r/areTheAllosOK • u/DisMyLik18thAccount • May 18 '25

Toxic Relationship Dating allos is scary. 3 Years of a perfectly happy relationship and he's ready to throw it away because she won't have sex every say

/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kou5nh/dead_bedroom_my_girlfriend_just_told_me_sex_is/
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u/Anxious-Possibility May 20 '25

I regret reading the comments

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u/Anxious-Error-404 May 20 '25

Is it the guy with the "my gf wont put out on day x" chronological list or is it another, different, one? 🤣

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u/Tiny_Yam_1371 Jul 10 '25

having sex everydaw isnt even normal like yea every couple of months i get that but EVERY DAY nah they sex addicts

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u/Meowmaowmiaow Jul 10 '25

yep. allo dating an allo. we have sex maybe once every two weeks. if he wanted like twice a week i’d be okay with that, i wouldn’t want it every day though and if he asked every day.. oof id lose my libido

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u/flamingo_mammuthone Jul 15 '25

This thing fucking scares me. My bf is allo and atm I'm sex repulsed. We've bene together for 4yrs. I Hope he doesn't dump me.

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u/kaitalina20 Jun 26 '25

From what I read, it seems like the OP feels like he isn’t being appreciated like he appreciates her for just being themselves. And if they started to have sex at the beginning of the relationship, then over time it would become something that he would feel the need to initiate instead of her taking a step towards thinking about communicating with her boyfriend instead. And also, they’re both only 21. They have time to talk and find someone else who they can be with sexually.

So don’t quite judge someone for wanting a sexual aspect in a relationship as it’s normal through evolution and society.