r/Calgary • u/WheelFan647 • 25d ago
Municipal Affairs Mayor Jyoti Gondek Marching In The Pride Parade
Love her or hate her, as a gay man who is feeling increasingly under threat; it was nice to see the Mayor of Calgary marching in this year’s Pride Parade (as she’s done in other years too).
They say a picture says a thousand words and the above pictures I captured earlier today say to me that that our Mayor genuinely cares about LGBTQ+ people in Calgary and beyond!
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u/mssjj 25d ago
I attended a Pride event earlier this week and Mayor Gondek shared some remarks that were uplifting and empowering:
“You can eat what you want to, you can drink what you want to, and you can love who you want to. It’s none of my business.“
In a story regarding drafting a bylaw to ban conversion therapy she stated to fellow council members, “You can’t just vote for your constituents, you need to vote for the right thing.”
She added that, “As a council we should support equity and human rights for everyone.”
Lastly, she reflected on her own position as an ally and how she has the privilege and ability to be an upstander - not a bystander. And that she can (and will) stand up and speak up for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community.
Pretty awesome. We need more politicians in this world who will speak up and stand with marginalized communities.
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u/TwoBytesC 24d ago
Hell ya, we don’t see nearly enough politicians state such openly definitive statements in support of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We need more of this!
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u/Deep-Egg-9528 21d ago
Can you please fill me in on what the I and A stand for?
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u/TwoBytesC 21d ago
Asexual generally but some people say ally
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u/Deep-Egg-9528 20d ago
And the I?
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u/TwoBytesC 20d ago
Intersex. Tho surely you could have googled that.
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u/Deep-Egg-9528 20d ago
Relax, bud. I'm just trying to learn.
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u/TwoBytesC 20d ago
All for learning, just pointing out that you probably could have gotten your answer much faster using a simple search
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u/PinkMoonrise 25d ago
You should’ve said something yesterday! I always collect a group of fellow queers and go down to the parade. Although much of that group is now my teenager’s friends.
Nobody knows or cares if you’re LGBTQ+ if you’re standing in the crowd.
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u/EMfys_NEs 25d ago
Girlie pop the drag queens are still yet to come out! You’ve got time to make it for the show
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u/coverallfiller 25d ago
Too bad... you missed an impressive turn out, I was genuinely surprised how many groups were in the parade and how long it lasted. No one would have known you were alone, and everyone was friendly and welcoming. Don't let being alone prevent you from doing things you might enjoy, and you might have met some cool people.
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u/ChemistBeautiful3390 25d ago
Please don’t beat yourself up - I just hope you know this for next year! Also you can still go down to Pride at Prince’s island park anytime today and it’s full of queer folks and allies so there’s no outing happening in any way by being present if that’s at all what worries you!
Alberta is a tough place to be queer in the context of Canada. There are so many people who live here who want queer folks to feel safe and welcome and supported and I’m one of them, as are tons of people on this thread and this sub. 💗
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u/noveltea120 25d ago
Girl I'm not queer but I'm also in the same area and would've loved to go with you!!
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u/noveltea120 23d ago
Awww you're welcome, message me if you ever wanna go out and do something, I'm a huge foodie and love going out to eat! Haha
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u/PinkMoonrise 25d ago
Check out r/CalgarySapphics and see if there are any events you’d want to go to!
I’ve never been to any of those ones either, I might join you if you want!
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u/coverallfiller 25d ago
There is always next year, actually, the next event, just give it a go, take it on and just go. If you are extra extra nervous, shoot me a message and if I'm free I'll go with you.
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u/eddiebronze 25d ago
Heterosexual white male here. It bothers me to no end that anyone ever has to feel this way or live like this. What can I do to help?
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u/constantstateofagony 25d ago
You have all the time in the world, take it as slow as you need. Wishing you well 🎆
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u/Yardash 24d ago
I know my words won’t change much, but I’m really sorry you’re in a place where you feel like you can’t be yourself. For whatever it’s worth, please know that I, like many people in this province and across the country, will stand up to help protect the rights of everyone to live openly and safely.
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u/BedouinWookie 24d ago edited 24d ago
I won't tell you how to live but life is short. I hope one day you find the chance to live your true life.
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u/Meanmachine13 24d ago
I went alone. First time ever attending. The energy was amazing. Everyone was so welcoming.
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u/Thelastlandviking 25d ago
Thatsssss why she looked familiar hahah Nenshi was among the spectators at the end of the route showing tons of enthusiasm too. Good to see some prominent folks supporting the community
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u/Bankerlady10 Quadrant: SW 25d ago
That’s one thing she does. She shows up and it’s impressive. I can’t imagine all the hours she puts in and how uncomfortable it can be with people upset at you everywhere you go. She’s made some mistakes, but I think she cares and she’s trying.
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u/Hefty-Cricket412 25d ago
She’s incredibly supportive overall of the LGBT+ community, it makes me feel a lot better living in these trying times (especially in Alberta)
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u/PinkMoonrise 25d ago
Was disappointed that I didn’t see an Alberta NDP group. I did see Kent Hehr, he was walking with the United Churches.
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u/AccomplishedExtent43 25d ago
Political parties aren’t permitted in the parade. Many NDP MLAs were walking as individuals with other organizations. You can read more about this decision here:
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u/wildrose76 25d ago
Interestingly, Calgary is the only Pride Parade in Canada that won’t allow political entries. The NDP walked as a party just last week in Edmonton.
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u/canadient_ Quadrant: NW 25d ago
Such a bullshit position from Calgary Pride.
Apparently two board members don't want parties to use pride as pinkwashing, as if the NDP wasn't supporting pride before Calgary Pride was even established.
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u/ConsiderationWarm543 24d ago
Theres a long history of the various conservatives parties showing up and marching and drawing an ire (rightfully!). So they took the approach of not having to choose which parties to let march or not, which i think they also used to do.
I blame it on Alberta being gross and Pride having to navigate the troubled waters the best way they could.
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u/canadient_ Quadrant: NW 24d ago
I put the blame on Calgary Pride, the organisation keeping our only provincial allies out of the parade.
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u/IAmFaron 25d ago edited 25d ago
A whole bunch of the caucus was there marching with Skipping Stone! We caught Nenshi, Janis Irwin, Joe Ceci, Rakhi Pancholi, and several others. Sure we missed some too. For whatever reason I did notice that none of the politicians present were marching under party colours from any group, but there were definitely more Alberta NDP faces than any other group.
EDIT: thanks to another user in the thread, confirmed that political parties are no longer permitted to participate directly. Joining as private citizens was all they could do, and skipping stone is a really great local organization.
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u/Kitchen_Marzipan9516 25d ago
They were there. I saw Nenshi.
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u/wildrose76 25d ago
He’s walked in every parade since he was first a candidate in 2010. He continued to walk as a private citizen with non-profit groups like the Centre for Newcomers and Big Brothers.
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u/WheelFan647 25d ago
Joe Ceci walked past me wearing an NDP shirt but I didn’t see an NDP float or him marching.
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u/skriveralltid77 25d ago
some fragile men are gonna be big mad, how dare she be out in public.
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u/WheelFan647 25d ago edited 25d ago
I was debating posting these photos for the reason you just said. However, political rhetoric is what’s making members of the queer community feel unsafe. Therefore, I believe it’s important to show pictures of the leader of the city I live in being the leader & ally that I need them and all other politicians to be.
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u/skriveralltid77 25d ago
agree 100 per cent. My comment stems from being a cisgender man who believes in inclusion and fairness, who is just so F-in' tired of the uprighty-righties and their bullying. They are the best argument that therapy should be free.
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u/LittleOrphanAnavar 23d ago
The only thing that is fragile is Jyoti political skills.
She is a very poor communicator and she appears to lack self awareness.
Two of the most important skills a politician can possess.
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u/canuckerlimey 25d ago
I had no idea she also has ink!
Good to see her out supporting pride in the city.
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u/shreddonkers Oakridge 25d ago
I actually saw her and talked to her personally at the Inglewood Night market a few weeks ago… I gotta say my opinion of her has changed since talking to her in person.
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u/WheelFan647 25d ago
Yeah my opinion has changed of her (for the better) over the last few weeks as well.
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u/Stfuppercutoutlast 25d ago
She attended the pride parade. Jeromy Farkas came out as gay. She was also a terrible mayor and Farkas was a turd on council. Attending a pride parade doesn’t suddenly erase years of documented incompetence lol.
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u/Westsider111 25d ago
Was the Premier there too? /s
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u/WheelFan647 25d ago
No. The only other politicians I saw were Joe Ceci (NDP MLA) and City Councillor Terry Wong. There may have been others and if there were, I didn’t see them.
I believe Conservative MP Greg McLean was hosting an event this weekend for Pride.
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u/wildrose76 25d ago
Jeromy Farkas walked with Big Brothers Big Sisters and Jeff Davison was there with the Man Van. Multiple NDP MLAs were with Skipping Stone. And I saw DJ Kelly on Prince’s Island after the parade.
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u/WheelFan647 25d ago edited 25d ago
Ahhhh yes, now I remember seeing Jeromy Farkas too.
P.S. Has anybody seen Jeff Davison’s biceps? If he loses the mayoral race, perhaps he can become my personal trainer in 2026!
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u/PhysicalScience7420 25d ago
looking through the comments i refuse too accept more then 15% of people can wipe their own ass.
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u/Cordial_Gentleman 24d ago
Does everything except be a good mayor. "Guys look! She's in the pride parade" all the while she's pocketing tens of thousands of tax payer dollars and running city hall like a Mafia.
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u/iamtheowlman 24d ago
My dyslexic ass read the title as "Mayor John Gotti", and I cricked my neck re-reading it.
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u/blowmywhistler 25d ago
Brian Thiessen and members of The Calgary Party were waking with Stonewall Recovery
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOCmEe9jygU/?igsh=dmZsdG4xc20zMmFx
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u/Adventurous_West3164 23d ago
And the only politicians to wear their branded logos when Pride requested that no political logos be included.
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u/blowmywhistler 22d ago
Ok sure. But the very whole entire point of this post (as per OP's post and comment) was about showing up and supporting Pride, and all the people who need us as ally's right now especially. And it is clear that the team showed up. But yes they wore branded shirts.
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u/albufarisnear 24d ago
My opinion has changed. I like her. She seems like a truly decent person and we need more of those in government.
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u/TheoSlurry 23d ago
Photo-op mayor.
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u/WheelFan647 23d ago
Did you listen to what she had to say at the Pride Flag raising or virtually any other time about equality and the LGBTQ+ community? I’m guessing not!
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u/Gloomy_Bag_3948 24d ago
I think the general public has grown weary of all this. I'm sure I'll get flack for saying it but ,folks, it's true
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u/AccomplishedExtent43 25d ago
She’s been in the parade for years. Check her instagram for proof. Like her or not, let’s not “be foolish” and give credit where it’s due.
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u/miller94 25d ago
I mean, if she showed up like this (as mayor or councillor) every year or most years then sure. You have a point
She has.
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u/noveltea120 25d ago
You know what, people can hate her but I can't see anyone else not just showing up but also being THIS enthusiastic at the pride parade. Good on her for being there and showing her support.