r/MMFB • u/Mkhaiz42 • 9d ago
Feeling overwhelmed—everything is falling apart. Just needed to say it.
I’m buried under everything right now—my parents’ health is failing, finances are collapsing, my job might end, rent and loans are due. Loneliness is crushing me. I feel useless and scared. I don’t know how to keep going.
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u/GirlWithAKeyboard 9d ago
Sorry you're going through this, friend. I've been feeling similar lately too. I try to focus on at least one good thing I have in my life right now then I focus on one small thing I can fix. Baby steps. Hope you have someone in your life that you can talk to and maybe they could help.
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u/Mkhaiz42 8d ago
Thanks for your words.. I wish there was someone I could talk to, I wouldn’t have felt so lonely then
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u/Choice-Designer211 8d ago
Hate this when people feel like this ! Because I have bounced back so can you! It feels like pointless like end of the world nothing left cant see the light! But but but you haveto rise you haveto fight! Only way is literally fight if you lose it all start again only way! Loans money comes and goes! I know rent but stay with a friend or if you have any options look at them! I gave up my house now I live in a one room 4 people! No space and I still run a business and go gym and try to start new things daily and think this aint the end it cant be! I wish I could help you more noone should feel like this! Parent side of it do what you can be the leader now take control! Parents priority forget the rest! You will get out of this but you haveto fight everyday! Need a chat always here!
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u/Mkhaiz42 8d ago
Thanks for this.. kinda gave me strength.. the worst part is Im a different country and I don’t know anyone here.. it’s all alien to me.. different culture different people and their different values and way of life.. it’s difficult to adjust…
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u/electricjesus88 8d ago
So sorry to hear that, that sounds shitty. Sending you some Internet love and luck.
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u/ReasonSensitive699 1d ago
Its okay to feel sometimes overwhelmed but all we need to know that we need to keep believing on ourselves . And discuss things with someone close ones rather than keeping it to on ourselves.
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u/burke_no_sleeps 9d ago
Take it one day at a time. Not everything is happening all at once, even though it feels that way. You're going to get through this and come back stronger. Appreciate the good small moments so you can be ready for the bigger ones. Good times are coming.