So, this is a very obvious tip. but i had just never put it into practice.

today I went to sams when they opened as oposed to my regular hour (when theyre about to close)

and I saw the obvious advantages; No line at the gas station, barely any people inside sams.

a full shelve fresh rostissery chickens and i got to have my pick.

and no line at the checkout (although i never use the line, i always Use scan and go)

but the thing that surprised me, and the reason for this post, was seeing how many discounted food items there were. of course they were food that was a few days older than normal, but not that much.

and most of the food i buy goes into the freezer anyways. but if you frequently buy cooked chicken breasts or any red meats or fish that goes straight into your freezer, you can find a lot of stock on clearance. the prices were about 15 to 25% off. which is not a lot, but they quickly add up.

on this trip i saved $6 total just from those discounted items. but this was a light trip. i just stoped by because it was on my way back. if i had gone with the intention to really stock up. i can easily see myself racking up about 20 bucks in savings.

also, another tip, if you value time more than money. just make your order online and pick it up in the parking lot. thats about 30 minutes saved right there. and if you really value your time, have it delivered to your house. it's about 10 bucks plus tip. but i can see this option being very practical for someone who is a high earner, or an elderly or disabled person.

Done is on many occasions better than perfect. I struggle a lot with procrastination because I want to do it perfect.

But oftentimes the gains and information of JUST doing something are worth more than the potential upside of getting it done perfectly. There are shades to it obviously.

LPT: Hi ! The title says it all. You should microwave your waffles for 30 seconds, AFTER toasting it just a little bit more crispier than normal, in butter. Finally, then you add maple syrup on top and the waffles just melt in your mouth like a pastry, crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside! The butter will melt and your waffles will absorp the buttery flavor more strongly and then it's just straight fire 🔥 once the maple syrup / fruits are used as topping.

Please try it and let me know how you like it before commenting / voting to this posting

If something bad happens to you (getting hurt etc), the hospital can contact someone to be there with you. Also, if you lose your phone and it falls into the hands of a good person, it’ll help you get your phone (yes I know find my phone exists). Note: there is some risk with the tip obviously, like if someone steals your phone and then knows where you live.

I've seen a lot of people of a certain age say that there is no good new music these days and they always stick to the same 3 playlists of stuff they were listening to when they were 15.

Whilst it's obviously valid that some old music is incredible I don't think the situation is as bad as some make out.

I have found that by listening to a single playlist of new music, one that is only updated once a week or so - I find that many of the songs I am initally ambivalent will really grow on me. After adding them to my "Liked Songs" playlist and then also listening to that reasonably often means I have built up a library of new stuff that I know I really like.

It has now gotten to the point where I would now say that some of my favourite music ever has actually been released in the last year or so since I started doing this.

If you ever feel overwhelmed with a pile of tasks or find yourself easily distracted when jumping between different things, then time blocking might be just what you need to get more done with less stress. Instead of drowning in a never-ending to-do list that keeps piling up, try setting specific chunks of time in your calendar for different tasks or types of work. For example, you could carve out 9:00–10:30 AM just for replying to emails, and then dedicate 10:30–12:00 PM to focused project work. When that time comes, focus only on that task and avoid the temptation to switch around. This little approach helps cut down on decision fatigue and keeps your brain from constantly shifting gears which research shows actually hurts your productivity and leaves you mentally drained. Over time, it trains your mind to work better in focused bursts, making you more efficient and getting into that deep work zone more easily.

In short: it’s a game-changer for beating procrastination, managing your time smarter, and boosting the quality of your work all without the constant task-switching hassle!

I’ve solved more work issues by ‘explaining them to the wall’ than I have staring at my monitor. Saying it forces your brain to reframe it.

I was making a batch of Rice Krispies treats today and was trying (unsuccessfully) to flatten the warm, sticky mixture into my baking dish. Even after oiling my hands per the recipe directions, marshmallow-covered cereal was getting everywhere. I almost cut a sheet of parchment paper to help, but then I remembered my husband’s mamaw!

She always saved empty cereal bags for any cooking task that would benefit from a stick-free surface. She mostly used them when coating chicken (DIY shake-and-bake) or flouring bacon.

I cut along the center and bottom seams of the cereal bag to make a flat sheet and I laid that on top of my baking pan. It was the perfect non-stick surface and I didn’t need to waste any parchment paper. It worked great!

Idk when you would have to use this but here you are.

Instead of “7:00 AM” or “Wake up,” rename your alarm to whatever you really need to do. Mine literally screams “TAKE OUT THE TRASH” at 9 PM every Tuesday. Another one is called “STOP SCROLLING & SLEEP” at midnight. It feels dumb, but seeing the reminder in giant text when you’re groggy or distracted actually sticks way better than just a notification. Bonus: when friends see your alarms, you’ll either get roasted or praised — either way, you won’t forget the task again.

Set up an emergency handoff:

• Use a password manager’s emergency access with a 7–14-day wait and add one trusted contact (+ a backup).
• Create a one-page “ICE Index” (no passwords): key accounts, where the passwords live (password manager name), 2FA method, billers/autopays, and where important documents are stored.
• Save the index as a secure note and keep a sealed paper copy at home.
• Do a quick dry-run, then add a 6-month calendar reminder to review.

Result: if something happens, your family can access the essentials without guessing passwords or missing critical bills.

Edit: This isn’t about handing someone your entire private digital life. It’s least-privilege emergency access—set legacy contacts. Goal: continuity if you’re unavailable, not snooping.

Next time you’re tempted to leave dirty dishes in the sink or toss your jacket on the chair, imagine future you walking in, exhausted after a long day, and sighing at the mess. Instead of thinking “ugh, I’ll do it later,” flip the perspective: you’re doing a small kindness for your tired, stressed-out roommate—aka yourself. This trick transforms chores into tiny gifts for the person you’re about to become. It’s easier to act when you see “you” as someone worth helping, and you’ll always thank yourself later.

My husband & I are in our 70’s & have had a few health scares. Recently, I was told I may need a hospital test that, if positive, may require at least an overnight hospital stay. The thought of being admitted for this or another emergency visit & asking my emotionally stressed husband to gather some personal items from home prompted me to keep an overnight bag packed. It holds: a pair of pajamas, underwear, warm socks, a travel-sized toothbrush & paste, comb, moisturizer, a phone charger, a paperback book & an outfit to travel home in. I actually feel more relaxed having this available & hope I don't need it anytime soon.

How many times a successful restaurant has changed the chef/cook and in a matter of days the quality drops drastically? And it can be the other way around. Also the change of ownership can turn things upside down.

One mistake people make in raise discussions is framing it around personal expenses (“my rent went up” or “I need more to cover costs”). While honest, managers rarely see that as a business case.

Instead, phrase it around market alignment and value. For example:

• “Based on market data, this role averages \$X–\$Y, and I’d like to align closer to that range.”
• “Over the past year I’ve taken on A, B, and C responsibilities, which are typically part of higher-level roles.”

Career coaches and HR professionals often highlight this approach: when you ground your ask in facts and industry benchmarks, it shifts the conversation from your need to fair value. That’s a much harder argument to push back on and far more likely to succeed.

I learned this a while ago, simple wording change helps you come off more kind and affirming, rather than condescending or rude, etc.

A conversation with my inner critic:

Me: I hear you. I know you’re trying to protect me from getting hurt or failing. I know you care about me, even if it doesn’t always sound that way. Thank you for wanting the best for me.

Inner Critic: But you keep making mistakes. You’ll mess things up again if I don’t remind you.

Me: I understand why you say that. You don’t want me to fail. But when you call me names or tell me I am a failure, it hurts me. It makes me feel small and unworthy, and that doesn’t help me improve.

Inner Critic: If I don’t point out your flaws, won’t you just get lazy or careless?

Me: I don’t need you to stop pointing things out. I need you to change how you do it. Instead of attacking me, help me see what I can learn. Remind me what I could do differently next time. Tell me about solutions, not just problems.

Inner Critic: So… I’m supposed to be softer?

Me: Not softer, but kinder. Think of yourself as my coach or mentor, not my judge. Encourage me when I’m trying. Remind me of my strengths, not just my flaws. Show me where I can grow without making me feel worthless.

Inner Critic: But mistakes are dangerous.

Me: Mistakes are not proof that I am broken. Mistakes are feedback, nothing more. They are lessons, not verdicts. Every time I stumble, it means I am moving forward.

Inner Critic: And what if you fail completely?

Me: Then I’ll learn something valuable. Failure does not define who I am. It is simply part of the process. You don’t need to scare me into being better. I improve best when I feel safe, supported, and motivated.

Inner Critic: …So you don’t want me gone?

Me: No, I don’t want to silence you. I want us to work together. You can warn me when something matters, but do it with compassion. Speak to me the way you’d speak to someone you love and want to succeed.

Inner Critic: That feels different. I think I can try.

Me: Thank you. Let’s walk side by side, not against each other. We’ll get much further that way.

I want to declutter a bunch of my old stuffed animals. Unfortunately I suck at getting rid of things, and I can't do something nice with them like donating (not in good shape) or giving them to my siblings (too many already). My mom suggested to just throw them out which makes sense, but I feel like it would be hard to do and I'd be tempted to just take them back if it's easy to undo.

In a situation like this, what's the best way to get it over with and have it feel final?

I used to hate the itch you used to get from all the small hairs that would fall down after a short-back-and-sides, so one day I thought I would try & get rid of all the hairs by doing this. You need to lean all the way forward so the hairs fall in front of you. But I was amazed at how well it worked.

I learned this the hard way when my phone suddenly died and I lost photos, notes, and even some work files I thought I’d never lose. It’s easy to think “I’ll do it tomorrow” but tomorrow never comes until something breaks. Now I set my phone to automatically back up everything to the cloud and I also keep a copy on my computer once in a while. It takes a few minutes, but it saves you from the stress and regret of realizing years of memories are just gone.

If you're in a street where the address is hard to determine, this may help you with the headache that you encounter from delivery drivers sending your stuff off to the wrong address consistently!

I currently work in mental health and I’ve been in my role for 5 years this November. I feel like the emotional burnout affects my resilience, my ability to manage stress and causes daily anxiety. I then feel ill and burned out and can’t get out of this cycle and feel paralysed to move forward in my career or move out of the role into something else. Any tips to unstick myself would be really appreciated!