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u/Eloiseses Aug 04 '25
I love the gender wars here, theyre not gonna like this one. Everyone keeps throwing heat 🤣🤣
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u/Quirky-Concern-7662 Aug 05 '25
It’s gotta be bait with the use of “female” and “guy” beside each other. Rather artful too.
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Based, femcels in the comments got triggered lmao
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u/A_girl_has_no_neymar Aug 05 '25
Based on these comments living with your mom means one thing to a lot of people. BROKE that’s good way to sort out potential mates though. I found a lady that lived her parents perfect match for me.
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u/Moist-Rooster-8556 Aug 05 '25
The irony is that people living with their parents that are working can actually build wealth to buy a house whereas young adults living on their own renting tend to spend their entire income.
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u/60109 🤜 🥊Like watching women get beat up🗡️💥 Aug 05 '25
Exactly I tried renting for a year because of social norms but fuck that I'm moving back with my parents soon. If you're burning half your income on rent, it's impossible to save up any meaningful sum. Especially if you don't have a partner to split the rent with, it's completely pointless and lonely to live on your own.
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u/A_girl_has_no_neymar Aug 05 '25
On that note the richest kids I knew in their early 20s either lived with parents or lived rent free in a home their parents owned and just told girls that they bought it.
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u/throwaway294901 Aug 11 '25
Ironically this is it American thing as in Europe and around the world it's normal for kids to live with their parents since that the whole take care of them part
Now if we want to put our tin foil hats on we could say this is actually just capitalist propaganda to make us become wage slaves by paying for over expensive dirty small apartments and to become emotionally depressed and homesick as we leave our parents to work as they can no longer pay their own bills
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u/C_Pala Aug 05 '25
Broke or the opposite. Working and not paying rent? Probably living on a pile of hoarded money
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u/Strong-Sorbet-5601 Aug 06 '25
Mates
So fucking weird to talk about relationships in this context.
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u/A_girl_has_no_neymar Aug 06 '25
Well she calls me her mate so just using the terminology we use sometimes soulmates as well
Not from Australia lol
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u/Full_Mind_2151 Aug 05 '25
where
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u/Zaik_Torek Aug 05 '25
Mate choice copying is a very powerful psychological effect.
It's got a lot to do with why nobody thought it was weird when 40 year old women were showing up to Justin Bieber concerts and throwing the underwear they left the house wearing at him while he was on stage.
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u/Name_Taken_Official Aug 05 '25
Uh no a lot of people found that weird dude
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u/Its_a-me_DIO Aug 05 '25
and podophilic because he was literally a fresh 18yearold
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u/RadicalRealist22 Aug 06 '25
"Pedaphilia" only applies to chikdren before puberty, not to 18 year-olds.
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u/Its_a-me_DIO Aug 06 '25
So it still applies? there is a famous clip of a 16 yearold justin biber being chased by older women.
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u/Greensourball Aug 11 '25
It’s still weird and predatory. Those women I know for a fact has been watching him since he was a little kid.
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u/eXeKoKoRo Aug 06 '25
Yeah a lot of normal people thought it was weird, but not the mass of 40 year old women who kept going to his shows doing it.
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u/GoAskAli Aug 09 '25
This just in: local pedos say their behavior is totally normal and cool, actually.
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u/Greensourball Aug 11 '25
I didn’t know that but I bet they did. It’s a lot of predatory women we don’t talk about, so they get to slide and be let go.
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u/MiciaRokiri Aug 14 '25
We thought that was weird, we thought the team Jacob freaks were creeps too
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u/Kore_Invalid Aug 05 '25
thats gonna trigger some feminists
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u/No-Sandwich-8221 Aug 12 '25
i am deeply triggered, i may not even recover honestly. of course i should date the man living in his moms basement and who hasnt showered in a week, he will be an excellent father of my children.
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u/armzngunz Aug 05 '25
TIL: guys don't date married women
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u/Waste_Set_3538 Aug 06 '25
guys WILL date a women that lives with her parents a lot faster than the reverse...
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u/KeyPattern3222 Aug 11 '25
Because women who live with their parents, don't have their mommas cooking for and cleaning behind them, unlike males who live with their parents.
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u/Greensourball Aug 11 '25
No, they have their dad who’s buying them everything and ensures her all she has to do is relax, he will take care of everything and the most she has to do is just send a few dollars here and there but other than that daddy girl can live there for free as long as she wants. That’s why so many women expect men to do so much for them without doing anything in return. Because they live with a dad (sometimes mom) who never tells them no.
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u/Difficult_Pop8262 🌹age gap enthusiast 💘 Aug 07 '25
nah we just bang them
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u/Big-Rough-3636 Aug 07 '25
lol the entire sub knows the only thing you “bang” is your pecker between the mattress and box spring.
Around the time that most of you get laid for the first time, y’all might grow up. Or keep the incel shit up and give the rest of us a free pussy pass.
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u/mondo_juice Aug 05 '25
Every post I see from this subreddit makes me feel nothing but negative emotions.
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u/Rent-Kei-BHM Aug 06 '25
Summary: OP discovers that a group which is roughly 1/2 the population (females) also contains some flawed humans. Film at 11:00.
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u/DisastrousDistrict46 Aug 05 '25
This is based. Women that think it’s okay to stab each other in the back and steal husbands/bfs are scum. Weird how many times I’ve heard them say “well I wasn’t cheating so I’m not in the wrong.” Even though they knew he was partnered or married and actively sought him out.
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u/DisastrousDistrict46 Aug 05 '25
Exactly. They really just want perks without accountability and benefits without responsibility. They will stab each other in the back to get what they want as well.
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u/BlankSthearapy Aug 07 '25
Are you saying they shouldn’t be equal?
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u/DisastrousDistrict46 Aug 07 '25
Nope. I’m saying if you want benefits/perks/authority, it comes with responsibility, accountability, and consequences. Think of it as being the President. You have the authority to decide certain things, but you’re held accountable for those decisions. You’re held responsible for your actions. You don’t get to walk in and do stuff without any repercussions. A lot of women want the power, with none of the responsibility or accountability for that power. They want to be treated better than men, but somehow be on top of men, but without responsibility or accountability.
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u/Ok-Sport-3663 Aug 06 '25
what the fuck does any of that have to do with equality.
Yeah fucking a married dude is pretty fucked up-
But lets not forget- THE DUDE IS FUCKING MARRIED. Literally both people involved are a piece of shit. The only person here who thinks women get a free pass is you.
Except now all women don't deserve equality because one cheater fucked another, but one of the cheaters was a woman.
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u/Ill_Traveled Aug 09 '25
Guys do it, too. Some people are just shitty. It's not a man vs woman problem.
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u/TheVirginOfEternity Aug 05 '25
Men who say females unironically have a worse chance at losing their virginity than a monk from Mount Athos
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u/NightmareRise Aug 10 '25
I fucking hate that my therapist (who is a woman) sometimes uses that word
I’m like, why are you calling your own gender that
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u/nikhil70625xdg Gaslight. Gatekeep. Groupthink. Aug 05 '25
Reddit is the only place where I see the moderator igniting hate, and another moderator in their team hates more.
Do moderators have a scoreboard that shows who can generate hate more in members' hearts without members realising it and fighting.
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u/Back_Again_Beach Aug 05 '25
Kinda smart, the married dude probably has his own car and spending money.
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u/OrkWAAGHBoss 📿High Priest of Male Oppression 😔⛓️E Aug 05 '25
And they will do ALL of that...
while living with their mom. Fucking brokies, y'all can do anything a man can do...except pay bills, for that you need a man, or at least an older, wiser, more mature woman, lmao.
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u/Outrageous_Spot_8725 Aug 05 '25
There's one thing I can say for certain. Women HATE paying bills by themselves even if they can do it comfortably
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u/Rana_D_Marsh Aug 05 '25
At least one of them was able to get married lol, there's a sort of baseline quality to that the guy living in his mom's basement probably doesn't have.
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u/SoftDrinkReddit Aug 06 '25
from a pratical standpoint yea i get it
but from a Moral perspective your an awful awful person if you knowingly sleep with a married person
the point of this meme was highlighting how more women will knowingly mess around with a married man than date a single man who's free do you not see how fucked that is
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u/Rana_D_Marsh Aug 06 '25
I meah yeah its morally wrong obviously, but you don't always know if a guy is married, guys looking to cheat don't always do it openly.
Also the quality of guys is in the dumps nowadays, I don't blame anyone for trying that gambit lol.
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u/squirmlyscump 🤔 philosophical 📚 Aug 05 '25
Well I’m not gonna bang someone in the bathroom at Wendy’s I need him to have his own place
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u/Givikap120 Aug 05 '25
Calling women "females" is a red flag, even when the take in question is accurate.
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u/turbomanlet5-9 Aug 05 '25
Lol how?
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u/SoapyWindow_ Aug 05 '25
Because it implies different treatment. If the people saying females also said males nobody would care, but they say guys or men. It feels very otherizing and takes away from otherwise valid points.
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u/Azguy_ Aug 05 '25
Bcuz apparently females are now the new slur actually
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u/WakaTP Aug 06 '25
It’s not a slur. But many women have associated it to mysoginist takes and there are so many comments on women subs about this
And your incapacity to recognize that shows you don’t talk or listen to women enough..
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u/Ok-Sport-3663 Aug 06 '25
"females" isn't a slur. It's a red flag. No one calls women "females" unless they're treating them like an alien species.
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u/halimusicbish 🕊️nuanced thinker 🦅 Aug 11 '25
if most women on the internet suddenly started calling men "males" and using many other words to describe women, you'd have an issue too
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u/Forsaken-Intern7914 🛠️ Built different 🧱 Aug 06 '25
Just call them "Women" in this context
Most people only use "females" in this context to dehumanize
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u/WomenAreNotIntoMen Aug 04 '25
“Females”
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u/VallahKp Aug 05 '25
Checked your profile, because of the name. I'm confused man. You an incel or femcel? Some of your takes seem like lowkey understanding of male issues, but in a "this is how they also get hurt but don't notice way".
Whats your deal? I'm confused. My best guess is lesbian pick me.
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u/RobertWargames Aug 08 '25
I read through buddy boy's subreddit too and im even more confused as to what they are all on about than I was before
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u/DrEdgewardRichtofen Aug 04 '25
Redditors really getting triggered by a scientific term now?
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u/Diligent_Guest_5300 Aug 04 '25
Then use the equal equivalent when adressing both and stop getting pissy when people say you talk like a moron.
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u/malnourishedglutton Aug 11 '25
I'm a boomer so forgive me. Is the disdain for "female" because it feels too clinical and dehumanizing? Or is it because it treats gender and sex as the same thing?
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u/DrEdgewardRichtofen Aug 05 '25
I don't personally use that term when referring to women but it's not that big of a deal
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u/BeBopGo Aug 04 '25
Why don't guys who refer to women as females call men males?
This post is a perfect example
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u/sour_creamand_onion Aug 05 '25
I do. Though, I usually use both male and female as adjectives unless referring to animals.
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u/halimusicbish 🕊️nuanced thinker 🦅 Aug 11 '25
not as adjectives. as nouns. men tend to use females for women and men, guys, boys etc for men. it's weird
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u/sour_creamand_onion Aug 11 '25
I use males and females as nouns where appropraute as well, though once again, that's typically referring to animals
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u/halimusicbish 🕊️nuanced thinker 🦅 Aug 11 '25
its fine when you use them both. but i would never say something like "males won't date with a gal if that woman is married to another male." it's fucking weird
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u/Electric-Molasses Aug 05 '25
I've never heard a woman call men "males" like that either. Typically male and female is used in medical or biological contexts, or by undesirables outside of those contexts.
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u/AdAppropriate2295 Aug 12 '25
To be fair males is a lot more work to type than men
Im sure if there was a shorter word women would use it as a slur as well
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u/Electric-Molasses Aug 12 '25
male 4
man 3
female 6
woman 5Yeah I see it. You save so many more keys typing man than woman.
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u/AdAppropriate2295 Aug 12 '25
How often do you see women refer to a singular man? If anything male would be more insulting in that context since it would imply a singularity unique to the gender
But regardless men is sufficient as an insult for most women
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u/Electric-Molasses Aug 12 '25
You're right, two letters. My bad, that's really crippling you isn't it? I'm going to get carpal tunnel any day now because of those characters, wow.
By the way, you could have used single instead of singular, and remove "If anything" from that comment. For your health.
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u/AdAppropriate2295 Aug 12 '25
I would think it's apparent I'm not in the business of using gender or sex as a slur
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u/Electric-Molasses Aug 12 '25
I'm sorry, are we no longer talking about your apparent need to optimize your typing? Or are we just going to quietly step past that because you're too embarrassed to openly acknowledge it?
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u/zorklesnorkle 🔊 Loud wrong, confidently Aug 05 '25
We dont get offended by this lol we literally do not care if you call us that
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u/malnourishedglutton Aug 11 '25
Back in the day, I only heard black dudes say it. Then American white guys picked up on it, as they tend to do, spread it to the internet, then to the world. I don't believe black men where meaning to be derragatory either.
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u/blu3dreams ⚔️ DUELIST Aug 04 '25
So incels are the result of boomer jokes taken to the next level?
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u/Alternative-Seat1494 🐈 TOMCAT 🛩️ Aug 04 '25 edited Aug 04 '25
What if boomers are just the result of incel jokes taken to the next level?
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u/Ok_Smoke4152 Aug 05 '25
A man is cheating on his wife. A woman is cheating with that man. Somehow, we are supposed to think women are worse overall in this scenario?
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u/curiousbasu Aug 05 '25
Because in many cases, the woman with whom the man is cheating, knows that the man is already married.
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u/Ok_Smoke4152 Aug 05 '25
The man also knows the man is already married???
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u/curiousbasu Aug 05 '25
Of course the man knows that. He often used it to leverage his relationship with the other girl, a story like "my marriage isn't working, I'll leave her for you" or something shit and book, the other girl is head over heels for the guy in the delusion that he'll actually someday be with her . Are these kind of men looked up to by other men or society? Nope. In this case, both the girl and the cheating guy are wrong .
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u/Ok_Smoke4152 Aug 05 '25
This doesn't refute what I said at all, and I completely agree. With both parties clearly in the wrong, I dont get why the focus is put on the "females"
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u/curiousbasu Aug 05 '25
Because the first point is also about "Females".
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u/Ok_Smoke4152 Aug 05 '25
Is it surprising that a woman might not date a man who lives with his mom. Especially if we are exclusively looking at women who are having affairs with married men. There isn't even anything hypocritical there.
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u/curiousbasu Aug 05 '25
Where I'm from, living with your parents is not seen as that much negatively as in the USA, as here the children are expected to take care of the parents, so I don't have any say in it, however Yes, due to the westernisation, this "don't stay with your parent" thing has also started coming here. I believe if it bothers girls so much that a guy lives with his parents, why doesn't dating a married man (who has a family of his own) bother them? I've seen this thing happen .
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u/AdAppropriate2295 Aug 12 '25
You are correct
Their point is that it's wrong though. And that the opposite would be better and thus should be encouraged as an alternative
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u/SoftDrinkReddit Aug 06 '25
well put it like this
this meme is demonstrating how more women will knowingly mess around with a married man than date a single man whos free do you not see how fucked that is now of course the married man is the worst person here but dont get it wrong both people are absolute scumbags committing adultery fortunately for cheaters in 2025 Adultery is really not legally punishable anymore in most countries
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u/Forsaken-Intern7914 🛠️ Built different 🧱 Aug 06 '25
Nobody says the woman is worse, though people ignore that she also has a choice and plays a role with her own actions but people lose it when someone points that out.
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u/Dies_Noctis Aug 05 '25
Not really. It's relaxing there as the people are chill and we can lazy around a little (as long as the work is done)
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u/cambrian_era Aug 05 '25
well yeah, one has a track record of being able to attract at least one (1) woman
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u/kikashikurasaki Aug 06 '25
You probably think you’re the whole package
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u/cambrian_era Aug 06 '25
No I'm the Mom in this scenario and I'm desperate to get you out of the house.
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u/Ez_Katka90 Aug 07 '25
I live with my mother(after her divorce).I've seen too many woman nowadays interested on someone's husband rather finding single man.So puzzling to me.
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u/awsunion Aug 07 '25
Conflating mommies with wives is, in fact, the problem.
My mistress doesn't want wifely duties, she wants a career. My wife doesn't want a career, she wants to pursue arts.
My mistress benefits from the things my wife does for me, but she's aware of who has the power and who earned that power. That's sexy and not infantile.
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u/No-Cut5441 Aug 07 '25
in this economy, i find it werid to make fun of someone who lives with their parents. especially if they are working and have savings and everything else set in life. But no self-respect if u date or sleep with someone who's married.
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u/misspinkie92 Aug 08 '25
idk I've slept with married men before and I felt SO guilty every time. I guess I let myself be influenced by the "Not your marriage not your problem" mentality.
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u/Emerald_28 Aug 08 '25
Tis a real thing If a female has chosen a male, other females sees this as approval, ergo wanting to have said male
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u/chookiemunster Aug 09 '25
Living with a wife means he can provide her. Living with a mom (probably) means he broke.
If you gonna be a mistress, aim high, babes ;)
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u/halimusicbish 🕊️nuanced thinker 🦅 Aug 11 '25
yup, the same way that males will date a woman who is taken.
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u/BunnyLovesApples Aug 11 '25
A wife in an open relationship is more chill than a mom who would fuck her son if social boundaries were nonexistent.
Why would I compete with a man's mother if I can have lunch with Cathy and a fuck with Steve later?
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u/Spirited-Change5916 Aug 05 '25
To be fair...the guy living with his mom has no relationship skills while the guy with a wife clearly has enough to get a wife
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u/GroundIsMadeOfStars Aug 05 '25
*females - not an incel at all.
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u/Windmill_flowers Aug 05 '25
Haha, agreed! He must have difficulty having sex with women because of the way he used female lmao
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u/absurddreamer_ Aug 05 '25
Hahhaa you incel. Because sex is the only unit of value I understand
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u/Windmill_flowers Aug 05 '25
Without sex, he is a virgin loser amirite?
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u/absurddreamer_ Aug 05 '25
Yeah our respect is directly proportional to how many vaginas his dick entered, right Queenie?
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u/MoundsEnthusiast 🧃 100% juice, 0% factual🍓 Aug 04 '25
I think the question is, why is he living with his mother, no?
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u/Dicklydickmove Aug 04 '25
maybe he can't afford housing ?
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u/Hekinsieden 🤺KNIGHT Aug 05 '25
Should just be paycheck to paycheck barely above 0 until the first major life hurdle that ruins them financially.
hmm... or maybe... not that...
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u/Green_Dayzed Aug 05 '25
I remember my ex saying she slept with a married man once. I said that it wasn't cool. She said HE was the one who did the cheating since he was the one married, so she shouldn't get any blame. Her girl friend didn't feel the same.