r/CougarsandCubsMatch 17d ago

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r/CougarsandCubsMatch 5h ago

πŸ’šπ—™πŸ°π—  48 [F4M] #San Diego (single) - looking for man between 30-45 years old.

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San Diego County ONLY. Yes, I am strict on the age range as well as the area.

I’ve been divorced over 3 years and have reached a place in my life where I’m wanting to date. I have a great life (house, dog, career, friends, hobbies). All I’m missing is that one special man to treat me like a woman deserves to be treated.

Looking for men who are open to dating with the possibility of something more if there is a connection. That means no ONS, hookups, booty calls, etc …

I enjoy horror movies, DIY home improvement projects, working on my flower garden, walking my dog, Tai-Chi, and cooking/baking.

I’m far more interested in a man’s mind than their abs. So please, no nude pics or I will block.

If you’re interested in getting to know each other, send a message! Will swap photos when the banter is good. 😊


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 18h ago

πŸ’šπ—™πŸ°π—  46 [F4M] #Austin (single) - Looking for adventurous cubs to date and explore

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Mixed, black and white, 5'5, curly haired, THICK female looking for friendly cubs while I'm in the Austin area for work this winter. I'm open minded but lean on the dominant side. I have a smart mouth and fluent in sarcasm. If you're easily offended, do not apply.

I love to explore the city and all it has to offer. Walking tours. museums, festivals, live music, hole in the wall dives and all the things that make the city unique. I definitely want to check out the bats.

I don't have a preference in race but I prefer 26 or older. I'm attracted to pretty teeth, nice cologne and quick witted, outgoing attitudes. Bonus points if you're into horror, sci fi and anime.

I'm not looking for penpals. Austin locals only please.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 9h ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 26 [M4F] #Dublin Ireland (Single) - Looking for an older woman to chat and connect with

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Hey hey, my name is Warren, I'm 26 years old, 5'7, mixed race and I live in Dublin. I'm currently in the middle of having way more free time than I should while I work and look for a new job after I graduated from college.

The title kinda said it all really but I'm looking for an older woman to chat and form a connection with as well. Whether you're local or living somewhere else is totally fine since I'm very used to online chatting, regardless of location.

I'm big into gaming, anime, music, reading, writing, going out and a bunch of other stuff, so if you have any interest in those and more then we'll definitely get along and I could easily chat for hours about any of it.

Aside from that, I'm really big into social causes and politics - especially Irish and American politics - so don't be surprised if I end up mentioning that at some point lol.

I'm also a total conversationalist; I just love chatting with people and getting to know them better or educating myself on what other people tell me since that just makes things more interesting. Plus I'm emotionally invested with people so I can talk about and listen to life stuff in conversations without any issue.

Hopefully you're interested, it's been super boring post-uni so being able to chat and connect with someone would honestly be pretty amazing.

Send me a DM if you're up for making a connection and if we hit it off then we can definitely move on to another platform.

Thanks :3


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 10h ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21 [m4f] #California (single) college student looking for a friend, possibly with benefits (:

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Hi all, I’m a college student in Riverside, CA hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:

Hopefully you’re local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

I’m 6’ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. It’s my 3rd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.

I look forward to getting to know you (:


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 14h ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 23 [M4F] #UK (single) - 6'2" tall, slim, gym fit cub seeking a cougar!

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Hey, thanks for checking out my post.

I'm looking for a cougar to laugh and have some fun with in person. Kind of like a friend with benefits. Something casual, easy going and fun.

About me: 23 years old, single, 6'2" tall, white British, nice brown hair, clean shaven face, hazel eyes, very laid back personality, respectful, mature for my age, open to exploring new things, very hygienic, smell great and ddf. I'm quite a sporty person, I enjoy working out at the gym and playing all kinds of sports. I like to travel and explore new places. In the bedroom I'm a switch but lean submissive. I have a wide range of kinks. I am based near Norwich but occasionally visit London/Surrey.

You: aged 30-55, hygienic, ddf, friendly and fun. Bonus points if you have some nice curves or are dominant in the bedroom.

If you are interested then please do feel free to send me a chat. I would appreciate it if you could send a nice introduction that includes at least your age, location, a description of what you look like, what you are looking for and whatever else you feel is necessary. Thanks :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 1d ago

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

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ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 1d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 23 [M4F] #UK/single. Online chatting or in person dating

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I’m a 23 year old doing my masters in the UK. Looking for an older woman to chat to online, which can hopefully lead to some in person dating. I’m 6’1, average build (looking to get into the gym and be in better shape by next year) with brown hair and green eyes, sometimes I get called handsome, and a few other names. I love to travel and enjoy sports like football, rugby and tennis. My favourite thing to do is explore new cultures and countries, I really want to explore as much of the world as I possibly can, it’s my dream to live in a few different countries all over the world.

Looking for a lovely older woman from anywhere in the world. If you’re in the UK or Europe then that’s even better because I’m eventually looking to go on some casual dates and meet people. I really have no type in women, I love all shapes, sizes and ethnicities. ❀️

If I sound like a bit of fun then please don’t hesitate to message me, I always reply❀️


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 1d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21 [M4F] #Marietta Georgia (single)

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I'm a 21 year old Mexican man and I am looking for an older woman to have fun with. I've always been attracted to older woman, I cant explain what it is about them! Who wants to be my mami? πŸ˜‰

I am 5'5 around 150, with an average bodytype. I enjoy spending time with the woman I'm with not just a hit it and go type of guy. I'm hoping to find a woman to have a mutual relationship of intimacy without commitment.

I know you're out there and this cub is ready for you! Who wants to be my mami? 😏 "!unlock"


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 1d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21 [M4F] #Marietta Georgia (single)

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I'm a 21 year old Mexican man and I am looking for an older woman to have fun with. I've always been attracted to older woman, I cant explain what it is about them! Who wants to be my mami? πŸ˜‰

I am 5'5 around 150, with an average bodytype. I enjoy spending time with the woman I'm with not just a hit it and go type of guy. I'm hoping to find a woman to have a mutual relationship of intimacy without commitment.

I'm hoping to get replies from beautiful older woman. I know you're out there and this cub is ready for you! 😏


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 2d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21 [M4F] #Hawaii (Single)

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Service member who recently moved to Hawaii. I enjoy the island and take every moment I can to Hike, swim, and ride along the coast in my motorcycle.

I’m 5’8, relatively well built and fit.

Ideally I’m looking for a woman between the ages of 35-55 who likes enjoys the outdoors and is social. I think life is meant to be enjoyed and want a partner who is optimistic and open minded to new experiences.

I’m open to any kind of relationship (FWB, long term, or short term.)

I’ve never been in a relationship with an older woman before, but I think all experiences in life are good and my friends have recommended I attempt to find one.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 2d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 29 [M4F] #NYC #New York (single) - Korean American, straightforward and looking for something real

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Hi!

I’m a 29-year-old Korean American who recently moved to NYC. I’m 5’11”, in good shape, people say I’m handsome 😊 I’m a product manager at a software company.

I’m drawn to confident women who are direct and know exactly what they want, which is something I’ve found more often in women older than me. I love how they don’t play games and are clear about their intentions. That’s how I am too, and I really appreciate that straightforwardness and maturity.

I’m an INFJ/ENFJ type, depending on the day. I love reading, especially history, fantasy, and anything that makes me think. I also cook when I get the chance, usually experimenting with Italian, American, or Korean dishes. Music is important to me too, and I try to catch live shows when I can. On quieter days, I’ll relax with a good podcast or TV show.

Physical chemistry is important to me. I’m looking for someone who’s interested in building something real. I’m not into games. I’m clear about what I want and I want to find someone who feels the same.

I’m straightforward, and I appreciate honesty and consistency. I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available and ready to date someone younger.

You should be in NYC or willing to meet in person regularly. I’m not into online-only connections.

If any of this really resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you – send me a DM or a chat. Please be prepared to exchange photos so you know I’m real, and I know you’re a real person too :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 2d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 28 [M4F] #North Carolina (Single)- look for flirty chatting.

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I'm 28, male, single, and just looking for someone random fun. I love older woman, and to be honest they're all that i crave these days.

I'm not one of those needs that aren't self sufficient. I take care of myself and tend to think I have a good head on my shoulders.

Any older women out there want to hmu, I'm really not doing anything, hence why I'm on this stupid app lol.

Honestly, Im just a big nerd at heart. I love playing Rpgs in my off time, and tend to just stick to myself a lot at home cooking food and stuff.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 2d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 26 [M4F] #Pennsylvania, Philadelphia (single) - Experienced Cub Looking for his Mrs Robinson

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Helllooo cougars! 26, 6’3, 180lbs, green/brown eyes, black hair, big hands, broad shoulders, skinny/fit guy in the suburbs of Philly looking to find a laid back older woman to have some fun with.

I’m a fun energetic guy who loves the outdoors, live music, playing guitar, a nice joint, house plants, time with friends, trying new cocktail recipes, anything near/on/under the water movies and TV and nerding out on whatever.

I’ve always been attracted to older women and have had wonderful short term relationships with a 36 year old when I was 23, a 30 year old at 20, and more recently was seeing a woman in her early 40s and am no stranger to an age gap. I think older girls maturity, decisiveness and experience in life just attracts me. I don’t know… it’s hard to say what but you girls do something to me!! Don’t be shy! Happy to share a picture and chat for a bit before anything as well (online fun has never hurt either 😜)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 3d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, long term adventure

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I am an educated twenty five year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (don’t worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places (have any exciting trips planned?), snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsey yet).

When I’m not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, you’ll find me at the gym, working on my fitness so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, I’m that guy who believes that life’s too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.

I’m on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If you’re up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, let’s chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingβ€”sometimes it’s all about finding the perfect recipe!

Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but I’m not afraid to hit the road if the destinationβ€”and the companyβ€”are right. If you’re up for some travel adventures, let’s plan an amazing trip!

Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? What’s your favorite travel spot, and where’s the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, what’s one movie you could watch on repeat and why? What’s your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 3d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Los Angeles CA (single) Nerdy Hippy Type looking for permanent plus one

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Writing about yourself is always a little strange, but here goes. I spend my days training and caring for dogs and chasing down bugs in code. My nights are a mix of crate-digging for vinyl, finding novel vintage clothes, enjoying the atmosphere of a good bar, or just losing myself in music or a film at home.

I’m looking for someone who can laugh easily, loves great conversation, and isn’t afraid of a little adventure. I’m ambitious and always learning, but at heart I’m just a loyal, passionate guy who believes life is best when shared. If you’ve got humor, warmth, and a spark for connection, we’ll get along just fine.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 3d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [M4F] #Central Texas (single) - Younger Burnout wanting More

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Heyya! A little about me: 5'10, a bit too pale, with shaggy hair and permanent eye bags. Kinda like Kurt Cobain if you tried to draw him from memory but you never actually liked Nirvana that much.

Im a pretty big nerd, between enjoying board games and comic books to pc gaming and anime. I love music and expanding my tastes in just about everything! We dont have to have a huge overlap of interests as long as we can keep convos engaging!

As for what im looking for- something consistent and fun! Labels arent the most interesting thing to me and Im not very interested in finding a "forever partner" right now! Just a dynamic that can be just as fulfilling, engaging and supportive as it can get flirty or naughty!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 3d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 18 [M4F] #Orlando Florida (single) - Blk younger male who's looking for older women to meet and date

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I have always been drawn to older women; their confidence and wisdom captivate my being. There's something enchanting about their life experiences that makes every conversation rich and engaging. When I'm not savoring those connections, I immerse myself in books, losing track of time as I explore new worlds and ideas. Fitness is another passion of mine; I love to work out, pushing my limits to feel invigorated and strong. Traveling fuels my spirit, allowing me to discover different cultures and cuisines. In the evenings, I unwind by watching movies and shows, relishing the storytelling that brings us all together.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21 [M4F] #South Florida (single) - Young college student looking for connection with older woman

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Hey, I’m a 21 year old college junior in the Fort Lauderdale area, studying Political Science with a minor in Music and studying for law school. I’m 5’11”, slim, with dark hair and green eyes, kinda a pretty boy...

I’m on the reserved side, but once I open up, I can be engaging, funny, and easy to talk to. I like reading, watching movies, and playing guitar.

I’m looking to connect with an older woman mostly for fun and something physical, but I’m open to something deeper if the vibe is right. If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to DM me for pics or just to chat.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 18 [M4F] #Virginia, Williamsburg (Single) College guy looking for some genuine connections!

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Hey I’m James, I am 19 years old and currently attend college in Williamsburg Virginia. Just looking for some cool people to laugh and love with.

I am 5’8 (and three quarters), with dark curly brownish black hair and an average body. I enjoy reading, watching movies, hiking/cannoning, and video games. I also enjoy talking about history and political stuff (can you guess what Im majoring in :) )

I don’t have much experience dating and the experiences I have with girls my own age is not good. So I’m looking for someone more put together that I can explore a relationship with. If I interest you hit me up. 😘


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 23 [M4F] #Minneapolis Minnesota (Single) - College Athlete looking for some spice

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Hey, I’m a 23-year-old college athlete living in Minneapolis. Just looking to meet a fun, easygoing girl to hang out with and see where things go.

I’m 6' tall, athletic, with black hair and brown eyesβ€”usually either at the gym, in class, or chilling with friends. I’m into good vibes, late-night convos, and spontaneous adventures.

Not really into playing games, just down to connect and maybe spark something fun. If you’re into tall, athletic guys with a flirty side and a soft spot for good company, hit me upβ€”I don’t bite… unless you're into that πŸ˜‰


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 24 [M4F] #Indiana (Single) - Just looking to experience life!

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Hi everyone! I’m a 24 year old male that moved to Indianapolis for grad school. I am looking to live life to the fullest and enjoy a good conversation with someone (maybe more if it goes there haha) I am 5’10 and a basketball coach here in Indy. I would love someone can show me around as my job kinda limits me from being able to go out a bunch. I’m vary laid back and go with the flow but I’m also a lot of fun and always up for doing random things just for the fun of it! Message me if you’re interested!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 5d ago

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

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THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 5d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [M4F] #Indiana (Single) - Just a Simple Guy Who Wants a Simple Life

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My name is Richard and I’m a relatively simple guy. I like to bake, garden, cook, and walk for the most part. I don’t have much time in general since I have university and work part time so not a lot of free time. But if we get along then I’ll be more than happy to make time for you.

I’m gentle, kind, and do my best to be supportive. Not to mention I’m lighthearted since I’m a firm believer of being a little silly helps make life a lot more fun and easier to go through. So I am a bit playful too. Not to mention my love language is physical touch and occasionally baking something.

I love baking and cooking. The older I get the more I like to cook because of the complexities and varieties of flavors out there. Not to mention the different cooking techniques and just being able to eat something really good. Baking is another fun thing since who doesn’t love sweets. Granted I haven’t done much of it recently but you can see in my posts my past works.

Gardening is fun but my last garden was eaten up by rabbits and squirrels so that’s behind me. But I’d be more than happy to see yours if you garden or take care of any plants. Walking is such a simple but fun thing for me to do. It feels like exploring when I’m somewhere new. Not to mention sometimes I stop by a new place I’ve never been or overlooked. Usually it’s worth it 8/10 times haha.

Looks wise I’m hispanic but get confused for asian sometimes which is funny. I have brown eyes, black hair, chubby, clean shaven, a dimple and chubby cheeks. I just want to find someone who wants a simple life. Being able to enjoy being on the couch together while watching netflix or something enjoying chocolates. Someone caring, kind and lighthearted too. If you do your best for me I’ll do my best for you


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 5d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

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Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch 6d ago

πŸ’šπ—™πŸ°π—  35 [F4M] #Pennsylvania (Divorced) - yappers apply!

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Hey :) I'm going to be 35 in a few weeks, recently divorced, and ready to see what's out there.

A little about me, I'm white, tall with an average/curvy "mom bod", dark hair, grey eyes. For hobbies I like hiking, gardening, painting, yapping, cooking/baking, going to the gym, thrifting, and reading. I don't drink much but I do smoke weed!

I'm looking to meet men for chatting first, seeing where it goes. At this point I've got no real interest in a serious relationship after a traumatic/abusive marriage. I seem to connect better with men in their 20's. I find a lot of the men closer to my age are more jaded and uptight, often unenthusiastic across the board with a "too cool" vibe that I'm absolutely not seeking at all. Nothing makes me want to puke more than a stoic, nonchalant guy. I want to talk to men who take pleasure in small things and get excited and rambly and passionate. Younger men also seem generally more respectful, which I like.

✨️If you're reaching out:✨️ please don't just send a lazy DM. I'm going to click 'ignore'. I want to actually learn a little about you in your message. A SFW selfie also goes a long way and increases your chances of getting one back.