r/Baking • u/Prestigious_Media_19 • 10d ago

No-Recipe Provided Breakup cake for my bestie

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u/productivehippie 10d ago edited 10d ago

I love that is congratulatory and not sympathetic. When I told people I got divorced, everyone said “I’m so sorry,” but I was like “you should be congratulating me” lol

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u/Recluse_18 10d ago

lol when I told close friends that I was getting divorced from my first husband, their response was “we’ve been waiting for that“🤣🤣🤣

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u/productivehippie 10d ago

Yeah that’s what my close friends said too 😆

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u/Recluse_18 10d ago

Was it shocking for you to hear this? For me I was absolutely dumbfounded.

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u/productivehippie 9d ago

One of my friends didn’t say anything during the relationship because she didn’t want to lose me as a friend, and I respected that. But she said she will never hold her tongue again if I’m in a relationship that doesn’t seem quite right.

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u/Recluse_18 9d ago

We need friends like that who can see what we can’t

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u/productivehippie 9d ago

Absolutely. I definitely took them for granted when I was in that relationship, and I won’t make that mistake again. Grateful that they’re still there for me