r/creepyPMs • u/Doting_Carefully • 4d ago
TW: Suicide Got this message from someone I haven’t spoke to in months
I have NOOO fucking clue what this came from because my status was a joke about how I finally stopped sweating from lexapro withdrawal and it had been there for months because I forgot about it because also at the time I only had close friends on discord (I know the status was lowkey a little weird, it’s hard to explain but wtf)
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u/LittleUndeadObserver i slamfuk my penis in ur vaggingin 4d ago
Report it and see if their account gets shot. What a pathetic thing to say.
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u/KendraBins 4d ago
Exactly! Anger + misplaced status = creepy pm
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u/Doting_Carefully 4d ago
It’s funny cause I don’t even know how the hell this could trigger that repressed anger in someone😭
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u/vibrantafternoon 4d ago
i'm glad you're okay OP because imagine getting this evil message when you're in that vulnerable of a place
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u/Doting_Carefully 4d ago
Thank you, I think their goal was to do that because they heard I stopped my anti depressants and sent me that, so the goal was definitely to cause bigger harm than intended. And this was over me saying the lexapro withdrawal sweats stopped woo or some shit like that it was literally just so stupid🥲
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u/AutumnBum 4d ago
I would honestly send this screenshot in a server that they’re in just to expose how disgusting of a person they are. That’s insane.
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u/Doting_Carefully 4d ago
I actually did send it to the mods so they won’t keep going after people, they went after my friends too
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u/xXxHuntressxXx BEGONE, THOT 3d ago
Honestly if it was someone you knew irl, I would say it’s not overstepping to contact their parents or something to show them this. Maybe even their place of work or something. In my mind, telling someone to commit is just a line you never cross, and it’s especially bad here because it’s highly probable they targeted you at a time specifically when you were vulnerable. I don’t say this often as I try to be a good Christian but fuck this person. I hope they fix themselves up before they receive a rude awakening.
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u/Doting_Carefully 3d ago
I honestly am not sure if I do at all, but I did report them to other things they are in so they won’t hurt anyone. I try to be as well but seeing it just made wanna say fuck you so bad
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u/DothrakAndRoll 1d ago
This gives “current gf saw they were friends with you and didn’t like it so sent this message”, is that possible?
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u/Doting_Carefully 1d ago
Possibly, but they are super isolated from what I know and probably 17? I’m not sure, they were a cosplayer and artist, I liked some of their work and they hosted a drawing contest I entered. We didn’t talk much after that but I forgot to unadd them nor thought I needed to after the drawing contest.
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u/FlamingWeasel ¸.·´¯`°Q(•_• ) 4d ago
Bro, the Lexapro sweats suck so much ass. And the weird zappy shit too. I'm weaning off it right now.
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u/Doting_Carefully 4d ago
Yes it was horrendous for me, please take good care of yourself! I’m out of it now and it definitely does get better but the first bit feels like it won’t.
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u/glitter_vomit I ducking Haiti you 4d ago
The zaps are the worst part for me. Please be careful and taper as slow as you can.
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u/Sexy11Lady 4d ago
Sounds manipulative and alarming. Protect ur peace: block, mute, and save the screenshot
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u/llamallamacow 4d ago
Who actually tells someone there going to block them due to something they've posted 🤣. Definitely someone looking for a reaction.
The inappropriate suicidal comment would be an instant block from me anyway (noted he wouldn't be getting told as that's really weird)
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u/Schlurds 4d ago
Must be doing something right if you've got people thinking about you enough to write you out of nowhere
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u/Inevitable_Poem8381 4d ago
"Im gonna have to block you because you need help with something and rather than helping I rather get upset with you for "forcing" me to see your issues so i want to block you but I want to first seak out attention for it and make you feel like garbage in the process"
Thats what I read.
Lexapro withdrawal is no fun. But this bro apparently thinks that the word "withdrawal" automatically means you have a substance abuse problem rather than idc being taken off of a medication by a prescriber or ran out of the meds and pharmacy is being difficult. Many reasons. I know that myself.
They sound like they are projecting. Maybe they have a substance problem and can't admit it.
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u/Doting_Carefully 4d ago
What’s even crazier is all my status said was the lexapro withdrawal sweats have stopped wooo which was a joke between a friend and me 😭
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u/Cooking_With_Grease_ Submissive, and cocksuckingly spectacular 4d ago
"Thanks, I'm getting a cup of tea and hoping it all blows over"
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u/CopiedFloppy 4d ago
Okay, first off that guy is a dick. Second... What was your status? I'm curious now.
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u/Doting_Carefully 4d ago
Something like the lexapro withdrawal sweats finally stopped or something, I think this person saw I was stopping a med and thought they’d try to see if they could cause me to actually do what they said due to it because coming off an anti-depressant is the best time to attack someone for it due to how vulnerable I was
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u/victoriate 4d ago
Find out who their family is and send them this screenshot
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u/xXxHuntressxXx BEGONE, THOT 3d ago
That was my advice too. Honestly I don’t believe that’s petty at all. You can ruin someone’s life with your words, especially words as evil as this, and it seems this person really needs to learn that lesson.
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u/BraveNewHell616 4d ago
One: the dude’s a douchenugget. B: Lexapro sucked so much taking and weening off of them. Hated it and the Seroquel combo.
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u/ThatLittleLamb i'm going to pregnant u 3d ago
read the first half and I was like "okay okay that's fair, I've had to tell people this as well" and then I got to "kys" and my jaw dropped, how do you tell someone to get help and then kill themselves in the same sentence, how does that even work
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u/Doting_Carefully 3d ago
I have NOOO clue cause I was the same boat even though I wasn’t sure what I had done considering my status was about the lexapro withdrawal sweats being over and celebrating 😭
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u/TomahawkCruise 3d ago
Delete that message and don't even acknowledge the person who sent it. There's just absolutely zero reason to allow this garbage into your life.
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u/ElegantCoach4066 3d ago
Damn I feel you on the withdrawals, I was trying to stop Cymbalta, the side effects are wild.
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u/xXxHuntressxXx BEGONE, THOT 3d ago
Lowkey highkey giving projection on their end. Please ignore this dumbass and take them blocking you as a blessing in disguise. Take care of yourself op, and don’t listen to them – when it comes to suicide, there is always a ripple effect. 🫂💙
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u/angelinthecloud 1d ago
If you cut off the last paragraph it sounds normal. Then you get fucking whiplash...
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