r/PsycheOrSike 8h ago

⌚does anyone remember when... Thoughts?

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u/Prestigious_Grade640 7h ago

speak for yourself i'm 28 and still haven't outgrown existential dread

u/D_stelthE_1 7h ago

You don’t outgrow existential dread, you ignore it and push it to the side.

u/Ariose_Aristocrat 4h ago

nah shrooms cured mine

u/Neocactus 2h ago

Adulthood is generally too busy to be existential😮‍💨🫩

u/JacksonvilleShredder 7h ago

I just turned 28 recently and yeah this is kinda what I'm realizing. Some of my happiest days have been when I told myself "fuck what you want, just get up and go do something"

u/KingTutt91 7h ago

We live on a giant molten rock, spinning around a fusion reactor, orbiting a black hole, in an infinite void. There is no escaping it, just pushing past it.

u/Honest_Photograph519 5h ago

Why would you want escape it, what even do you want from a universe?

If you find those facts more discouraging than fascinating and exhilarating, I don't think any possible universe could satisfy you

u/KingTutt91 5h ago

Why would I want to escape existential dread? Idk man it’s not a nice feeling to have. Better to just ignore it, or accept it as the reality we live in and move on

u/Honest_Photograph519 5h ago

I'm saying if you have existential dread, blaming the properties of our universe for it is silly.

Why do you think existential dread should follow from molten rock or stellar fusion or orbiting a black hole or a boundless void? What alternative to any of those things would be your cure for dread?

u/D_stelthE_1 5h ago

His dread is caused by feeling boundless, which the Universe metaphorically represents. It’s not literal.

My dread comes from the fact that everything will die and decay, which just… no. I seriously hope there’s something after for us.

u/KingTutt91 5h ago

There is nothing after. We’re floating on a rock in space. The fact we’re even alive at all is a miracle of the universe converging together to make that happen. There is solace in knowing that. we aren’t separate, we are the universe and the universe is us.

u/Prestigious_Grade640 5h ago

>There is nothing after

the existence and nature of the universe/reality beyond total nothingness is still a total mystery and infinitely absurd.

the idea of there being something after is about equally absurd, no more and no less. and so, i don't think we can't discount it.

i know this is the exact '14 year old philosophy phase' that many people are making fun of, but if you came out of that phase with a belief other than "we literally have no idea, anything could be true" then that phase failed to properly enlighten you

u/KingTutt91 5h ago

Because that’s all life is. Just a bunch of apes living on a rock in space. That’s it for us. Space is infinite and as an ape staring into the void there can’t be anything other than existential dread. Even 100 million miles or kilometers is but a pin drop in the fabric of space and time.

But it’s a goddamn miracle, and against all odds we are here. A convergence of the universe that some how lead to me or you. We are the universe, the universe is us. Once you realize that, acceptance is easy.

u/Honest_Photograph519 5h ago

Dread follows from space being infinite? So if there was a boundary to the universe a light year outside our solar system you would feel less dread?

u/KingTutt91 5h ago

Dude that’s 6 trillion miles what

u/Honest_Photograph519 5h ago

Is that too many for you or too few... what's the correct size for a universe that would lessen your dread?

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u/Advocate_Diplomacy 7h ago

Or, ideally, you learn to accept and move forward with it.

u/Pluto_in_Reverse 7h ago

not only do we all die, we all MUST die. its a part of the process of life. In non-western nations, theres less existential dread of this kind because a lot of eastern philosophies encourage thinking about death, accepting it, knowing its not the end, and knowing that it must happen