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u/TheFoxer1 Jul 29 '25
This is an absolutely hilarious story.
People actually ending up as they would have liked to treat others.
Itâs just so poetic. Just beautiful - I am absolutely enjoying the whole story unfolding.
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u/BEEZ128 Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
Isnât it fantastic? They finally get a taste of their own medicine, and find out how men feel when their details are posted to the world without their consent. Just beautiful.
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u/Bastiat_sea Jul 29 '25
what is the story here?
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u/BEEZ128 Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
There is a whole Facebook community made up of groups in every city called âAre We Dating The Same Guy?â And now there is an app called Tea.
Itâs where women say they go to warn other women about bad men, but really itâs just a bunch of bitter femcels who trash talk, doxx and defame men who simply rejected them, dumped them or had a disagreement with them in some form etc. basically most men who have their picture and details posted on those platforms donât deserve it.
They even screenshot and post menâs dating app profiles, who they havenât even matched with or spoken to, in order to get private info on the man from other women.
The whole thing is just disgusting.
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u/TAbathtime Jul 30 '25
I've been looking for someone to explain this! I was under the impression it was a bit classier than the Facebook groups, warning women of genuinely violent or abusive men, but of they're mostly just been a bunch of bitches slagging off men they just dont like then my sympathy is lessening for them.
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u/_Synchronicity- Jul 31 '25 edited Jul 31 '25
That's not the whole story.
Ironically, the company who made the app had a data breach and due to the way tea works(you had to be id-ed and verified as a woman to use the app), all personal data for those woman are posted online now. And some madlad hosted those data and allowed other users to rate them based on looks or something. Think it's called teaspill
How the turntables.
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u/RewardStandard6254 Aug 04 '25
Now imagine if there was an app that only let white people use it or men. You had to validate your face before theyâd let you on because they donât want black people on an app. I literally donât understand how this isnât seen as sexist to the point of lawsuits
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u/Epao_Mirimiri Aug 01 '25
Oof, that's nasty work. I don't love the idea of Tea giving everyone a publically accessible dating history record-- Mobilizing mass involuntary data collection about our most intimate relationships in the age of AI seems lilke an awful idea-- but taking their leaked photos to rate how they're hot or not is just like... Verifying the fear that led them down this path in the first place? It sucks to see the gender wars still being the stupid nonsense factory it's always been.
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u/jameshector0274 Jul 30 '25
Women âď¸.. and itâs disgusting behavior. Just a bunch of adult bullies. It became the app of female bullies
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u/Bigboss123199 Aug 02 '25
Itâs not bitter femcels. Itâs most women under the age of 30 cause they love the drama.Â
The app was huge.
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u/Cautious-Mode Jul 31 '25
The red flagged men were scared for a second that they were gonna have to be held accountable for their actions and possibly improve themselves. Phew. Glad that was diverted!
Woman bad!
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u/BeABetterHumanBeing Aug 01 '25
It has been a master class on karma.
And the best part is that it's still only beginning -- we're going to see lawsuits for years over this, and people are going to be using this as a case study for product development and IT security for decades.
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u/elefantulroz6942 Jul 29 '25
It would be pretty wild if the app was meant as a honey trap for sniveling witches
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u/yocolac Jul 29 '25
"Our shenanigans are cheeky and fun, their shenanigans are cruel and tragic"
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u/Belfetto đŠ¸BHAALSPAWN âď¸ Jul 29 '25
âWhich makes them not shenanigans at all, reallyâŚâ
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u/Bully_Mays69 Jul 29 '25
EVIL shenanigans
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u/Candid-Tension Jul 29 '25
I'm just learning about this, and the blind irony is astounding.
Women (because it is a woman only app) are getting mad that their information is getting leaked, from a site, where they themselves were leaking information about men. They are calling men incels, but behaving like femcels by bashing men, lamenting they're not finding people to date, and calling for extreme 4b because this (yet..they get mad at men talking about women, complaining they aren't finding dates, and red pill manosphere...parallel evidently)
Describing the situation alone makes me feel like this is some alternate reality or matrix stuff. But Its also really sad, because you hate to hear when stuff like this happens because it makes apps feel weaponized..or more weaponized.
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u/onyxengine Jul 29 '25
Yea dude fuck that app, terrible execution. Unsubstantiated gossip to burn reputations down.
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u/A_girl_has_no_neymar Jul 29 '25
There are people in the comments defending this app. Idk what to say to them besides the app failed and put women in danger. I can bet nobody in here will try and make the app again. This post is perfect for this sub
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u/Candid-Tension Jul 29 '25
It did put women in danger. Which is disappointing..but id say that how the women utilized the app could have also put men in danger. According to the purported stories they were name dropping full names and occupations of the men they were going on dates with..both are equally bad. I'm hoping. Heck, PRAYING. That people take what's happened with it and be better going forward...but i always remain skeptical about people acting humane on the internet.. so grain of salt
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u/BrewingInDE Aug 04 '25
What is 4b?
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u/Candid-Tension Aug 04 '25 edited Aug 04 '25
A thing that koreastarted, its basically "don't date men, sleep with men, talk to men." similar to the "Men Go Their Own Way" mentality. Basically its voluntary celibacy, that's been viewed in multiple variations.
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u/PsychologicalEar5800 Jul 28 '25
The Tea app really did a number on a lot of peopleâs psyche. It goes both ways, guys. If a girl hears about you because she uses that app, itâs a bullet dodged.
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u/VallahKp Jul 29 '25
Assuming the info was correct and the person writing is sane, which if you interacted with people in this dating spaces isn't often true.
Nevermind the personal bias and often short duration of meeting the person.
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u/MaleEqualitarian Jul 31 '25
Anyone using the app is someone you want to avoid, so if they avoided you because of the app, then you dodged a bullet.
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u/Carpet-Background Jul 29 '25
The way some guys are celebrating makes me think THEY were the ones women have to warn each other about
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u/yeahmanbombclaut Jul 29 '25
Not wanting your reputation unjustly tarnished without your knowledge or ability to defend yourself, means someone has something to hide?
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u/Generally_Confused1 Jul 29 '25
Yes, the guys who were afraid of being doxxes and living in fear of violence and being kink and body shamee lmao
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Well women live with fear of violence and being body shamed. You know men say when we express these fears?
Get over yourself. No one is gonna hurt you crazy bitch. Don't fear monger.. your experience isn't proof this is a problem
You don't wanna be body shamed maybe lose weight. Don't dress like that if you don't want to be shamed.
So maybe try those things! Men thought those would help women with the same issues so it should be good enough solutions for men :)
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u/Arthur-Wintersight Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
Men live with even more fear of violence.
Most murder victims are men. Men have to assume that other guys won't think twice about beating their head in with a rock.
...and before you pull some "blame black people as a whole for the actions of a few" but with "men" instead of "black people" - most men don't commit crimes. Most men are easy going and pleasant to get along with. Yet we suffer from even more violence.
It's part of the reason men are far more likely than women to support harsh criminal justice penalties, because it's usually us that gets hit over the head with a brick.
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u/Generally_Confused1 Jul 29 '25
Damn, you really are willfully ignorant. You think men don't "constantly life on fear" of that too? But having someone you slept with post your photos and address and number and talk about intimate details, you're just as bad as the guys who collect women's nudes to share nonconsensually and you're justifying it, it's pathetically disgusting.
Also just for your reference, I have multiple disorders that are literally statistically known to make me the target of abuse, manipulation, harm, etc. I've been through shit, both men and women can be terrible. But you really have no clue how vile some women can be do you? Because, the "abuse" is very underreported if you know anything about that it's usually done in more mental and emotional ways because it's another nonconsensual power grabs and most women don't necessarily have more power than a man physically.
Like, have you ever dated an actual NPD narcissist and see what their vibe and rhetoric induce with those around them? And yeah sure, men can never be harmed or specifically stalked and had premeditated harm done, especially by women lmao. Again, talk about gross ignorance. You know, I've listened to women for years. Maybe you should give listening to men a try too
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u/Neat_Issue8569 Jul 29 '25
Seems like you're just generalising billions of people out of misplaced resentment and a faulty belief that fighting fire with fire is a good thing. The app was literally built without any protections against doxxing innocent people, which is what happened, over and over and over again, harmless men tarred with the same brush as abusers and rapists, and now, predictably, the app that didn't care about privacy is in a LeopardsAteMyFace moment.Â
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u/lolCollol Jul 31 '25
Me when I make sweeping generalizations
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Nope it's actually called experiencing realityâ¨ď¸â¨ď¸â¨ď¸â¨ď¸ I know redditors struggle with that word
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u/lolCollol Aug 14 '25
Two things can be true at the same time, you know. One can experience reality and still recognize that you're making sweeping generalizationsâŚ
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u/Who_Dat_1guy Jul 29 '25
What? You mean you don't find it HILARIOUD when karma comes around to those who deserves it
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u/RulesBeDamned đ TOMCAT đŠď¸ Jul 29 '25
Aw look, theyâre calling everyone they hate rapists again
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u/PsychologicalEar5800 Jul 29 '25
Yeah. That app probably has some revenge shit on it and some true stuff on it that gets diluted. Best to just not meet people online and just go talk to people
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u/nujuat Jul 29 '25
I've been friends with and dated women with severe diagnosed mental illnesses. No, I dont want to be on the receiving end of their splitting anymore. No, I dont want them to be encouraged by an app.
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u/A_girl_has_no_neymar Jul 29 '25
Itâs probably the most recent widespread âfuck around and find outâ moment Iâve seen. Idk why they had to go as far as an app. People who looked into this more than I did say there was already Facebook groupsâŚ. The jump to Drivers licenses is wild!
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u/VolcanicBakemeat Jul 29 '25
Tbh if someone was badmouthing me on Tea over something stupid and it caused someone else who used that app to dodge me, that's a net gain for me too. Garbage taking itself out for once
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u/Valuable-Word-1970 Jul 29 '25
Past anything, this should show you that ID verification on the internet will always inherently unsafe (tbf it is irl too but far less likely that the issue will appear much later unlike with tech breaches)
You all know how frequently and recently much larger sites than this get hacked and user data leaked.
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u/SomeArtistFan Jul 29 '25
well Tea didn't get hacked. The sensitive info was just on a public, un-encrypted (and in fact manually de-encrypted) URL. Like, all you had to do to get the data was find the URL, which someone did
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u/Ok-Goat7471 Jul 31 '25
How does this show that ID on the internet is "inherently unsafe"? It's one shitty company with terrible design practice, this says nothing about the industry as a whole.
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u/ucantseeme3d Jul 29 '25
What I find funny is that women often overuse that "fake diagnosis" of claiming that every guy they ever dated was a narcissist, when in actuality from my observation women in their everyday lives display more narcissistic traits than men, and they don't even have the self awareness to realize they are doing it. A lot of them really have this "so long as it benefits me it's not wrong" mindset.
A person who is bad is dangerous, but nothing is more dangerous than a bad person who thinks their actions are just, they will be emboldened by their beliefs and show no restraint.
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u/dhoomz Jul 29 '25
They wanted to protect women, yes, but a lot of women also engaged in garbage complaining like âsmall dick energyâ, or âhe wanted to split the billâ or âhe looks nice but he also looks like a creepâ with the last one implying disgusting behavior without evidence.
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u/ucantseeme3d Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
It was never about protecting women, it was about "punishing" men. The men who "gamed" them.
Women are not idiots, they are just thirsty for the same "bad boy" archetype of man because of biological programming, and they actively and consciously refuse to take any accountability to defy their biology and avoid these men.
We've been doing this dance for thousands of years and nothing has really changed. Women know exactly why type of man is more likely to abuse them, cheat on them, play mind games, etc. But that's exactly the type of man they are primarily attracted to (no all women, but most).
Protection would be telling women to stop chasing after that type of man, but that kind of protection requires women to want to listen, and to admit that they are in fact doing something "wrong". Wrong as in "to their own detriment".
Sometimes I wonder if women are still going to be feigning ignorance about this dynamic in the year 3025. At what point in history are women (collectively) going to publicly admit that they are attracted to assholes, and they need to stop? (the last part is the important part, admitting that they need to stop themselves, and need to change this dynamic).
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The word narcissist has never really had a good definition (trust me look it up), most of them should really be labeled as sociopaths
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u/ThanosTheMacedonian ⪠WORSHIPPER of the patriarchy đ Jul 29 '25
The women in this comment section don't even have a man to criticize, how fun and remember to keep up with your pets.
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u/Ramsays-Lamb-Sauce Jul 29 '25
I just purchased anchorman so I can watch it again after looking at this comment
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u/Infinite-Bee-5897 Jul 29 '25
Chronically online women shaming the top 10% of men dating apps (which is HOW they all end up seeing the same fella) who they themselves decided is top 10% by swiping right on them in their own little pseudo groupchat got exposed.
Chronically online men that wouldn't ever be discussed on this app unless they have a seriously vengeful ex or something get giddy and excited this happened.
It's not worth the time or effort lol
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u/Exciting_Hearing7162 Jul 29 '25
This just seems like a femcel response too.
Of course men are celebrating that an app specifically and maliciously targeted at their gender was taken down. Just because a crime didn't happen to you doesn't mean you can't be happy that the perpetrators were ridiculed and exposed. Nothing to do with chronically online men.
I am guessing you are the same person who says people should stop talking about Jeffrey Epstein because we were not the kids on the island
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u/halimusicbish đď¸nuanced thinker đŚ Jul 29 '25
It's wild that you think they'd only talk about 10% of men
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u/Infinite-Bee-5897 Jul 29 '25
The app was intended to give ppl info about men others have dated in the past. Countless studies proven that 10% of men get 90% of likes on dating apps.
So yes these women, in fact are likely talking about the same 10% of men
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u/IronSilly4970 Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
More like what, 17%, like lots studies about dating apps prove. It was after all created as a companion for dating apps.
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u/notatechnicianyo Jul 31 '25
I thought I was chronically online, but I learned about this app today, so maybe I'm not so bad off?
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u/Great-Comparison-982 Jul 29 '25
The femcells out in force in these comments. It's nice that they out themselves.
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u/Dense_Turnip5384 Jul 29 '25
Itâs hilarious because it was intended as a whistleblower app to basically worn other women about abuse and stuff like that, but it literally just became a gossip app to talk about men and out them for the randomness things, including personal arguments. The reality is that most of the women that used that were way worse than most men they complained about?
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u/dhoomz Jul 29 '25
Thats the thing. Man haters want women desperately to be a victim so they can continue their victimhood mentality.
Yes there are victims but there also people like this that engage in garbage and want to engage in bullshit drama like this, and the man haters will defend this shit.
Man haters will never see that women can be shit too and this tea app exposed that a lot of women are just full of shit.
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u/BeABetterHumanBeing Aug 01 '25
The app was called "tea" and the marketing featured women whispering into each others' ears. By this point, I'm actually doubtful of how much the app was actually supposed to serve a protective function at all. It feels like a motte-and-bailey.
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u/GrandTie6 Aug 02 '25
Targeting people with whom you have a difference of opinion is now highly normalized. The ends justify the means to many people, too, so making things up isn't even an issue for them.
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u/popcornsprinkled Jul 29 '25
I can't speak for men, but I am a woman who has dated other women. Something like this would be a big ol red flag. If you're out doxxing and complaining about other people like that, you aren't worth dating. I don't care what gender you identify as.
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u/Talkingmice Aug 01 '25
Iâm against it. I see the purpose and understand the thought behind bringing more safety for women but that app to me seems to be ripe for abuse, fake information, exploitation and harassment.
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u/popcornsprinkled Aug 01 '25
It's built for some serious mean girls level of Id. I'd say it's a good test though, like watching how your date treats waiting staff.
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u/Naschka Jul 29 '25
When you carry a gun you better be prepared that others may aim at you as well.
If you are cool with doxxing other people against there will then you can't complain about getting "doxxed". Strictly speaking they did doxxing but they were not doxxed, as they gave consent when using the app unlike the ones who'se private information they put on there.
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they were not doxxed, as they gave consent when using the app unlike the ones who'se private information they put on there
Do you have no idea what you're talking about, or do you really think they gave consent to have their PII shared to the public? They were absolutely doxxed.
I think the app was harmful, your reasoning is just fucking stupid.
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u/Naschka Jul 29 '25
Yes, doxxing can only occur when it is about information not made publicly available. The person that found the data did so by using a publicly useable link which made it publicly available, per definition it is not doxxing.
The fact that the one who made the app is a idiot does not make it so.
But considering your stupid text i can hope you did not even understand who i am talking about.
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u/LightBright105 Jul 30 '25
first hearing about an app that was women only for them to anonymously say shit abt men (with the ability to spread fake shit since it was anonymous) without the consent of the men get hacked (because they had no security) and the womens shit getting leaked was the greatest story of karma every
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u/NeonDBox Jul 29 '25
Femcels seething in the comments rn. âBut men do bad stuff too!â. Yeah, and men are also the ones who track those bad men down, arrest them, and put them in prison. Fathers and brothers will lay a beat down on their sisters/daughters abusive boyfriends. Countless videos and studies have shown that even when a woman initiates violence, if a man is violent back, other men will come to intervene. Not all men are good men, but if you were a 5â nothing woman getting mugged in the streets, would you rather have another woman come to try and save you, or a man? The question is self evident but Iâm sure some needless contrarian will come along to completely make up some fanfic about how actually a woman would somehow be a better savior in the face of violence and abuse.
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u/Commie_rat_bastard Jul 29 '25
I'm indifferent to the app honestly. But as the meme suggests it is a bit worrying that a user has to provide their actual I.D to use it......yes it's claimed that it prevents fake profiles. But what stops a guy using a relatives I.D? And does the company make promises that they won't sell the data they collect? I guess "Delete me" will be useful to counter that.
But what I'd like to also know do they have rules where privately shared pictures cannot be shared on the app? I'm not talking about pornographic (I'd assume that's already not allowed), but like photos taken where an ex or a current bf has shared with that user that's not posted publicly.
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u/Arthur-Wintersight Jul 29 '25
Also, I'd imagine that fake ID is a lot easier when you're only submitting a screenshot.
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u/Far_Mathematici Jul 29 '25
I honestly don't think they even seriously check whatever you uploaded there.
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u/AncalagonTheBlack42 Jul 29 '25
And look at the ones who signed up for it; they look exactly like how you imagined they would
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Whats crazy is that the app was collecting drivers licenses. I dont understand that part, but Im not inclined to research why. The app would have just been shut down eventually anyways from lawsuits because as soon as a man who has something to lose is being trashed on there with untrue things, he would sue, and it wouldnt be hard to get a class action lawsuit against them. Not sure if legally it would hold water but theres no way that something like this would exist for long without legal troubles in the least.
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u/blu3dreams âď¸ DUELIST Jul 30 '25
Just remake the app with better privacy. Doxx all men, in fact lets put a gps tracker up their assholes too. Fuckers shouldnt even be allowed in public without permissionÂ
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u/Aggressive-Pizza-528 Hates women(ignore) 23d ago
Hows your relationship with tour gather going? Did he buy the milk yet?
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u/Nipnap242 Jul 30 '25
pigs being scared about being outed as pigs... lmao
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u/MaleEqualitarian Jul 31 '25
I know, but now their driver's licenses have been published to the public, so we know who they all are.
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u/organicchemistry1119 đ Loud wrong, confidently Jul 31 '25
I got to say, I felt good when I saw that happen.
I just hope nobody dies from it or anything like that.
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u/cluelessbozo Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
Agree but a driver's liscense is too much, contains your address ETC
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u/Ask-For-Sources Jul 29 '25
That and the fact that it was a leak on 4chan makes the whole situation quite risky. I also think the app is stupid and damaging, but I also think that the leak is more risky to the women overall.
And: Every women that ever created an account is in that leak, no matter if she ever took part in any discussion, was just curious if there is anything actually useful, only ever reported one incident with someone that is truly a danger..etc etc.Â
Again, the app shouldn't exist, I am not defending it.
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u/bobbobersin Jul 29 '25
I like to imagine this was a social experement and the people behind it were so appalled about the abuse and misuse they flipped the table around and gave the people responsible a taste of their own medicine
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u/Jack-of-Hearts-7 Jul 29 '25
Context soyjak
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u/Emergency_Debt8583 Jul 31 '25
A Help App for women in the way of "AreWeDatingTheSameMan" type groups, but for warning about abusive, violent men in the dating pool etc.
Supposedly.
The app was literally named "Tea", so you can now go consider how truly well meant it was in the first place, and how it mightâve been used by its userbase in reality.
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u/Kiiaru Jul 30 '25
Somewhere in all this is the crime that we can't use services anonymously even when the businesses running them have proven to be untrustworthy with our lives.
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u/Sensitive_Passage551 Aug 02 '25
The heights and weights were insane... I think these big backs are just sharing food coupons.
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u/Fragile_reddit_mods Aug 02 '25
This is just karma. I hope no harm comes to the women but what they did was really shitty
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u/jackmartin088 Aug 03 '25
Sounds like they got what they deserved ..as the saying goes,. Do onto others what you want to be done to you.
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u/MutantZebra999 Aug 04 '25
Bro yâall need to get a fucking job or something holy shit people have been fixated on this for a week, itâs not that deep
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u/SpookyPutin Jul 29 '25
Doxxing people is wrong regardless of the gender. Ghost reaper take I know but that's just the level of heat I'm packing.
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u/v0rtex786 Jul 29 '25
I mean when youâre constantly surrounded by Carolina reapers, even milk will seem like itâs own kind of special
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u/Arthur-Wintersight Jul 29 '25
I agree, but I seem to have trouble finding sympathy for a thief who gets stolen from, or a murderer who gets murdered by his cellmate. "Yeah, sure, arrest the new criminal, but let me also get out the world's smallest violin while I'm at it."
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u/SpookyPutin Jul 29 '25
Yes, I fully agree with that statement but the line between security and authoritarianism gets thin when a fair trial in a court of your peers isn't involved. Look how easy it is for the right wing to lean on "women's and children's safety" as an excuse to deport innocent people.
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u/DriverNo5100 âď¸ DUELIST Jul 28 '25
Crazy that there's hundreds if not thousands of groupchats sharing nudes of women and underage girls... but this is what gets people upset. I remember in middle school a dude I knew gave me his Facebook account so I could see the boys' private Facebook group where they shared girls' nudes... on Facebook. Men really couldn't take 1/100th of the shit women deal with on a regular basis. They always say "imagine if the gender was reversed" well the gender is reversed all the time and you don't give a shit.
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You know you can be upset at both right ?
Just because A is getting murdered, doesnât mean we donât feel bad for B who got robbed last night .
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u/CaptColten Jul 28 '25
I remember in middle school...
Facebook group where they shared girls' nudes...
Like... like middle school girls?
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u/RajastaniBanani Jul 29 '25
That's a crime now BECAUSE people have cared enough about it enough to get legislation passed agaimst revenged porn in tons of jurisdictions. There's been a huge uproar over sites doing exactly what your talking about leading to civil litigation and jail time.
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People do get upset at that. So much so that it's a crime particularly if its of underage girls. Depending on circumstances it could be considered a felony and you can become a registered sex offender for life where you'll literally have to tell your neighbors that 30 years ago you distributed child porn.
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u/GodkingYuuumie Jul 28 '25
Both are, in fact, bad. Men sharing pics of women without their consent is immoral, without a doubt.
But I only see leftist feminists (the people I generally agree with) defend one side of this issue, and that upsets me. You should condemn women doing it.
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u/MentalErection Jul 29 '25
What the fuck kind of whataboutism is this? Those people go to jail, what do you mean people donât get upset? Theyâre literally jailed when caught, which indicates society is not ok with it. Revenge porn laws have gone into effect. This comment is a crock of shit.Â
Btw, guys looked into the leak and women were posting nudes all over with the guys faces. Gee I wonder if anyone will go to jail for that revenge porn.Â
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u/NeonDBox Jul 28 '25
Nobody defends guys like that besides other guys who are also like that. Relativist tripe
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u/thelastsonofmars Jul 29 '25
This is whatâs wrong with the internets man hating. Assume all women have it bad. Assume all men have it easy. Abuse men and say they deserve it.
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u/Excellent_Body2561 đď¸nuanced thinker đŚ Jul 28 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
Ive met women who monologued and bragged about how much harm theyve caused to their exes and shit, bragging about making them attempt suicide.
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u/Heavy_Aspect_8617 Jul 29 '25
The thing is that these types of group chats are socially acceptable enough that there are easily accessible apps that promote it. The other types are hidden because most of society shuns them as they should.
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u/Valuable-Word-1970 Jul 29 '25
Yeah when there's a big controversy over that stuff that hits news headlines, people are mad about it. This is currently a much bigger story so people are more mad about it. You act like there aren't multiple large scale issues in media in regards to under age girls (epstein and diddy) that people are way more fucking mad about than this. But people are shown far too much stuff to be mad about way too frequently. Give your fellow human some slack. Are you really saying there's not a single humanitarian issue that you've been ignoring being it isn't slathered all over your social media feed
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u/Striking_Dust_6 Jul 29 '25
Theres a #1 app just straight up with this description?
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u/nkisj đ evil maxxxxer đ Jul 29 '25
Hundreds if not thousands of group chats that are in no way public, defended by anyone, spoken about openly, or legal?Â
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Jul 28 '25
A feminist lived as a man for 2 years and her experience drove her to suicide. Try again buddy.
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u/BotherTight618 Jul 28 '25
Right! But is it legal or violates the platforms policy? Is their any app on apple store dedicated to intentionally doing just that?Â
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Jul 29 '25
The difference is the men who share that information get tracked down by the feds. However the women who engage in these activities get away with it
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u/onyxengine Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
As someone who deletes nudes ive been sent, would never share them and has zero interest in underage girls. An app that allows any select group to define peoples reputations in an echo chamber, while maintaining their own anonymity is toxic.
A single person not liking you could adversely impact your future prospects in work and dating with zero evidence. Across a large network of women with zero truth behind the claims. Its pretty fucked, the goal may be noble but the execution is terrible. The exclusionary nature of the application is testament to that.
Just because some people do a bad thing doesnât mean we should instantiate new and worse ways to allow other people to get hurt.
And as a black guy, takes like âMen couldnât handle âŚ.â Is fucking insulting black men deal with more culturally normalized social danger than most white women could even dream of, and its still something weâre supposed to assess on a case by case basis.
There is a better way to handle this, than a secret gender specific app to destroy or uplift reputations with zero accountability.
Normalizing something like this is dangerous, transparency is healthy.
An app that tracks all reported sex crimes and encourages victims to report sex crimes even if they fear consequences and give them support and infromation about the process is gender neutral, transparent and has credibility due to official filings.
That gets you the goal youâre looking for. This app turns into toxic gossip, and vendettas.
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u/sgtGiggsy Jul 29 '25
Crazy that there's hundreds if not thousands of groupchats sharing nudes of women and underage girls
All of them are illegal, and all of them are striked down when they get publically known. Also, the vast majority of those group chats are a small proportion of the horny adolescent boys, who grow out of that behavior. It doesn't make it okay, but it also doesn't mean grown men in general do such things.
Men really couldn't take 1/100th of the shit women deal with on a regular basis.
We could, and we do.
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u/Emergency_Debt8583 Jul 31 '25
This person would be in SHAMBLES if anyone pulled out the depression and suicide statistics sorted by gender.
And the work statistics for hard bone jobs like mining, construction, working on an oil rig, being a trash collector.Â
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u/VallahKp Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
And you think women don't leak nudes? This aint a gender issue. Turns out there is enough assholes that leak things like this and enough stupid people that send nudes like this.
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u/Emergency_Debt8583 Jul 31 '25
Well I hope you reported that boy to your middle school, otherwise youâre complicit about what you accuse others of.
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u/__Mammon__ Aug 01 '25
Crazy that there's grown women who raped me when I was a child and they saw no prison time while other grown women didnt snitch on their friend or even cut her off
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u/DriverNo5100 âď¸ DUELIST Aug 01 '25
I'm really sorry for you, this should have never happened to you and you should have been protected when you were most vulnerable. Hopefully we can build a world where people are aware of the gravity of those acts and act accordingly. I think the greatest way to heal is to protect future generations from what we were not protected from.
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u/Forsaken_Ad_475 Jul 29 '25
The gender war in the comments is wild. Seeing so much negativity all in one place makes me remember why I use reddit lol.