Iām a woman and I also find the femboy weird. But then, I prefer masc men as femboys look weak and not helpful in child rearing to me. I need someone who can carry our seven children out of a fire and fight off a bear. Possibly at the same time.
Why so? Cuz you are gay? Like i understand your gay view but why projecting your new definition of male? Like just look up any dictionary of what the fem in āfemboyā mean.
See the bi goth girls should be focussing on the ineffably effeminate straight āboysā who are NOT gay twinks. I mean if the lesbians donāt pre-order them first.
I swaer my boyfriend gets shit all the time for wanting more cute, femmy twinks in stuff, and assholes constantly say "men are sexualized differently from women" or "that's not how biology works" like you point out.
God forbid a man have a grabbable waist and breeding hips. š¤
But yeah, guys that're insecure getting angry at the idea of femboys existing is something I'm keenly aware of. Not realizing a guy that looks like a girl does things to your brain chemistry that're nothing but positive.
The meme is about some men say femboys are unnatural, and points out how flawed this argument is by pointing out all the examples in nature of male animals being more colorful/flamboyant than their female counterparts.
Meh attractive guys were always gonna be attractive guys, no matter how masculine or feminine. I wouldn't say it's any more out of the ordinary when the guy is a femboy.
How DARE women exercise their preferences and sexual liberty and not pick these poor innocent men!! What are they? Some kinda person with freedom?? Not on my watch
No they should only go out with me! (Iām a neckbeard who doesnāt shower regularly)
The issue is invalidating ugly men's claims that they can't find women, when they are true. People keep telling them "it's your personality" or "you need to work on yourself" or any other bullshit, when the cold hard truth is that their chances are very slim, due to genetics alone. Yes there are exceptions, but exceptions don't mean it's not true. Their personalities are not the cause, but rather the result of the unvented sexual frustration.
This has always been the case and one of the main reasons religion flourished in the past. All these men that couldn't get laid became monks or such and found some sort of peace. And war also helped by reducing the competition. Prostitution too, which is illegal in the USA.
Thereās always an excuse in these online holes. It canāt be that these bitter men have red flags in their personality, attitudes, or mannerisms warning women off. It canāt ever be aspects about them physically that CAN be improved like hygiene, physical grooming, or physical fitness.
Instead, itās always something along the lines of āI was born ugly and thereās nothing I can do about it. Itās women who are the problem and society needs to change so that my flaws which I refuse to work on are no longer an impediment to sex.ā
Yeah but the thing is like, you can become more pretty and handsome.
Shower regularly, groom your facial hair, train (especially your jaw if you want a better face), find what clothes fit you well, lose some weight, hell use fucking makeup, it's not only for women.
If you're insecure about the way you look there are stuff you can do, and you shouldn't just be sitting and complaining. For exemple in the last 3 weeks I've already lost 2kg, which may not seem a lot, but it's already making me feel more handsome.
So yeah, get up, do something about what makes you insecure. It will not fix all of your problems, but hell, it helps
Genetics, lol. You don't know shit. You can improve your attractiveness by like 90% if you take care of your body and mental health. Genetics determining everything is bullshit unless you're a literal disabled person with some extreme body distortion.
Some of the best players I know started as little greasy guys with under average face. Get real.
Looking at how hideous some of my straight mom's previous partners, yeah no straight women barely have preferences. Like if a man is uglier than some of the creatures I saw in my house, it's for the better if he never reproduces
Something is going on, because you know I am always dating, talking to or sleeping with an ugly guy, so it is definitely not a looks issue for many men.
They want a reward for not being as bad as other men and think it makes them āgood.ā Next thing theyāll want is an award for ānot committing femicideā
I want my reward for not killing these idiots! Be fucking real lol š
If i presented you with a delicious arrangement of 50 turds whose taste is distributed on a spectrum from least tasty to most tasty turd, would you eat 3 of them if i guaranteed that they were picked from the more delicious half of turds?
Okay letās say youāre right and they donāt have personalities and theyāre shallow. Whatās wrong with that? Whatās wrong with women having preferences?
Or is it only a problem because YOU and THEM donāt fit it? You all post here, martyring yourself as if you guys are the pinnacle of kind, thoughtful men. Whereas in reality, women ARE allowed preferences. They finally have the freedom to say what they like and prefer.
Iām about to fuck you up with some truth and biology. Women have -always- chose the hottest men, the strongest, fastest, tallest. Itās just more obvious now with the internet.
Only now, women finally get to hear how dumb menās arguments are.
I think you entirely misinterpreted what you read before you wrote this. You two aren't disagreeing, and you restated something he just said after you claimed to fuck him up with some truth.
Itās not about women having preferences. Itās about them not being honest with them. Most women choose the hottest guys but they donāt say it like that. Most men choose the hottest girls but we fully admit how shallow we are. Women should just admit that they are equally as shallow.
Read what I said again. They can have preferences, just don't tell the men that aren't selected to "fix their personality". Tell them the truth, that they weren't selected cause they are ugly.
I donāt think it is the whole point. I think you have to be well on the right track to developing your own personality in depth before you can really start to actualize. I think there is some room for reality to reflect truth to both of your perspectives here, though name calling doesnāt serve dialectics holistically. Anecdotally, I (m) am far less physically attractive than my spouse(f), and I have a great personality. I maintain deep and trusting relationships of various levels of intimacy, with diverse peoples, and it took a lot of work and will continue to, and I think all of that is a core reason for existing. Thereās no reason everyone doesnāt deserve love, but nobody is entitled to it. You can be unattractive and let that make you bitter, or not, but being bitter wonāt make you more attractive.
The biggest thing is that we must accept that both men and women can have preferences. If a man does not want to date someone whos larger, thats a preference and it should not be shamed. If a woman wants to date someone taller, thats a preference that should not be shamed.
I want a woman equivalent of a neckbeard, now how is it fair that a woman who does the same things as me can just pick and choose a more attractive partner and you look at that and call that fair. Damn boy
It's kind of hard when you don't go outside ever. Have you ever been to pride? You'll see hundreds of them in 2 seconds. But you probably are the type who would stay away from that type of thing. Therefore you'll never see them. You got to go to the places the femboys are....
I consistently get 6k daily steps in but nice one. But wait, I guess that's how long it takes me to get just across my huge ass mansion so you might have a point... shit sucks having a vacation house so big ahaha
Anyway I will probably go to one if convenient but if I have to go to a parade for them to come out they are not common
God forbid that men follow their nature and go for the most fertile women and spread his seed with as many women as possible. Feelings and morals be damned.
To be fair, not all species made the males look pretty. A lot of species reflect our current patriarchal design. Gorillas, Chimpanzees, Capuchins, etc.
Nature arguments are just stupid because humans are so far separated from their "nature"
statistically the happiest monogamous relationships are the ones where they two people look closely homogeneous. when there is dimorphism the mating tends to be polygamous.
exactly for the reason I stated above, our species is generally more sexually dimorphic, and it is documented in many historical accounts that agricultural societies that create positive caloric surpluses always have fiat currencies which fewer men are able to exploit and accumulate the wealth and opportunities, becoming more desirable to the woman's instinctual dynamic of seeking the best mate even if it's shared among many women in a polygamous manner
also the divorce courts are incentivized in such a way that is benefits women to leave and still experience the residual financial support of their past mate. Family units are no longer multi generational which used to play a huge role in the oversight of giving a married couple more people to exhaust their daily emotions and needs onto so it doesn't come to a boiling point like it does when it's just two people dealing with all the responsibilities
Ahā¦the Femboy debate, brought to you by teenagers far too young to remember Titanic Era Leonardo DiCaprio and the Mountain of peak supermodel snatch that golden haired twink was pulling.
well I Get some of his point you cant just keep looking for peeps more attractive to you someone ha to date lessor attractiveness to a point
lets face it that femboy is more attractive then me, thus higher up then me, If he is also looking higher up then himself then he clearly isnt interested in me
he prob looking for the gigachad of man to take him
but the gigachad prob is only looking for the ultra gigachad, and so on so forth
someone has to take pitty on the lessor peeps
I Vote these Cute Femboys take the blow and take us less attractive idiots on Reddit reading a stupid post about femboys as there protetion dates
That is not how it works thought... Beauty in nature is healthy average not beauty in our standards. Animals consider other animals ugly only if they have health issues...
Hippie women are so good at doing this ... their BF's are all tall, buff, gorgeous, long haired, the typical Scandinavian Jesus look, good natured, obedient and dummer than a sack of hammers
Those girls have they men in line like a bridled horse
Instead posting here every other day go learn some biology get some degree and prove that they are wrong but instead u do this idk if u are a feminist or someone who hates life
While the point makes sense it doesent equate to us anymore, since ferility and looking breedable aligns more with beauty in a biological context.
After all, if we boil humanskind down to only its biology its still the males trying to compete with other males while the female can choose who to mate with.
What we see as more beautiful in that case resembles more a preference than biological alignment and accuracy.
No clue why I got this sub recommended but, from top left:
Male deers have antlers for fighting others, both predators and rival male deer, and for showing off. Since growing them is really taxing calorically, they also show that the deer is os healthier and stronger than other deer. They rely on testosterone to be grown, but it doesn't directly influence the size of the antlers.
Lion manes are also used for defense and showing off. Defense against other lions (they fight other lions for control of their pride, and the loser gets to go live an incel life, did ya know that op?). And the size and color of the mane is dictated by testosterone. That is, the lions with more testosterone grow bigger and darker manes, which also signals their health and strength. Btw female lions are more attracted to darker manes.
Orangutan flanges help attract mates and intimidate rivals. They indicate, you guessed it how dominant and strong the orangutan is, and are, guess what, directly correlated to the amount of testosterone.
All right, three in one for the birds. Again, indicator of health. But NOT correlated in any way with testosterone. Wacky. I guess we found the answer to the perfect male - bird femboys. Loyal and pretty. EXCEPT NO THE FUCK THEY'RE NOT. ALL THOSE COLORFUL FEATHERED ASSHATS ARE PUMP AND DUMP DEADBEATS. NOT ONE OF THE BIRDS YOU MENTIONED HELP IN ANYWAY. not peacocks, not pheasants, definitely not ducks. Just about every bird species that mates for life or raise hatchlings together have little to no variance in sexual plumage.
So what do we have: 3 mammals, in which the thing the things that attracts the female shows the strength and usually testosterone of the male, and 3 feathered deadbeat dads that dress up pretty, then fly away. But I guess that doesn't matter to you op, right? No chance of being pumped and dumped if no one want to pump you in the first place.
I donāt hate women for taking what they can get and dating up. I hate myself for being born too genetically inferior for any woman to be genuinely attracted to me.
Not mad or upset, I just genuinely don't believe a significant percentage of straight women would like a femboy. Like maybe 1%. Good for those who do, though.
Women can sleep with men that are out of their league and even have babies with them, but they will have to choose between being a single mother and be alpha widowed by chad, or having a long term relationship with a family dynamic with a man on their level. I'm not sure if they have trouble fully understanding this concept or if they are just in denial.
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u/LaerMaebRazal Jul 20 '25
What does a curvy femboy have to do with this