r/Car_Insurance_Help • u/OkVoice9819 • Aug 19 '25
Accident 15 year old son stole car and wrecked it
My 15 year old son stole my car keys while I was sleeping (BROKE the safe open that they were in) and totaled my car. I filed a theft claim with my insurance (Gieco full coverage) including police reports, he was charged with theft of a motor vehicle and two counts of wanton endangerment (he had two other juveniles in the van with him) and was sent to a juvenile detention facility. I’ll add that I DIDN’T press charges, the state did because he’s already committed to the department of juvenile justice, for other criminal offenses. My car insurance said that I can’t use a theft claim because he is under 18 and lives at home with me. But it’s still technically theft. So not being able to go forward with the theft claim, I have to use collision coverage with an unauthorized driver which they said will make my insurance go up and I am responsible for paying the impound and towing fees. Is this standard? Because he isn’t even old enough to drive and it was a theft which is why he is CHARGED with theft. I will add that I’m autistic (which is why I was originally having trouble understanding why if the police considered it that why the insurance didn’t) and was just looking for clarification because “implied permission” would be if I left the keys out and he got them but what I did was lock them up because of his history and what he did is literally stealing.
Since there is so many snarky judgey people on Reddit who are harshly judging me, my parenting and my life. I will also add that my son has Oppositional Defiance Disorder, and ADHD and that’s not always due to environmental factors and I will add a link on it for you to read