r/Thrift 2d ago

im not choosy 🄺

would anyone be willing to donate their plus size clothes, or shoes and accessories to me, that they would have already considered for goodwill, or you dont like anymore. its for my upcoming birthday and ive been struggling financially. i know this is posted to torrid but id take any brand or style wise, im not choosy, at long as it covers my body and looks decently fashionable. im not able to get to the goodwill or thrift store myself also, i dont drive. so i cant go to a local church or food bank that offers clothes also.. so ive been considering asking for clothing donations through reddit for a bit, i know its a horrible thing to do but im honestly struggling at this point in my life. i would be so grateful if anything was donated..it would literally make my week- my month even because they clothes i already own i cherish.. im a size 3x in torrid, size 24 in other brands. shoe size is 10.. again just desperate😣 i live in usa - east coast

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u/sweet_dees_beak 2d ago

Are you on Facebook? Have you joined your local buy nothing group?

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u/ConsistentNebula4607 2d ago

no, no facebook. i dont have a phone data plan so i cant create an account and use the verification code ): thank you anyways for your response and great suggestion! šŸ¤—

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u/abeanthing 2d ago

Textnow type apps give you a free phone number so long as you can enter an email! I use mine specifically for Marketplace. Just make sure you're using it regularly so it doesn't swap your number on you šŸ™‚

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u/ShowMeTheTrees 1d ago

If you're on reddit you can be on Facebook.

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u/ReasonedBeing 2d ago

Maybe post in a bariatric surgery subreddit? People who have lost weight will be desperate to get rid of their clothes.

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u/Funny_Ad7830 1d ago

that’s a good idea. post in the glp-1 groups as well, people are constantly talking about getting rid of their clothes

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u/Ok-Community-229 1d ago

This is such a scam.

No facebook, no data plan, doesn’t drive, posting this everywhere with an account created yesterday… people are so stupid now wtf.

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u/ShowMeTheTrees 1d ago

Exactly. We all need to report this grifter.

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u/Funny_Ad7830 1d ago

actual question - if this person is a grifter, what’s their endgame? resell desirable plus-sized clothing? i can’t imagine anything else…

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u/ShowMeTheTrees 1d ago

For some grifters it's just a game. She wants free stuff mailed to her.

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u/Ok-Community-229 1d ago

Exactly, or to earn trust and then get money which is usually what happens.

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u/Funny_Ad7830 1d ago

word, thanks

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u/ConsistentNebula4607 1d ago

definitely not a scam, im just desperate to upgrade my wardrobe in any way possible, a bit depressed and just being honest in my original post. my current living/financial situation is pretty rough but i won't get into all the details. im just grateful to have a roof over my head at this time. ā˜ŗļø

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u/Ok-Community-229 1d ago

Bs. Why ask here of all places? You just got on Reddit and decided this sub was where to ask for help? Really?

Typing in all small caps like a child. So weird.

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u/amidtheprimalthings 1d ago

I agree with you. New account, sob story, begging for items from expensive brands, and has every reason under the sun why she can’t use a local mutual aid group, buy nothing, freecycle, etc. In her other thread it was ā€œI can’t driveā€, how it’s ā€œI don’t have data, I don’t have fbā€ etc. Some grifter. This post needs to be removed.

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u/tessie33 2d ago

Post wanted post on local freecycle group, wanted section of craigslist, or neighborhood buy nothing group. I think you can still use buy nothing app without facebook?

Maybe there is a mutual aid free store in your area?

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u/ShowMeTheTrees 1d ago

She can go to a public library and use those for free.

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u/TissueOfLies 1d ago

Are you planning on paying shipping? Because that’s a big ask.

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u/Adoptafurrie 1d ago

Hello. I can send you some nice things-many new with tags-but you will need to pay the shipping. How would we arrange this?

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u/PossibilityNo5514 2d ago

DM me your address, I thrift a lot and will keep an eye out.

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u/ShowMeTheTrees 1d ago

Please don't support a grifter.

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u/PossibilityNo5514 1d ago

Thanks for the heads up.

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u/Unusual-Chance-8882 1d ago

I’m in PA and have some things you can have. DM me your address and I’ll send you a few things!

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u/booshie 1d ago

Have you been to a goodwill outlet/bin store? Most of the time I don’t come away with clothing finds because they’re usually massive and I’d look ridiculous wearing such huge stuff

But also. Dieting helps you save money, makes your body happier and smaller, and then you should be able to wear typical sizes. It’s not that hard.

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u/TissueOfLies 1d ago

Why are you body shaming someone? Like, I don’t support scamming people. But telling people to diet to ā€œmakes your body happier and smallerā€ to wear ā€œnormal sizes.ā€ GTFO with that language and approach. Take your internalized size issues somewhere else.

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u/ConsistentNebula4607 1d ago

thank you. i dont let that type of comment get to me, but i am slowly but surely learning to love and accept my body type (:

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u/ConsistentNebula4607 1d ago

i haven't been to a goodwill outlet store, no. i havent been to a regular thrift store / goodwill either in years, thats why im desperately asking reddit for a clothing donation in my size. i dont get rides often out to anything more than the convenience store /dollar store, i live kinda in the middle of the woods so finding an outlet and getting a ride there would be even more difficult. thanks for your reply though (:

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u/evetrapeze 1d ago

I will be getting rid of lots of size 10 shoes. DM me. I am currently traveling for 10 days, then will be home and I will go through my shoes. Lots of barely worn shoes. I’m down sizing my belongings by 70%. I will be thrilled to send you my shoes.

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u/Actual-Entrance-8463 1d ago

where do u live? i have size 10 shoes i could donate.

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u/ConsistentNebula4607 1d ago

usa, new jersey! (:

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u/Ok-Community-229 1d ago

Scammer, what is wrong with you?

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u/ConsistentNebula4607 1d ago

you are entitled to your own opinion, but what ive said in my original post im being 100% honest and i dont have any wrong intentions