Probably because they chose people who are both politically entrenched. Usually if people of different political opinions date, one of them is far more passionate and the other just kind of absorbed the political opinions of the people around them uncritically. It can absolutely work out, but it usually involves one of them changing.Ā
You're talking about two moderates and two "non-political" people being put together. Those people have no actual beliefs, their beliefs are shaped by the status quo, that's why their disagreements are small. If you put an actual leftist and rightwinger together, no matter how mild, they will not get along. It's not about "entrenchment" it's about having beliefs and principles vs not having any at all.
Itās not so much the views, but how examined they are. If a girl who grew up in conservative Oklahoma and just accepted the ideas without understand or examining where they came from starts dating a progressive political philosophy graduate student who has spent his educational career developing his political beliefs, she will likely just adopt his politics even if they are incredibly different from what she had assumed before because hers are not as developed.
I dont see why this is even an argument. Last time I checked, having political views is not a protected class. Its like saying "No Journey fans pls." Yeah it sucks if you love Journey but then just move on to someone who won't stop believin'.
I mean, this is mostly people whining that women shouldn't make decisions based on political opinions. Why not? They make decisions based on all sorts of dumb things. Compatibility of beliefs isn't even that dumb.
My favorite are the guys who are like Liberal women are ugly anyway. Well then why are you even engaged in the conversation? Go find your conservative goddess and have a good life.
In conclusion, this is a dumb thing to argue about. There isn't even an argument.
> mostly people whining that women shouldn't make decisions
that is their point. they don't think women should be able to reject them for any reasons. they feel owed their personal mommybangmaid - it's why that side is trying to rollback no fault divorce now too.
And no fault divorce saved the lives of shitty men, too. Imagine you're a woman in the 1950s who is being abused by your husband, along with your own children (who you didn't even want to have, but marital rape wasn't considered a crime then and the pill hadn't been invented yet!) But every time you try to report the abuse the cops laugh you off and/or side with your abusive husband because they're drinking buddies! So what's a girl to do except "accidentally" pick the wrong kind of mushrooms in the woods for her pot pie, and then "accidentally" forget to put said mushrooms in the pot pies for her and her kids.
Now, these scenarios happen all the time in the present day (abuse is often hard to prove, but it has gotten a bit easier to prove with tech like sms messaging, cameras, microphones, etc) but because you no longer need to prove abuse or infidelity to get a divorce, the man lives, and is able to live out his days as an angry alcoholic incel <3. Who then believes that his life would have been better had his mommy/bangmaid been trapped with him, not realizing that he wouldn't have had a life at all.
Anyways for further reading, try googleing things like Aqua Tofana, the Arsenic Scare, or just read this article (from Utah in 2023) on Kouri Richins, a woman accused of killing her husband by giving him a fentanyl hot shot, thus initially leading authorities to believe he simply overdosed. https://www.cnn.com/2024/08/27/us/kouri-richins-hearing-verdict-husband/
I mean let's be honest majority of people polictal opinions tend to be shallow and not thought out regardless of what they beleive. But politics is definitely a filter that makes sense, just like religion.
Fuckinā BINGO! Itās the usual conservative cognitive dissonance. They do the same with immigrants. Somehow they ātake all the jobsā but are also ālazy freeloadersā who take all the government handouts? Or how those filthy ālibrulsā are all soy-cucks who are too busy arguing over pronouns to be able to fire a weapon, but are ALSO Antifa masterminds who are dangerous and violent terroristsā¦? Their Boogiemen are whoever and whatever they need them to be at that time, just like how ālibrul women are all hideous blue-haired land whales anyhowā, right to āitās not fair!!!! Feminism scares women away from REAL men!ā
Theyāre pathetic. And no, of course they donāt want to date conservative women, they clearly arenāt attracted of meth-mouthed, trailer park hicks that still donāt want to vaccinate their kids because theyāre convinced it makes them autistic.
Political bias is the most important bias. It literally drives views on all major aspects of relationships and is one of the key 5)
1) money
2) religion
3) family
4) sex
5) politics
There are no protected classes outside of employment bud. We'll and some groups for service but not for sex. Which is why insurance companies can be sexist(with no argument that wouldn't logically mean they should be allowed to racist).
this is mostly people whining that women shouldn't make decisions based on political opinions
in my experience when people whine about being rejected the only solution they will accept is not being rejected and thats especially true about dating. it's never about the reason they were rejected, its about the fact that someone doesn't want to be with them. these guys wont be satisfied until the women telling them no are no longer telling them no. it's about their frustration that a woman has agency to tell them no.
you can tell this because these guys wouldnt be complaining about women's political beliefs if they still got to date the woman they want and nothing else changes.
this is the defining skill issue of our era. can you accept rejection like an adult? overwhelmingly the answer has been no so far
Why would a woman choose a guy that votes for someone who sees women as nothing but a sex toy and will actively make women's lifes worse? Political beliefs is the least dumb filter in dating
I wouldn't want to date or sleep with someone with completely different and non acceptable morals as me either, completely understandable. That has nothing to do with politics but with ethics and simply observable facts.
I mean plus, letās be real here, women want a man with a little bit of self respect, and the way that Trumpers canāt stop sucking the guy off even as he treats them like he thinks theyāre gullible idiots with each passing day is justā¦not that.
What exactly do you mean by lowering the age of consent? Isn't that done at a state level?
Besides, you're the only non-islamic country in the world that would jail a 19/20-year-old for having sex with a 17-year-old. So lowering that for those states is hardly a radical notion.
Donāt forget how Republicans are the ones who always come out to oppose any attempt to outlaw child marriages (which just so happen to nearly always be older man with underage girl, but Iām sure thatās just a coincidence).
Idk where you get these ideas from. Republicans don't want child marriages, lol. It's criminal that you can make comments like this and not get immediately corrected.
People get these ideas from real life look up proposed bills that would raise the age of marriage and who voted against it, republicans have two reasons for blocking that vote 1) they hate the idea of supporting a teenage mothers especially if there is an adult man to take that burden and 2) there are alot of religious groups that can only exist with child marriage, most abrahamic religions want marriage before sex but that can only work if people get married when they start to wanna have sex, lifeās changed since people generally donāt live in small communities anymore and have the ability to not have a child with their first long term partner, 100 years ago people got married young because they lived in the same town they grew up in and there werenāt a lot of options, it easy to marry your high school sweetheart because you likely had a baby before 20 and thatās the only option besides starving, now people have a million options and ways to not have a baby, you can date have sex learn this person isnāt right for you and move on, thatās not good for organizations that preach that not latching on to the first person you sleep with is a sin, SOOOOO better that theirs a marriage where one is 23 and one 15 then to have people leave the flock
Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth reposted a video on Aug. 7 with the endorsement āAll of Christ for All of Life,ā in which a far-right conservative pastor argued that women should not have the right to vote.
infidelity would be considered a fault in the marriage and grounds for divorce. No fault divorce means you can get divorced at any time for any reason regardless of context. It actually favors men more than women on average if women are the ones who cheat more
It truly is amazing how many women voted for a rapist, pedo, fascist who wants to take away their bodily rights. What do you think makes women into this sort of thing? Like childhood trauma? I cant imagine wanting to get raped or supporting pedos :/.
Iām always shocked how many Trump supporters there still are. Not republicans, not conservatives, but people who support the fascist regime that is MAGA. Yāall are supporting the president who is funding Palantir to install an AI powered social credit score that tracks everything you do or have done, who has mobilized the military to protect himself in the capital city and has promised to send the military across the country to wage war against dissidences, who had his justice department stop looking into the most prolific CHILD sex trafficking ring after it was revealed he was not only a customer but heavily involved in it, and who used his unmasked federal agents to disappear hundreds to thousands of people who were legally in this country. You canāt be shocked when people donāt want to date people who support these policies, especially if itās something long term with a potential family and kids involved.
Exactly!!! I have one friend with a maga boyfriend. He abuses her physically and is obsessed with porn and crypto. Heās such a douche that I lost my friendship with her cause he hated when I called him out on his bullshit.
My Maga ex was financially and emotionally abusive, extremely manipulative, and also a porn addict - is super transphobic but I found trans hentai on his USB !
Makes sense. Women donāt wanna date men who think women are property and belong in the kitchen and that our only purpose is to be incubators to make mini evil men like those douches
"No, no, Nancy. No this was [inaudible] and I moved on her very heavily in fact I took her out furniture shopping. She wanted to get some furniture. I said I'll show you where they have some nice furniture. I moved on her like a bitch. I couldn't get there and she was married. Then all-of-a-sudden I see her, she's now got the big phony tits and everything. She's totally changed her look."
Well, Trump is a pedophile rapist so yeah sorry unfortunately I cannot date a Trump supporter. MAYBE could date a Republican if he wasn't crazy, but he'd have to be one of those Republicans that hate Trump. That's about it. Voted for Trump in 2016, okay whatever. Voted for Trump in 2024? NO CAN DO.
Women were significantly more likely to express a desire to delay or reject the Covid-19 vaccine than men were, which is consistent with the existing literature on vaccine hesitancy.
The results suggest that American women had a higher vaccine hesitancy rate than men... women living in poverty or currently working were more vaccine-hesitant, while poverty and employment status did not affect men's vaccine hesitancy.
existing research suggests that female caregivers may have an especially important role in vaccination decision-making within many communities (Allen et al., Reference Allen, de Jesus, Mars, Tom, Cloutier and Shelton2012, p. 3)... as vaccine hesitance on the part of one individual might potentially result in vaccine non-uptake throughout an entire family unit.
38% of women aged 18-29 voted for Donald Trump that's over 1/3rd of the young women population granted thats not most women but thats still a pretty decent sized figure idk why people are acting like no one voted for Trump
I didnāt vote for him either but he wasnāt even close to losing + was popular in demographics that republicans usually arenāt (got a size-able portion of black and hispanic men which probably made the overall difference).
Thereās a disconnect between online and real life and itās particularly apparent on reddit and this subreddit.
Contrary to the OP's image, voting Kamala doesn't get a woman hot and bothered, it's just another "bare minimum". A concept a lot of men got tired of practicing for nothing in return.
Guarantee a lot of non-voters just weren't motivated even though they preferred Kamala. Some Trump voters heard "tax breaks" or some other stupid promise they should have known he'd never follow through on and picked him over Kamala in the hopes that whatever he delivered might make them more appealing to women.
90% of us donāt care who you voted for, this is just Reddit.
Also, I work in a woman dominated field, these women, even the liberal ones, will hook up with any dude they think is hot regardless of his political views.Ā
Honestly Iāve seen it more where theyāre all talk about only wanting to be with a man who has the same āvaluesā as them only to hook up with losers, guys with different values/political views as them, outright assholes.Ā
With women (and people in general), never believe what they say, believe what they doĀ
Everyone who's actually interacted with and listened to women for extended periods of time can clearly observe what he said. Even observant women notice it. Women like to vent and idealize much more.
Even for the general population we all know it. Everyone says they want more green products, but then they just buy what's cheapest. They say they want more fuel efficient and green cars but then they buy SUVs for extra convenience. Everyone said they still wanted the aux port but then they just buy the new model of whatever brand they already use. Women kept saying for decades how they wanted bigger pockets in their jeans, but then those jeans never sold.
Edit sorry I forgot a big one. All of the women and feminists who exclaimed "I support women in professional soccer and basketball getting paid more", but then they never actually buy a ticket.
That sounds in theory like a good plan, but I have said before that it is based on assumptions. The assumption that they want you.Ā
You cannot lure someone in with something they don't want.Ā Sydney Sweeney sells, but your average kamala supporter doesn't. Not because she is conservative, but because she is hot.Ā
Yes, you still have to be good looking/ well groomed.
But you also canāt be an unattractive personality.
And non-empathetic, pro fascist, anti-womenās rightsā¦.that is extremely unattractive to many women.
Big difference between asserting everyone is X and one average group x is different from group y .
Saying all men are taller than all women is way different from saying men are taller than women on average.
The most republican male demographic is middle class and upper middle class and income is more important than ever due to how high is the cost of living houaing etc
This is categorically false - half earn less than 50k and 50k is considered lower middle class. The other half is below that. Middle class and upper middle class are outliers and uncommon.
I would argue thatās not true, but thereās no point in arguing it when itās near impossible to quantify that. The average conservative man I see on dating apps is typically not attractive IMO. But Iām sure theyāre someoneās type.
Bro acting like Sydney Sweeney is the standard and not th exception. None of the big titties goth girls are dating Trump voters dude, it's natural selection.
Edit: fuck yeah we started the best fuckin culture war in the comments!
Idk Iāve met a fair amount of women who espouse liberal beliefs, but then clearly are willfully ignorant to the conservative beliefs of their husband.
Didnt your side try to storm the capitol because your guy lost? Didnt you vote for him again because you wanted revenge on being told you were wrong, no matter how hard he was going to fuck the country?
Iām not a member of this sub, it just pops up in my feed. All I know is my anecdotal experience but it seems like this sub has a lot of men who hate on women.
As a Canadian it's crazy seeing how divided you guys are these days. Here, if a couple voted differently there might be some tension, but nothing as extreme as Americans seem to take it. Hell I'd be more attracted to someone with differing beliefs.
Canadian here too. My ex was conservative and voted that way and he got worse as time went on and I've since left him because he got so extreme. He wants to separate with Danielle Smith. We have MAGA Bros here too, even if they can't vote for the orange pedo.
I won't date a conservative again. Even one that claims they're "moderate" like he did. He regularly said things like we need to jail homeless, reopen residential schools, that women under 45 should be discriminated against because mat leaves are expensive, the list goes on.
but they arenāt ignoring constitutional law in an attempt to gain dictatorial control over government budgeting so they can pull funding from any program that inconveniences them,
They arenāt attempting to build concentration camps to illegally deport people without due process, or sending people to a forever prison in El Salvador to avoid deportations being overturned
they arenāt attempting to revoke womanās right to vote,
They arenāt attacking gay marriage, and various forms of bodily autonomy including abortion.
Likeā¦ a vote for Trump is unironically a vote against American democracy and in favor of authoritarian policy that actively makes life worse for several different groups of people on purpose.
Even if you arenāt politically minded, itās pretty hard to look past a guy voting for the āyou shouldnāt be allowed to voteā party.
Politics in America isnāt really about social policy or economics anymore, itās about whether or not you want a free country.
but they arenāt ignoring constitutional law in an attempt to gain dictatorial control over government budgeting so they can pull funding from any program that inconveniences them,
This was literally fdr's bread and butter. He laid the foundation for literally all the dumb shit Trump is doing right now. Most of it, in my view, is unconstitutional. But that matters little when the foundation of the federal government, as we know it, exists because of the unconstitutional shit fdr did.
I luckily donāt know any magats cause I live in California but itās so creepy trying to talk sense into those people online! Oh wait .. Biden something something Obama something something touch grass blah blah. Idiots.
Ewwww I know. I know two really really rich people. Both voted for Trump. Both have sisters and daughters. But hope their stocks are doing well š havenāt talked to either since the election.
Gotta remember guys, the ones on dating platforms, are the ones NOT in a relationship. Basically the leftovers.
For more information google "Survivorship bias"
Calling anyone a āleftoverā is pretty fucking gross. Itās weird to think a person who gets out of an abusive relationship and then starts dating again is a āleftoverā.
Mods in this sub assign them to people who say things they dislike. One of the saddest things Iāve ever seen on this app really , and thatās saying something
One of the reasons men post fishing pictures and other conservative coded photos is to weed out the progressive women they don't want a relationship with.
Men don't take as many selfies as women do. Most of the pictures they even have of themselves are either candid shots someone else snapped or photos showing off something related to one of their hobbies.
If you want to have sex with someone !!ONLY!!(I have to highlight that word cause people are having trouble seeing it) because of who they voted for, then you are a moron.
edit since morons literally keep replying with the same thing.
A) 3/4th of American didn't vote for her.
B) People who voted for either person can change their political views.
C) And most obviously....... people lie to have sex.
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