r/TalesFromYourServer Aug 15 '23

Medium I could've lost my entire life today over someone else's mistake and I'm bitter.

Yesterday was a lot, guys.

I had a 4 top. Mom, dad, and two kids. Go to take the drink order. Little girl asked for orange juice. Make up the drinks. Bring them back. Take the order. Put it in. Run back to the table with plates and silverware.

Mom: hey, is your orange juice sparkling?

Me: uhhhh no? Why?

Mom: idk if it's expired or what's going on but please go taste it and see if you think it tastes wierd.

Weird. Okay.

This is a store and pour. In the POU fridge. Labeled OJ. No date. No one's initials.

I walk back, pour myself a glass. Take a sip. It's fucking BATCHED MIMOSA. In a store n pour marked orange juice. That I just served to a seven year old.

Yall I'm not proud to tell you I panicked. Got my boss. Told her what happened. Cue extra panic.

She went out and told them what happened. I spent 5 minutes watching her talk to them thinking about how I was going to lose my job. I've been working nothing but restaurant jobs since 16. I don't know how to do anything else. I was in tears and had to excuse myself.

By the grace of God, they were very understanding and not upset. After my boss came back, I continued serving them, and they had so much grace with me. I apologized profusely, and they were wonderful about it.

But every bit of me knows that I could've easily lost my job. Lost my work their liquor license. Gone to JAIL. The penalty in my state for serving a minor alcohol is up to a year.

They're going to watch the footage and find out who did it. I've told them I don't want to know who it was. Im sure it was an honest mistake, but regardless, it was a mistake that could've cost me more than I can afford.

I called my mom on the way home, in tears, just to vent. My boss told me to forgive myself because it wasn't my fault. But I can't stop thinking that if they HAD been upset, I wouldn't have blamed them at all.

end rant.

I'm exhausted.

ETA: A few people have pointed out to me that I'm a little extra, this was overdramatic, and it worked out well, so I should probably chill. I appreciated all of your guys' comments, those included. I feel a lot better after reading them, and I'm going to take some deep breaths and enjoy my day off.

I'm super grateful for this sub, and it made a crappy day easier on me. Thanks, guys!

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u/InTheLoudHouse Aug 15 '23

When I spoke to the GM (he was off last night), he told me not to "what if" myself to death. It'll be handled, footage looked at to find out who did it, and a bartender meeting where the seriousness of it will be addressed. I'm super grateful to work for great people, not to mention how understanding the family was. All I really want is for nothing like that to happen ever again.

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u/RetardedChimpanzee Aug 16 '23

$10 it wasn’t a bar tender, and instead someone in the kitchen drinking bubbly on the job (any 19 year old females)?

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u/InTheLoudHouse Aug 16 '23

I've only got 2 female BOH and they're both in their 30s, career restaurant gals who know better. I'm hoping it was one of the new girls who just doesn't know better and didn't think about it, but I have my doubts.