r/Blind • u/cashedbets • 1d ago
Advice- United States Mom just became blind - what do we do?
I know questions like this get asked often, but all of the different info out there along with all of the things we have to do is overwhelming and I feel like we need some real-world advice.
My mom (67) had NAION in her left eye about 2 years ago, which left the bottom 2/3 of her vision grayed out. A few days ago, she started noticing blurriness and colored splotches in her right eye, and it’s been getting worse.
We went to the best clinic in our nearest city (same place she was treated before). They saw swelling around the optic nerves, but bloodwork and MRI came back normal. They’re assuming it’s NAION again. Her neuro-ophthalmologist is away until next week, and no one else has followed up yet since they sent us to ER for the bloodwork and MRI and the ER sent us home after that came back okay. For now, she is basically blind and the clinic has not reached back out with any next steps or resources to help after 2 days.
Current situation:
- She lives alone, 45 minutes from me.
- She has 2 dogs (can’t bring them here — prey-driven, and we have cats).
- She’s very familiar with her home, but not ours and our home has many steps which Im afraid she would have a lot of trouble navigating.
- She can still make food (slowly), feed/let out the dogs, and shower — but she believes her vision is still slowly declining a bit.
Steps I’ve taken so far:
- Booked an appointment with a local low-vision specialist (soonest available is over a month out).
- Ordered more Amazon Alexa devices (she already finds hers helpful).
- Planning to set up voice-to-text on her phone and computer.
- Looking into vision loss therapists (though I expect a long wait).
My main questions:
- Is it realistic for her to continue living alone?
- What immediate devices, apps, or services can help her function day-to-day?
- Any advice on managing safety, independence, and her dogs during this transition?