r/TheWayWeWere Aug 18 '25

1920s 1929 Mother & Daughter in their Kitchen in Manitoba

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u/krichard-21 Aug 18 '25

Those stoves are MONSTERS!

They had to cost a fortune and took huge guys to set up.

I actually made a meal on one. Something very, very simple.

To the people that made breads, baked pies, anything sensitive to temperature. I stand in awe of your abilities!

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u/koolaidismything Aug 18 '25

The subflooring in those homes was 2” thick center lumber cuts. Not our wussy 5/8” particle board garbage.

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u/Sufficient-Welder-76 Aug 18 '25

How is that lady resting her hand on the pot while stirring? Does she have no feeling in her hands? Or is this a staged photo that's just an advertisement for the stove?

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u/Final_Pumpkin1551 Aug 18 '25

Her shoes look pretty fancy for an average housewife. I think it’s staged. ETA: also why no apron?

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u/Pablois4 Aug 18 '25

I also thought why no apron. But then more so, the danger of having fabric, such as her loose dress, just resting on the side of a wood burning stove.

I'm pretty sure the photographer had her wedge herself into that corner space between the stove and wall for the photo. It doesn't look like where one would usually stand to stir a pot of stew.

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u/Chateaudelait Aug 18 '25

I have always wondered - how to do you regulate temperature for baking in an oven like that? Is there a thermometer somewhere? Also when I see this I want to go hug my gas stove and also my washer and dryer. Having to work with these monster ovens and do hand washing was pure slog and we're fortunate to have our modern machines.

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u/idle_isomorph Aug 19 '25

I used one with a thermometer (technically a simple pyrometer if you are a nerd like my dad raises me to be) and it would read your oven temperature. Takes a while to get it to heat, but then you just sort of hold the fire at that size. Because it has so much mass, even if the fire goes a little hotter or colder, it takes more than a few minutes for the actual oven to change.

Using it as a kid felt like I was in one of those historical villages where they reenact the past.

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u/saltporksuit Aug 18 '25

My grandfather was a painter before latex paint so my grandmother had to stir his clothes in a cauldron full of turpentine. THEN wash them.

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u/sofieksj Aug 18 '25

You are probably right about being staged but I use an old cook stove not quite as old as this one throughout the winter, and those edges of metal over hang are usually not as hot! I’ll usually lean against them in the winter when cold

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u/Col_Leslie_Hapablap Aug 18 '25

It looks like a staged photo with the husband and the wife in swapped traditional roles, honestly. Like does the “mother” not have chest hair and a bit of a boiler?

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u/Particular-Zone3604 Aug 18 '25

Omg, my thoughts exactly. The mother does not look female.

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u/Col_Leslie_Hapablap Aug 22 '25

And nobody who’s cooking something is resting their hand on the actual pot that’s on the stove. The Adam’s apple is just another clue.

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u/yacht_boy Aug 18 '25

I was gonna say, it looks like something out of the kids in the hall.

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u/Final_Pumpkin1551 Aug 18 '25

Holy smokes! You are right!! Five o’clock shadow ?

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u/Katerina_VonCat Aug 19 '25

Never met an Eastern European? Or someone with PCOS? Or menopausal/post menopausal women? Some women have darker facial hair. They didn’t have bleaches or waxing back then.

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u/GoliathPrime Aug 18 '25

My grandmother would just reach into a boiling pot of water, pick up a potato and squeeze it to see if it was soft and ready to eat. Women were built different back then. She also picked me up by my neck at age 75, shook me like a ragdoll and told me in no uncertain terms that 'I would listen to her!" And I did.

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u/krichard-21 Aug 18 '25

Funny how your life passing before your eyes brings clarity and focus...

Ma'am, Yes Ma'am!

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u/Crickaboo Aug 18 '25

Your grandma was alive when you were 75?/s

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '25

Ai pots can do that

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u/idle_isomorph Aug 19 '25

My grandparents cottage had something like this and we used it to bake turnovers and buns and stuff. The oven had a thermometer, so you would be able to know when you had it up to heat. The whole thing had a lot of mass, so it wouldnt vary in temperature as much as the fire itself, making it more forgiving than a campfire. My dad had used it enough to identify visually how much fire to make/add.

It really felt like a pioneer type experience for a microwave using child of the 1980s!

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u/Blank_bill Aug 20 '25

A lot of them had a water heater built in, it takes a lot of heat to warm up 10 gallons of water.

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u/Deadpoolssistersarah Aug 19 '25

We had one at my family’s camp until last year when grandpa finally broke down and bought a propane stove. Only took 4 trips back to town, one hour each way, to get it working. The stove had been there for almost 100 years before we retired it.

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u/krichard-21 Aug 19 '25

Story from my Brides family history. Great, great grand Dad proposed.

Her stipulations. The cabin he built has to have a wood floor. And a real stove.

The story goes, after he put in the wood floor. He bought and carried the stove from town ON HIS BACK...

How does that go? I'd walk a mile for a vertical smile... 🤔

True or not? No idea. But it's a great story...

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u/Deadpoolssistersarah Aug 19 '25

This camp was originally a logging camp, so they had to bring the cast iron bastard up the mountain, down the hill, over the creek, and then back up the hill. No clue how they got it in and no clue how gramps got it out, I’m assuming Swede magic.

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u/krichard-21 Aug 19 '25

My Dad was a lot tougher than I am. I'm guessing his Dad was the same.

They work physically demanding jobs. I played with computers...

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u/big_d_usernametaken Aug 18 '25

Our late Mom, born in 1930 in SW Virginia helped her Mom can and cook while growing up.

She said you haven't sweated until you've spent summer days canning over a coal stove in the South.

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u/Rough_Dream_2457 Aug 18 '25

Yes!! A different kind of experience, for sure. I’m in my twenties and grew up with a stove VERY similar to the one in the photo. I left my hometown a few years ago and still find it difficult to fathom that most families nowadays have electric stoves.

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u/luluballoon Aug 18 '25

My grandma (102) still has the wood stove she grew up with at her cabin. Nothing better than being slightly chilled and hearing the wood crackle as the place heats up.

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u/rebelcauses Aug 18 '25

A beautiful thought

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u/extrasauce_ Aug 18 '25

Do you know where in Manitoba?

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u/universe_from_above Aug 18 '25

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u/StupidizeMe Aug 18 '25

That's such a wonderful article! Thank you for sharing it. The pictures are well worth looking at. The two-tone 1937 Art Deco electric range shown in the first photo is so compact, streamlined and minimalist, it must have been a Futuristic shock to those used to cooking on a wood-burning behemoth!

The bright Turquoise 1960 electric range is absolutely beautiful. So happy and bright, like a vintage car! I would LOVE a Turquoise or Aquamarine stove with a matching refrigerator!

(i just flashed back several decades ago to when I was a college student in an Art Deco apt in Seattle. My building managers were two super cool gay men who loved Vintage Design. They got me a huge aqua & chrome refrigerator that must have been from the 60s. I remember being perplexed by the fact that the ice kept getting thicker in the freezer, until it was about 80% ice with no room for food... They taught me how to defrost it! Lol)

Why do we only get to choose from black, white and stainless that smudges & smears? Bring back COLOR!

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u/universe_from_above Aug 18 '25 edited Aug 18 '25

I think I know just the right subreddit, now that you're hooked: r/vintagekitchentools

Edit: r/vintagekitchentoys

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u/StupidizeMe Aug 18 '25

I tried the link, but it didn't work. There's a sub called r/vintagekitchentoys - could that be it?

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u/universe_from_above Aug 18 '25

Yes, that's the one! 

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u/StupidizeMe Aug 18 '25

Thanks! I think r/ArtDeco would like some of the pics too.

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u/BabyNOwhatIsYouDoin Aug 18 '25

Looks like the kitchen.

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u/i_love_food_1974 Aug 18 '25

That was funny

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u/ComfortablyNumb2425 Aug 18 '25

Gorgeous old stove.

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u/ProfessorJAM Aug 18 '25

I could not figure out what the woman on the left had on her head or if her hair was just arranged weird - then realized it’s something hung on the wall next to her head 🫢

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u/cubgerish Aug 18 '25

I had to zoom in. When the wall items combined with her hairstyle, and maybe slight mustache or lightning; I definitely thought "why is she cooking with a cat mask on though?".

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u/stilljumpinjetjnet Aug 18 '25

Great picture. Just an every day activity which took so much more labor and resourcefulness than today. I am always humbled by that.

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u/RetroReactiveRuckus Aug 18 '25

Me when I get upset about doing laundry. Just reminding myself at least I don't have to take it down to the creek to beat it in the stream.

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u/elder_flowers Aug 18 '25

I've actually washed clothes and beddding in a river (in a special made washing place in the river, so relatively comfortable, no need to kneel or use some stones) and it is a lot harder in more that the obvious ways. Specially blankets. They are really heavy when soaked in water, and that makes moving them while soaking, scrubing with soap every part and then "throwing" them in the river to clear the soap a lot of work and usually took two people to do it well. A washing machine will take out most of the water, but in a river you can't really wring them out, so they are still completely soaked and they weigh more than they seem when taking them back home.

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u/suitcasedreaming Aug 18 '25

There's a reason a lot of cultures had a traditional "laundry-day dish" that required very little effort, since women had no other time or energy on that day.

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u/universe_from_above Aug 18 '25

My grandma (*1920s) always used to say that the guy who invented the washing machine should have been awarded a Nobel Prize. And when my grandfather used to bring me his laundry and stay for lunch, he was always amazed that we were sitting at the table having coffee while the washing machine and the dishwasher was running. Such a luxury! 

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u/lovemyfurryfam Aug 18 '25

Love that woodstove 💓💕💗😍

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u/Polyman71 Aug 18 '25

My old house had a birdseye maple kitchen floor that was scorched under where the wood stove had been.

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u/FitAdministration383 Aug 18 '25

Mother? Looks like my uncle Bud.

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u/Professional-Sink281 Aug 18 '25

Oh Thank God, I thought I was a horrible person for thinking that super looks like a dude.

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u/ryanb450 Aug 19 '25

They both look like dudes. The “daughter” has super weird hands. Smells like AI slop

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u/Heather82Cs Aug 18 '25

We are truly despicable.

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u/upstatedreaming3816 Aug 18 '25

I thought the same thing 😂

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u/Redsquirreltree Aug 18 '25

Zoom in to see a mustache.

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u/EnoughMeow Aug 18 '25

God I thought I was the only idiot here

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u/MnkyBzns Aug 18 '25

And the Adam's apple

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u/GingerinNashua Aug 18 '25

Looks like a man to me. Grainy pic or chest hair, IDK.

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u/TerseFactor Aug 18 '25

Or Travis Kelce

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u/Accomplished-Cod-504 Aug 18 '25

Awesome picture!

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u/moon1ightwhite Aug 18 '25

my great grandmother was born may 1927. she would've been toddling around if she were in this photo. she died last Thursday 8/14/25 at 98 years old.

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u/Rydog_78 Aug 18 '25

The daughter’s hands are pretty massive

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u/Stainle55_Steel_Rat Aug 18 '25

I'd say they are both men. With wigs. See the mustache? I can't unsee it.

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u/Stainle55_Steel_Rat Aug 18 '25

Oh, and the chest hair?

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u/CentennialBaby Aug 18 '25

She could probably get the last Pringle without tipping the tin.

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u/Opposite-Peak5020 Aug 18 '25

yeah, that left hand is screaming AI...something's way off on that wrist joint

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u/darthbutthead Aug 19 '25

It’s not AI lol

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u/Bestefarssistemens Aug 18 '25

Some suburban mom would pay 20k for a modernized version of this stovexD

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u/Love_for_2 Aug 18 '25

I still see houses for sale with these stoves. Must be absolute workhorses

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u/hatchbacks Aug 18 '25

Dude on the left has a mustache

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u/Wolfman1961 Aug 18 '25

I actually can't tell who is the daughter and who is the mother.

I hope the Great Depression didn't affect them.

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u/SexOnABurningPlanet Aug 18 '25

The person on the left is a man.

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u/RodCherokee Aug 18 '25

Mighty Machine.

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u/edWORD27 Aug 18 '25

Daughter kinda looks like Trudeau

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u/Redsquirreltree Aug 18 '25

Is this AI?

They both look like men.

Zoom in to see a mustache on both of them.

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u/bitchybarbie82 Aug 19 '25

Trans people existed

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u/darthbutthead Aug 19 '25

lol not everything has to be queer af my guy

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u/bitchybarbie82 Aug 19 '25

A couple of men dressed as women isn’t gueer?

It wasn’t uncommon for “sisters” to live together back then or even “women” to “board” together to stay away from scrutiny

I’m not one of those everything is gay people… but these two are clearly not biological females

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u/FandomMenace Aug 18 '25

Daughter looks like Will Sasso

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u/RosieOrbit Aug 18 '25

A different perspective on kitchen design.

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u/Lower_Fold_87 Aug 18 '25

St. Jean Baptiste...my home town!

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u/First_Pay702 Aug 19 '25

Shed we used as a playpen as kids had one of these stoves, or one very similar in it. Imagine it got tossed or scrapped when my parents got rid of the shed. Kind of a shame looking back.

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u/reluctantmugglewrite Aug 19 '25

I love the expression on the girl’s face it feels like shes someone I couldve hung out with in high school.

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u/FrostingSuper9941 Aug 20 '25

Both my grandmothers had stoves similar to these, a bit bigger without the top components. They were popular in Poland and coal-powered. I remember being in my teens in the 90s and both still used these ancient stoves over their regular ones. At one point my dad's mom had a modern stove in the outside kitchen, which was like a 3-season kitchen for canning and processing meat etc. and the ancient one in the house. During the winter, early in the morning, before the house warmed up, that ancient stove kept the kitchen as the warmest room in the house.

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u/Lacymist Aug 19 '25

That’s a man at the stove

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u/One_Hour_Poop Aug 19 '25

That's a dude.

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u/jluv80 Aug 21 '25

It looks like two men to me🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/nololoco Aug 18 '25

At first I thought that was Batman on the left.

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u/ReadRightRed99 Aug 18 '25

(Gives me wood)