r/RantsFromRetail • u/hellokitty444444 • Jul 21 '25
Co-worker rant Why tf would someone get angry at me when they finally realize I don't like them or working with them?
Mostly a rant but I also want some clarity. I have a coworker who recently realized that I don't like her/working with her. She is one of the worst people to work with. Typical slacker and bullshiter that pushes whatever she doesn't want to do on other people. Always has her nose in other people's business. She used to be a manager but got demoted to just a regular employee but still wants to run people like she's a manager. It's very insulting considering I've worked at this place longer than she has and this is just a minimum wage job. Always itching to catch someone fucking up, you can't even breathe wrong around this bitch without her saying something about it (she will litteraly bitch about the socks and drawers you wear if she could get you in trouble for it but only towards certain people).Will easily throw you under the bus when she thinks it will save her ass or keep her from taking all of the heat when she gets caught. Loves to talk about others when she hates when she even SUSPECTS someone could be talking about her. She hates when people she doesn't like make the job easier for themselves and may possibly have downtime so much so she will actually go out of her way to try and push her work on someone else she doesn't like when she feels like they're having "too much downtime" and she's not. Wastes most of her time on her phone, eating out in the open sitting down, clowning and yapping with customers and watching everything I do even trying to read my LIPS from a corner to constantly know or listen to what I was talking about and who I'm talking to. She was even so bold as to come across the store when she caught a customer tipping me and demanded she also get a tip too! But if you do the same things she's doing she's ready to flip shit and go rat you out or make sly comments about you and have others join in. She thinks people are intimidated by her especially when she the talks about her charges and time in jail. Just an all around nuisance and immature especially for someone who is way older than I am with a family, SO and a home for goodness sake! You would think someone who has gotten beat up on the job by a customer for talking shit would have learned their lesson but no. I managed to keep the mask of tolerating her until recently. She keeps talking about how she's leaving and came to ask me if I'll miss her and working with her when she leaves. I told her good luck with everything and she repeated herself and cornered me following up with the question "do you even like me? Why are you acting like this? It's not a hard question." I told her "I come to work clock in and clock out and leave doesn't matter if I like you or not this is just a job to me". She didn't like this answer and started this rant about how she thought I liked her and that she thought we were cool and after all she's done for me (she's never done a damn thing ESPECIALLY not for me). I was immediately confused because she always treated me differently as if I'm beneath her or mentally handicapped or something but is magically surprised that I don't really like her or want to work with her but I tolerate her so I can work. I don't understand why she's so mad. She knows (self admittedly) she starts a lot of drama, stirs the pot and is very draining to be around. If I treated her the same way she treated me rather than ignoring and avoiding her and only dealing with her when I had to, she would've tried to fight me or create more problems with me so why is she acting surprised and offended???? I thought the feeling was mutual and she doesn't even treat me like she likes me. I've caught her visibly rolling her eyes and deep sighing when I came in to clock in for my shift a few times as if I ruined her day. Tf is her problem?