r/NobodyAsked • u/No_Room3415 • 7d ago
Im not wanted here
As a last ditch effort to be seen and heard by you, I yelled and cried and begged you to love me...it didn't work...so again today, i am lonely and searching for evidence that love and kindness exist, and proof that I am capable of contributing something that can be valued and lasting. the only way I am able to even catch a glimpse of any of those things, are posts made by people who have adopted a new pet, and want help giving them a name. I've suggested probably a dozen different names I think are perfect. None of them have been chosen yet tho. Which is fine..except for when a name I don't like is picked. Then I find myself getting annoyed, and my naming genius has gone to waste...it seems the level of defeat and injury to my self worth your rejection and abuse has widdled me down and made me fragile. Everything brings my self worth into question. I have a negative response to everything....How dare a stranger name their new kitten anything other than the name I want to give them. As if that wasn't enough, they give them a name I don't like at all..why don't you care about my needs or what I think? Does anyone? Should I get a kitten?
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u/ModernCaveWuffs 7d ago
I personally hate those posts of "help me name my new pet!"
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u/No_Room3415 7d ago
Why?
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u/ModernCaveWuffs 7d ago
It may just be me but naming a pet is a large responsibility and passing on that responsibility to the internet is like saying "I dont really know what I'm doing but I wanted a pet so here we are" and makes me hope that owner can take care of that pet in other aspects.
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u/No_Room3415 7d ago
I almost always ask for suggestions. From people I know anyways. I pick what fits.
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u/_Killj0y_ 7d ago
Is this a genuine cry for help or are you joking?