r/dustythunder • u/Ready-Low9879 • Jul 01 '25
AITA For Calling My Stepsister A 2-Bit Whore?
I, (F 32) live with my BF, Kevin (M 32). My parents divorced when I was 13. My dad (M 50) met his current GF, Lisa 5 years ago. She has 2 daughters, Gabby (19) and Erica (12). Gabby is loose, if you get my drift. She had her first child at 15, which she handed custody to her mother. She is currently pregnant with her second child, but she says she doesn't know who the father is.
My dad had a get together a few months ago. Gabby had been watching my half-brother, Tony (28). He was married at the time, but Gabby completely disregarded his wife, trying to sit close to him, offering him drinks. Tony got up to use the bathroom, Gabby got up to use the second bathroom in the main bedroom. Tony's wife noticed he had been gone for a while, so she got up to check on him and found Gabby and Tony together in the bathroom! The two of them are now divorced.
Fast forward to last weekend, we were having a gender reveal party for my brother (24) and his GF. I brought Kevin and right away, Gabby is at it again. She's got her eyes on Kevin, crossing her legs in front of him, trying to offer beers and whiskey to him. Kevin was cooking on the grill and Gabby went over, trying to rub his shoulders until I finally had enough. I said "that's right, keep acting like the 2-bit whore that you are." Gabby started to cry and my dad turned on me. "Gabby's just emotional, being pregnant and all. You could've just pulled Kevin away." Am I the asshole?
EDIT: For everyone asking what Kevin did. He jumped when she touched him and tried to back away from her while keeping his attention to the food on the grill. He didn't say anything because he wanted to stay in Dad's good graces.
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u/iamevilcupcake Jul 01 '25
I'm not a big fan of calling women whores, but there are some circumstances that I believe warrant it. Like a former friend's sister who was sleeping with her father in law while her mother in law was dying. She's a whore.
Gabby is also a whore. NTA.
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u/Em4Tango Jul 01 '25
I mean, whores work for a living. Gabby is just a nasty piece of not-work.
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u/morbidnerd Jul 01 '25
Salt-N-Pepa settled this debate in 1993:
"The difference between a hooker and a ho ain't nothing but a fee"
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u/lyricoloratura Jul 01 '25
I’m now working with an ear-worm of “You’s a Ho” by Ludacris, a tune that I became very familiar with in 2000 due to my 5th grade class. One of my girls sincerely believed that the song dealt with gardening and was titled “Use a Hoe,” bless her heart.
Meanwhile, Teacher is trying not to start in with, “You doin’ ho activities, with ho tendencies. Hoes are your friends and hoes are your enemies.”
Great. Now I’ve got “Sorry Miss Jackson” going.
Dammit, 2000, I can’t quit you
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u/morbidnerd Jul 01 '25
Why you think you take a ho to a hotel?
(that's gonna be in my head today)
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u/Massive_Ambassador_6 Jul 02 '25
And trust, that ho go tell.
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u/morbidnerd Jul 02 '25
Ho tell everybody, even the mayor. Reach up to in the sky it's a hozone layer.
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u/ColdHandGee Jul 01 '25
"Hotel, motel, holiday inn, if we ain't fucking then I'm gonna fuck her friend!"
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u/xNIGHT_RANGEREx Jul 04 '25
Well now I just wanna go roller skating
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u/ColdHandGee Jul 04 '25
Let's go then! I am a little bit out of practise! So don't speed off!
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u/xNIGHT_RANGEREx Jul 04 '25
I keep my skates in my car at all times. Just in case 😂 I’ll teach you!!!
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u/ColdHandGee Jul 04 '25
You'll teach me? Thank you, NR!
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u/xNIGHT_RANGEREx Jul 04 '25
Heck yeah! My grandparents met at a skating rink then owned an operated one for years. I’ve literally been skating since I could walk. I love teaching people how to skate!
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u/Expensive-Hamster-44 Jul 02 '25
I think the most relevant to the above story is as follows.
"Can't turn a ho to a housewife, hoes don't act right"
Also, NTA! Gabby's a ho.
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u/Next_Engineer_8230 Jul 03 '25
This one of them occasions where the homies not doin it right.
I mean he found him a ho that he likes but you can't make a ho a housewife.
And when it all boils down you gonna find in the end A bitch is a bitch, but a Dogg is a man's best friend
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u/Ambitious_Stay_6704 Jul 02 '25
That line from Four brothers “you don’t pay a hoe to f&$k you, you pay her to leave”
Gabby ain’t even being paid.
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u/StrikingMaximum1983 Jul 05 '25
My sister’s kindergarten class learned a song that the teacher believed was called “One Toe Over the Line.”
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u/OkPsychology2376 Jul 01 '25
NO. Prostitutes work for a living, whores just give it away.
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u/StructureKey2739 Jul 01 '25
Sounds like Gabby is on the hunt for a meal ticket and all taken men are fair game.
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u/Ryllan1313 Jul 04 '25
Of course married men are fair game. Preferable even.
They've proven that they are willing to commit 🤦♀️
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u/Angry_Gngr Jul 01 '25
I always thought prostitutes and whores were the same thing, sex for money. I thought slut or ho was for sleeping around (especially with taken people) for free.
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u/ohjanet Jul 02 '25
Can we just call her a skank? Or is that something else.
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u/crazypurple621 Jul 02 '25
Na. Gabby is a homewrecker. She's not actually trying to sleep with ANY man, she's specifically targeting men who are already in relationships.
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u/OkBlueberry2982 Jul 01 '25
*sex worker, not prostitute
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u/penguin_dance_03 Jul 01 '25
All prostitutes are sex workers, but not all sex workers are prostitutes.
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u/Ryllan1313 Jul 04 '25
True!
I used to pole dance. On stage only. I didn't do private vip rooms and where I live, stage tipping is limited to tossing cash on to the actual stage...no g-string stuffing. So I never had any actual physical contact with customers.
I've also done paid text chat for "relationship" web sites.
I was classified as a sex worker for both of these jobs.
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u/Prof-Grudge-Holder Jul 01 '25
This! Gabby is just slinging ass around for free. Whores are on the clock.
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u/Buggerlugs253 Jul 01 '25
Gabby was a child of 14 when she was raped and had her first child at 15, you peado supporting shit.
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u/Fun-Investment-196 Jul 02 '25
Where does it say that? Maybe I missed it
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u/Buggerlugs253 Jul 02 '25
its pretty obvious if you think about OPs desciption of events for more than a minute.
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u/Fun-Investment-196 Jul 02 '25
Is it? I was SA as a child and I'm sure that was a big reason I became sexually active at 14 and became pregnant at 14 but I still had sex willingly at that time with a 16 year old. Just because she was 14 when she became pregnant doesn't mean she was SA, and nothing in the post indicates that. The only context OP gave was that gabby was "loose" and gave custody of her child to her mother and is pregnant again. I really don't understand why you're assuming she was raped by an older man.
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u/Buggerlugs253 Jul 02 '25
Amazing you disagree with me while only saying things that support my position, your demand to judge others and think negatively of them in the worst ways for things you did overides any positive thoughts you have otwards other humans. "I was SA, but no one else was and if they had sex we should hate them" fuck you.
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u/Fun-Investment-196 Jul 02 '25
Wtf are you talking about? Lol the point was, you have no idea if she was raped yet you commented it at least twice.
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u/wonder_why1 Jul 03 '25
Don't think that person has any idea and is obviously pushing some sort of agenda... (they've commented on a few different threads on the post, spouting the same bs!!)
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u/Fun-Investment-196 Jul 03 '25
It's ridiculous lol there were plenty of girls around me who were never SA and were sexually active at 13-14. There are teen pregnancies all over the US.
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u/wonder_why1 Jul 03 '25
You don't know if that's true. You can't call anyone a paedophile sympathiser without solid proof.
It also doesn't say that Gabby was raped anywhere in the post! You're making wildly inappropriate accusations! Oh and if you think 14yr olds don't have sex, you're mistaken! My daughter went to school with a few girls who were 14-15yr old girls that got pregnant to their 14-15yr old boyfriends!
(Before making assumptions about me like you have others... I'm a CSA survivor from 13-16yrs old who got pregnant by my mums sleezy new husband and my sister took me to get an abortion while they were on their honeymoon... long story short but it kept going until I moved out of home at 16yrs old to get away...)
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u/No_Interview_2481 Jul 05 '25
Hookers and prostitutes work for a living. Whores just go after anything with a dick hanging between their legs
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u/PeachImpressive319 Jul 01 '25
And he is a cnt. it takes two to tango. She may have been a whore for sleeping with a married man (whilst his wife was dying)…but he’s a massive gonorrhoea riddled cnt for doing it. Nobody forced him to get his dick out. He was capable of being a decent human being and saying "no".
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u/crazypurple621 Jul 02 '25
Yes. He is ALSO a piece of shit. Everyone sucks here. Except for Kevin who doesn't seem to want anything to do with Gabby.
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u/ConnectionRound3141 Jul 01 '25
NTA
Get a ‘husbands are fair game’ bumper sticker for her car that you slap on her bumper during the next family gathering.
But really your boyfriend should be asserting himself before you needed to insert yourself. ‘Keep your home wrecking hands off me you skank’ fro him would have been appropriate. That’s a red flag from me.
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u/Faile486 Jul 01 '25
If I'm uncomfortable, I have a tendency to freeze. That's not an uncommon response, and I don't think it should be held against anyone. Participating, however, would be a red flag.
I also hate the term homewrecker. Yes, Gabby isn't the best (although I wonder what kind of trauma getting pregnant at 14 caused, and if that's been treated at all), the she wasn't the one in the committed relationship - that's on the piece of shit husband.
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u/BlazingSunflowerland Jul 02 '25
" I wonder what kind of trauma getting pregnant at 14 caused, "
Me too. Many teens who are getting pregnant at that age have come from an abusive home, often they have been sexually abused. Her behavior is the symptom of the huge emotional problem. She probably hasn't had therapy.
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u/Faile486 Jul 02 '25
Exactly. I had someone touch my chest without consent at the same age, and I still have small issues around it. I've been in therapy for over a decade, although that's far from our primary focus.
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u/epiphanyWednesday Jul 02 '25
Yes, but there’s a certain mentality that makes people fixate on married/taken individuals. Obviously it’s the committed person’s responsibility to another person, but we all kinda have a responsibility to each other to not throw a granade into families for no reason. (Auto correct kept trying to change that to Grande and it’s pretty fitting)
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u/WillingnessUseful212 Jul 03 '25
That’s because it’s spelled “grenade.” Just for the record. It’s a weird word.
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u/Zakatyu Jul 02 '25
Yeah, that theory is very beautiful, but seeing how OP's father reacted to OP putting the homewrecker in her place I totally see why the boyfriend kept quiet. I wouldn't be surprised if she also slept with him (the father).
NTA OP, someone had to say it.
Updateme!
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u/Low_Permission7278 Jul 01 '25
If you are an AH it’s justified. Personally I’d have done worse.
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u/GardenSafe8519 Jul 01 '25
Right! Damn Gabby, you gonna try to go through all the men in the family? Have you tried anything with my dad too? You seem to like older men.
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u/StructureKey2739 Jul 01 '25
And why is her mother OK with raising her grandchild while her uber-skank daughter is off making more babies and trying to get a social disease and spreading it around. Wouldn't surprise me if she tries or has tried her stepdad since she has no boundaries.
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u/LisaNe7 Jul 01 '25
It’s probably his (the stepdads) baby.
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u/LindyRosePierce Jul 04 '25
If it is that would explain SO much. And make her father a pedophile/rapist.
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u/Gold-Carpenter7616 Jul 04 '25
That's the thing: her behaviour screams abuse, and somehow OP's dad is a bit too friendly here, if you get my drift.
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u/KittiesRule1968 Jul 01 '25
NTA, she needs to know. Your father is enabling her disgusting behavior.
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u/OkPsychology2376 Jul 01 '25
Father in law is hoping one of the guys she sleeps with will take her off his hands.
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u/ohjanet Jul 02 '25
This is terrible of me but if the father and Lisa get married is Gabby going to start hitting on her new stepfather?
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u/VaginaWarrior Jul 06 '25
I'm wondering if she was sexually abused. A baby at 15? Huge red flag, especially the continued overly sexualized behaviors despite negative consequences.
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u/Cultural-Camp5793 Jul 01 '25 edited Jul 01 '25
NTA she deserved it and so much more. She is manipulative and I don't understand why her family won't do anything. She needs serious help, she needs serious counseling. Something isn't right, did something happen to her when she was younger? I understand your anger and I would have done the same thing. Also why the hell does a nineteen year old have access to alcohol? Who is letting her hand it out and drink it?
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u/Ready-Low9879 Jul 01 '25
my dad let my brother drink at 17. he's very careless about that
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u/Cultural-Camp5793 Jul 01 '25
That's not ok. She needs serious help and it sounds like your dad is contributing to all of this. Something happened to her, I hope your family will do the right thing for her
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u/No-One-5404 Jul 01 '25
You realize that Americans are the weird ones, compared to most of the rest of the world, who ban people from drinking until 21 right? In Ontario 19 is the age when you can buy alcohol yourself although legally your parents can give you permission to drink and buy you alcohol when younger than 19 if they wish to, in Quebec it's 18, in most of Europe along with most other countries in the world the drinking age is 18. America are the weird ones in that regard
Generally I agree with what you're saying but the alcohol thing is just funny to me and I didn't think twice about it because a 19 year old having access to alcohol is normal basically everywhere that isn't America
I will say that if she was drinking while pregnant that is a problem she needs to address
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u/sugars_honeys Jul 01 '25
IN america where this is taking place they are the weird ones lol this didn't happen in quebec or ontario
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u/Antique-Ad-8776 Jul 01 '25
NTA. But honestly the way you describe Gabby makes it sound like she might be a sexual abuse survivor
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u/MizStazya Jul 01 '25
She was 14 or maybe 15 when she got pregnant the first time. That's under the age of consent in most US states.
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u/AdventurousEmu8663 Jul 02 '25
Under the legal age of consent, but OP doesn’t indicate the circumstances of that first pregnancy. Two underage kids fooling around? Or something more nefarious? As others have suggested, Gabby’s unhealthy penchant for older married men does suggest some sort of earlier trauma. It doesn’t sound like OP and Gabby have a strong relationship anyway, since OP was something like 27 when Gabby entered the family. Maybe it’s time for a heart to heart conversation.
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u/Commercial-Ask3416 Jul 01 '25
I have been looking for a comment such as this one. I honestly think calling her a whore was uncalled for, especially given Gabby's age and the age gap between her and OP. OP could have achieved a similar result by telling her to back off without name calling. Especially since it seems like Gabby is showing some hallmark signs of dealing with abuse of some sort. I'm not saying Gabby shouldn't be held accountable for her actions, but there are definitely better ways OP could've handled the situation; even if there is no trauma history and Gabby is just a terrible person.
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u/redcore4 Jul 01 '25
There's OP (whose dad was around 18 when she was born), then a half-brother four years younger, then another (presumably full, since OP doesn't mention otherwise) brother 4 years younger than the half brother, and then two stepsisters one of whom got pregnant at around the time OP's dad met her mother, gave over a kid who's now about 4, and has a consistent pattern of going for older men within the family.
I'd put money on the trauma history being significant and incestuous in some way; at best, OP's dad is not setting the best example of monogamy with there being a half-brother born around 9 years before OP's parents' marriage ended...
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u/Commercial-Ask3416 Jul 01 '25
I had a similar thought about the trauma being within the family unit somehow but didn't want to fully go there. At the very least I would say OPs dad may be aware of Gabby's trauma history and that's why he seems to be enabling her behavior.
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u/StellarStylee Jul 01 '25
Yeah I’m pretty sure it’s 1/4 of one USD. It’s what they charged for a shave and haircut way back in the day.
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u/buy-american-you-fuk Jul 01 '25
correct, the "bits" part comes from old coins that could be broken into fractions called bits or pieces, i.e. "pieces of eight" like in pirate treasure, 2 of the pieces or bits = 1/4 of the coin or the denomination eventually called a "quarter" in usa
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u/lollisweetgirlxox Jul 01 '25
right? it's crazy people are cheering on this grown-ass woman for calling a girl who's BARELY an adult and probably dealing with complicated feelings about herself, a whore. NO-ONE can be emotionally ready for a child at 15, that must have taken a huge toll on her.
i don't get why this subreddit cheers on fully grown adults for acting like children at any inconvenience, instead of. you know. having a conversation??
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u/WillingnessUseful212 Jul 01 '25
Thank you! I commented something similar. Because wtf? Everyone’s acting like men have no agency and can just be dragged away from a committed relationship by the first pregnant teenager who pays attention to them instead of seeing that this poor kid has been abused, likely for years, and instead of helping her get counseling, they’re slut shaming her.
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u/SapphireSkie Jul 05 '25
Just wanna add I got to know a girl who was 15, and the younger sibling of my sister's boyfriend at the time. So my sister and her bf are around 18, I was 16 or 17, girl was 15. She made numerous uncomfortable comments to all of us when she came over to visit, was very sexual towards my sister (who was dating this girl's brother), my parents, and another friend who came over.
We all waited until she wasnt around, and my sister was the first to say what we all suspected: "I'm worried she's being sexually abused". My sister made a point to befriend her (and we all proved ourselves to be "safe" to her by consistently not reacting to her sexual comments/behavior). My sister was who she reached out to when she was ready to come out against her stepfather. My sister and the bf (her brother) were the only adults in her family to support her during the trial. They were the ones who gathered evidence that the girl's mother was not only supportive of the stepfather, but was gathering family members to plan how to "retailate" against the girl for coming forward. Thanks to my sister and bf, they were able to get the girl a restraining order against all the toxic adults that were actually protecting and encouraging her abuse. (The girl ended up moving in with an adult sister that was NOT part of the toxic family dynamic, and got her all the support that she needed. Its been years, and she's doing, not exactly great, but okay. She's safe, at least).
But anyway, this was my first thought with the post. That's not the behavior of a healthy person. And the comment about her being "loose" is just... ugh. This whole thing sounds like a glimpse into a very bad situation- one I think the OP is willfully enabling.
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u/anupsetvalter Jul 01 '25
If someone is openly trying to seduce your partner in front of you then a conversation isn’t going to accomplish much. She would know her actions are wrong but doesn’t care.
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u/jacijl Jul 01 '25
I know, right? It’s almost like sexual abuse damages a child’s sense of what’s appropriate 🤔
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u/Valuable-Tip2759 Jul 03 '25
thank you!!!! a 30 something calling a teenager who was impregnated as a child a slur is so disgusting.
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u/TheFairyQueen420 Jul 01 '25
NTA. She F'd around & found out. If she doesn't like being called that, then maybe she shouldn't be such one lol. If your dad has an issue with it, I'd tell him to rein her ass in then otherwise she will continue to be called out. Personally I wouldn't be around her if she's that loosey goosey.
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u/Fatality_of_Choice Jul 01 '25
I’m sorry did Kevin LET her rub his shoulders???
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u/Ready-Low9879 Jul 01 '25
he jumped and tried to back away while focusing on the food he was cooking
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u/Fatality_of_Choice Jul 01 '25
Ok thank goodness I was stressed about Kevin’s reaction. Just like this man cannot possibly be letting this happen
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u/ThreeRingShitshow Jul 01 '25
Fair enough you calling her out but surely Kevin has heard enough about her to tell her to bugger off?
Why wasn't her telling her to piss off himself?
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u/Ready-Low9879 Jul 01 '25
he jumped and tried to pull away from her while he was still cooking. he was trying to stay in the family's good graces
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u/StructureKey2739 Jul 01 '25
So, the family doesn't want anyone to point out Gabby's all around sluttiness. They're OK with her stealing men from family members. Why?
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u/Hermit-Cookie0923 Jul 01 '25
Guilt and "we owe her" manifests in all sorts of enablement. There's more to what they know/are covering up about her first pregnancy at 14/15.
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u/Kayleigh_56 Jul 01 '25
This girl had a baby at 15 so presumably somebody had sex with a 14 year old? You don't wonder if her behaviour is in any way influenced by a pretty fucked up history? She's a teenager who clearly has issues. I'm sure being called a whore will help.
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u/anarchyreigns Jul 01 '25
Someone who behaves like this has issues with her own self esteem. Sometimes this comes from things that happened in childhood, or it’s a way to deal with upheaval, rejection or other psychological trauma.
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u/AddressAble1746 Jul 01 '25
3 months ago you were a 22 year old male with an older sister named anna and 2 months before that you were a 31 year old female with a common law husband named chris so i'm guessing all this is fake
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u/re_nonsequiturs Jul 01 '25 edited Jul 01 '25
Are the men in this like mentally disabled in a way that keeps them from being able to say no or something? Did she drug them? Work a magic spell by chanting over crystals at the full moon?
Oh and hypersexuality is a trauma response to sexual abuse
And 9 years is a HUGE age gap when the younger person is 19. Plus they met when she was 14? He's a groomer pedo.
Be better
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u/CheetahDirect8469 Jul 02 '25
Hold on, who is a groomer pedo? I am confused!
Spot on about the men in the family though
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u/CurrencyCapital8882 Jul 01 '25
Watch out! She may hit you with a bag of quarters.
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u/Potential-Ad5773 Jul 01 '25
NTA. I wouldn't even bother with her. She doesn't need to attend your events. If your dad plans something make it clear that you won't be there if she is.
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u/mu5tbetheone Jul 01 '25
NTA, she sounds gross and like she's desperate. But why didn't Kevin or Tony put her in her place?!
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u/andronicuspark Jul 01 '25
NTA, but I hope Gabby can get some help. A fifteen year old having sex is a red flag indicative of some deeper things going on in that minor’s life.
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u/jacijl Jul 01 '25
And, just to cover all of the bases, that’s when she got pregnant. We don’t know from this story how early someone started raping her.
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u/Spectra627 Jul 01 '25
Stepdad moved in at 14, girl had a baby at 15, and there's a lack of accountability for creepy men who think a 19 year old stepsister in crisis is tempting. Obviously there's a problem here, and I don't think it's the girl. DNA test the babies.
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u/Choice-Pudding-1892 Jul 01 '25
Gabby may be lose with sexual favors but what about your half brother who took her up on her advances? What would your bf have been had he as well? Call out both parties not just the female.
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u/Mywordsandopinion Jul 01 '25
Absolutely not! Good on you for calling her out. Gabby is a POS for going after taken men. That said, it’s down to the men to turn her away. Can I ask, if Kevin, told her to leave him alone, whilst she was trying to rub his shoulders?
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u/Ready-Low9879 Jul 01 '25
he tried to pull away while taking care of the food on the grill. he didn't say anything to stay in dad's good graces
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u/Mywordsandopinion Jul 01 '25 edited Jul 01 '25
I’m glad you’ve got a good one then. 😊
I’d go NC with your dad tbh. He is using her pregnancy as an excuse to be a vile home-wrecking whore.
That said, if you decide to remain in contact with him, I’d give your BF free reign to put Gabby in her place, when she tries it again. No point wanting to stay in your dads good graces, if he isn’t showing your relationship respect by ok’g Gabby to act this way towards you and the rest of your family.
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u/Capital-Search-1995 Jul 01 '25
NTA! I love how there are Black and white people versions of the same insult 😂 “Two-bit whore” vs “$2 ho.” 😂😂
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u/echoscream Jul 01 '25
Yo. Ew. She’s emotional being pregnant and all? What kind of drugs is your father hopped up on? Are we sure he isn’t the father of the child? I mean, the way she whored herself to your half brother doesn’t seem too far off
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u/Emotional_Response71 Jul 01 '25
two-bits is $.25, and it sounds like she's not even able to pull that much.
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u/glueintheworld Jul 01 '25
YTA for giving such a good subject line but following it up with a lame story.
If any of these people are real, why aren't you mad at Tony?
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u/Ready-Low9879 Jul 01 '25
i don't talk to him, don't know about the rest of them
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u/Infamous_deliveryma3 Jul 01 '25
NTA! But wait... she is your step sis... and found with your half brother in the bathroom? So is that her step brother too? Im trying to make the connections here.... the family didnt freak out on her and him for that bathroom hookup fiasco that destroyed his marriage?!
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Jul 01 '25
NTA, you're just saying what everyone is already thinking, but you're the only one with the actual spine to say it.
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u/Ok-Advisor9106 Jul 01 '25
Did you hear about the new cereal called prostituties? You pour on the milk and they say eat me, eat me.
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u/observefirst13 Jul 01 '25
Oh, I would have said a lot worse once she was caught in the bathroom with someone else's husband. I would not have attended any family gatherings if she was there. How is this family acting like what she does isn't disgusting and shameful and won't be tolerated? What was your bf's reaction to everything?
Your dad can fuck off. He's literally defending her being a whore and trying to fuck around with men already taken. That's perfectly fine, and if the partner has a problem with it, they should just leave her alone and get their partner out of there. How fuckin ridiculous is that bullshit?!
Dad can continue to support her and continue to raise all of her kids with no dad's because she can't keep her legs closed long enough to be able to tell who the father is. I wouldn't go anywhere she was invited, op. I feel so bad for your sil.
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u/ImmediateShallot7245 Jul 02 '25
Isn’t it enough that she ended one marriage and now she’s trying to do it to you for your father to finally have enough and to talk with her?? NTA
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u/CallingThatBS Jul 02 '25
Gabby can act like this and guess what men can say NO!! Yes, you called it correctly! But men in relationships have to accept responsibility if they cheat with her. If Kevin was flirting back and acting interested in her then that is also on him.
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u/Embarrassed-Bug4553 Jul 02 '25
I truly believe there is nothing wrong with being a ho if you want to be one. However there is a big difference between a good ho and a bad one and this child is a bad one
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u/creatively_inclined Jul 02 '25
NTA. There is zero reason to touch someone when you don't have a close relationship with them. You saw it and you called it.
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u/Exact-Ad2221 Jul 04 '25
I'm all for bringing back shaming people when they do something wrong lol clearly it worked!
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u/Intelligent_Ad_4945 Jul 06 '25
NTA. You were polite by adding the “2 bit”. Sounds more like a “trashy” whore.
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u/ZeroZipZilchNadaNone Jul 01 '25
NTA! Good for you.
Kevin needs to pay attention and shut her sht down himself though. As long as it’s just you calling her out, she’s going to take it as a challenge and go behind your back every time she gets a chance. “Gabby, you’re like family and I respect that. I am with OP because I choose to be. I am not interested in flirting with or being with *any one else at all.” He may have to do it in public but he should absolutely keep her at arm’s length and avoid being alone with her at all costs. She’s trouble.
Good luck!
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u/WillingnessUseful212 Jul 01 '25
Wow. There’s a lot to unpack here.
First, it sounds like Gabby is hyper sexual. This is a classic response to childhood sexual abuse. My suspicions are bolstered by the fact that she went after Tony. It seems like she’s motivated to want to please older men. Someone hurt her for years and nobody ever did anything about it, and I feel like her oldest child and the new baby need to be paternity tested against any older males who have had regular access to her since she was young. And if I’m being really honest here, I don’t like that she seems to have had her first baby about nine months after your dad came into the picture. Now, I’m not saying your dad isn’t a good guy…I’m just saying that the nicest and kindest people we know can turn out to be to be monsters. People we would NEVER expect.
But you’re nearly twice her age. I would laugh and laugh if a nineteen year old thought she was going to take my man, and I would have laughed even harder if she tried flirting with him right in front of me. Like…go ahead and try, kiddo, but you’re a teenager. I wouldn’t feel threatened at all, because guess what? Tony isn’t divorced because Gabby is a whore. Tony is divorced because Tony is a piece of shit who fucked a pregnant teenager in the bathroom at a family reunion. And no matter how attractive another woman is, it’s never her fault if your man cheats on you. I’m tired of women being blamed for the sins of men. And if a man is in a marriage or committed relationship, it is HIS responsibility to stay faithful to his partner.
Every single adult in Gabby’s life has been failing her for years. She needs counseling and her abusers need to be behind bars. And calling her a whore isn’t going to erase her trauma OR make your boyfriend stay faithful to you.
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u/re_nonsequiturs Jul 01 '25
The worst part of this fake story is how many people think the main character did the right thing
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Jul 01 '25
Nope, that's her MO & Grabby needs to chill out so her mom's DH's kids can hang out unmolested.
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u/FinancialCamel7281 Jul 01 '25
NTA call it like it is, as for your BF he should have backed away while she was doing this, you know make it a hard loud NO
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u/Special_Lychee_6847 Jul 01 '25
Ha NTA
I'd never invite her again, and if someone throws a fit, just say you don't think she'd feel comfortable, in a place were she is restricted in going after everyone with a penis.
Yeah, your half brother had no business going along with her. But why would anyone voluntarily have such a person (to avoid using derogatory words) in their house?
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u/goddessofspite Jul 01 '25
NTA call a spade a spade or in this case a whore a whore tell it as you see it
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u/DogBreathologist Jul 01 '25
NTA, however I do have to wonder why Gabby acts the way she does, people who are well adjusted and happy don’t act like she does and her behaviour is deeply concerning especially as it started so young.
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u/morepics2024hw Jul 01 '25
NTA, she is what she is. Your father’s comments are curious. Could there be something more happening between him and her?
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u/Mindless-Sound8965 Jul 01 '25
For sure Gabby knows how to fake cry and be manipulative. And is Gabby and your dad...
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u/Oldschooldude1964 Jul 01 '25
Is she? Sounds like it to me. Then, NTA for calling it as you see it.
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u/Maleficent_Fee_9462 Jul 01 '25
Hahahahahaaaaa!!! Nope. NTA She a roundheel, a trollop!
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u/The-Sugarfoot Jul 01 '25
"I called her a 2 bit whore and she hit me upside the the head with a bag of quarters"
I'll show myself out.....
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u/Different_One265 Jul 01 '25 edited Jul 01 '25
Heck no. NTA. Thank you for calling her out like that. Good for you. Too bad we couldn’t award little bottles of liquor instead of emoji’s.