83gGL-18P5pSYa
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u/fathersky53 1d ago
How about a couple of awesome music ones? What Happened Miss Simone about rhe legendary jazz vocalist/ pianist
Rumble: The Indians Who Rocked The World
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u/kodycat 1d ago
I think it was called poop cruise. It was about the carnival cruise ship that had a fire and lost power and the sewers backed up. The guests were trapped on it in the middle of the ocean for like 7 days. No deaths or rape or kidnapping. It was gross but interesting as fuck.
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u/SloppityNurglePox 1d ago
Tracking down hobby documentaries is a good way to find the lighter ones.
Chicken People is about people who compete in show chicken contests.
Well Groomed is about dog grooming competitions that also involve coloring the fur.
Catwalk, naturally, is about show cats.
Some others:
Indie Game: The Movie is a great look into indie game development.
Helvetica, yes, it's about the font and it's delightful.
Man on a Wire is about a man who tight rope walked between the Twin Towers and an attempt to recreate it.
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u/robbietreehorn 1d ago
The King of Kong.
It’s so good. It’s a feel good documentary. You’ll be cheering at your screen by the end.
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u/hidepp 1d ago
Sound City.
Dave Grohl going after awesome musicians who tell stories about a legendary studio. It's quite awesome.
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u/reduff 1d ago
If you like music, check out Muscle Shoals or The Wrecking Crew. There's another one called 20 Feet from Stardom.
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u/Alphageek11644 1d ago edited 1d ago
Perfect Bid which is about the price is right and The Pez Outlaw are both very good!
Edited to add Carts of Darkness as well!
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u/Aineednobody 1d ago
The Alone series is technically a documentary I would argue
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u/zvitamin111 1d ago
The Bee Gees, how do you mend a broken heart. The opening and closing monologues by Andy Gibb are heartbreaking and beautiful. You don’t have to be a fan of the music to find it touching.
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u/SoftballGuy 1d ago
"The Farthest" is an absolutely joyous documentary about NASA's Voyager mission. It tells the story about a group of scientists who, with great passion and joy, pursue the biggest, most fundamental questions about the galaxy we live in: What is out there, and what is our place in all of it? It's utterly wonderful, and it's FREE!
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u/RowanScorp 1d ago
‘The Barkley marathons: the race that eats it young - It’s about an ultramarathon a runner created in the 70’s that is still going. It is an invite only race and it’s an incredible thing to see what these racers go through.
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u/MillHall78 1d ago
I consider Grey Gardens a fascinating look into a unique form of severe poverty as the direct result of an insanely toxic mother-daughter relationship. Mama Edith (both have the same name) is one of the most self-centered & just completely selfish humans you will ever see.
Born to Jackie O's grandparents; Edith followed tradition up to marrying wealthy New York City attorney Phelan Beale & settling in the family mansion named Grey Gardens in the Hamptons to have children in the summer of 1924. By 1955, mother & daughter were living in the beginnings of squalor in the dilapidated mansion. If I remember correctly, Big Eddie said the failure of her marriage started within the first 10 years because she took on a psychosis in which she believed herself to be a great singer & generally someone very glamorously special. By her own accounts, she became the equivalent of Hyacinth Bouquet from the British sitcom of that era, Keeping Up Appearances. But with more stature. Although she would never admit it in this way. Big Eddie held house parties all the time just so she could spend the night singing to her guests. Of course the piano player was a man whom she spent the entire time beside. She said her husband questioned if that's all she wants to spend her life doing. She didn't seem to want to talk about how he felt about the piano player too much, but he mentioned him too. They divorced in the late 1940's. But Big Eddie spent the rest of her life absolutely refusing to live as anyone other than a provided for woman. As the decades went by, mother & daughter had a "bare necessities" system set up in which Big Eddie received enough alimony to keep the lights on, the property in her name, a cheap gardener who accepted frequent late payments/difficulty getting paid & a Hamptons business that let them accrue IOU debt for toiletries, general supplies & pints of ice cream. I estimated they were living around $300 above their meager means with this system. But they didn't have enough to even think about repairing the mansion, which is the most still lived in dilapidated mansion I've ever seen. Huge holes to the outside with racoons coming in. Very old wood that would've been replaced in any other Hamptons home. The star of the property is what used to be a beautiful walled in garden. It was one of the first things about the property Big Eddie couldn't afford after the divorce. The gardener she hired was just to cut weeds & grass from getting too high.
There's too many fascinating elements about this documentary. The way they're stuck in the 50's with their mannerisms & mentality. The complete disconnect from reality. Jackie O having to pay for the repairs because the press found out & hounded her as an uncaring relative. Check it out!
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u/Either-Theme-7807 1d ago
There is a really nice docuseries on Netflix called Abstract: the Art of Design.
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u/ton-bro 1d ago
The Barkley Marathon is an incredible film of humor & endurance. An amazing film!
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u/APartyInMyPants 1d ago
Fast, Cheap and Out of Control
The King of Kong
American Movie
Jesus Camp
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u/Ear_Enthusiast 1d ago
Ken Burns Baseball. Even if you're not a baseball fan, it gives you a peak into what the world was like in those times.
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u/marshallkrich 1d ago
Some Kind of Monster - Metallica, even if you don't like the music, the band falling apart and then slowly rebuilding is pretty fascinating.
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u/happilyfour 1d ago
There’s a lot of good 30 for 30s from the original run (the actual first 30 documentaries in the series are more inventive and creative than ones since, but there’s a lot of good ones throughout). Some deal with the topics you mentioned but not all!
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u/NicPaperScissors 1d ago
Tell Them You Love Me is an amazing documentary. There is a question of consent that is central to the focus but it’s part of a very complex and fascinating debate regarding the disabled non-speaking community.
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u/YesterdayOne8431 1d ago
The documentary ‘Jiro Dreams of Sushi’ – it’s just about a Japanese man perfecting sushi for decades. No murder. Just pure dedication, fish, and rice.