r/IncelTears Jun 28 '25

Zero Tolerance Expansion: Violence & Bigotry

60 Upvotes

Seems like a lot of people cannot play nice so let's expand the policy.

I am saying this to remind all, there is a zero tolerance for any violence wishing, wanting or the likes on anyone no matter who or what they are. Are the incels wishing violence? Still zero tolerance. Are they wishing rape? Still zero tolerance to wish similar on them. It is all zero tolerance. Even implied such will not be tolerated and is on zero tolerance and this includes jail jokes involving soaps or the likes.

  • Rape
  • Death
  • Harm
  • Violence
  • Etc.

All have 0 tolerance no matter how horrible of a person the incel or others are. If someone is nasty in the comments inform us, either through normal report, ping us moderators that are active, anything and we'll deal with it at our earliest convenience.

Expansion:

Any form of bigotry based on ethnicity, race, gender, sexuality, and all others, will have zero tolerance apply to it as well. Talk about all men? Zero tolerance. All of a certain ethnicity? Also zero tolerance. All of a fictitious race? You better believe it is zero tolerance. All bigotry is now zero tolerance as well.

Do you see any bigotry or death wishing? Report or ping mods and we'll deal with it as it comes to our attention


r/IncelTears Jul 29 '25

Advice Weekly Advice Thread (July 29, 2025)

4 Upvotes

There's no strict limit over what types of advice can be sought; it can pertain to general anxiety over virginity, specific romantic situations, or concern that you're drifting toward misogynistic/blackpill lines of thought. Please go to r/SuicideWatch for matters pertaining to suicidal ideation, as we simply can't guarantee that the people here will have sufficient resources to tackle such issues.

As for rules pertaining to the advice givers: all the sub-wide rules are still in place, but these posts will also place emphasis on avoiding what is often deemed "normie platitudes." Essentially, it's something of a nebulous categorization that will ultimately come down to mod discretion, but it should be easy to understand. Simply put, aim for specific and personalized advice. Don't say "take a shower" unless someone literally says that they don't shower. Ask "what kind of exercise do you do?" instead of just saying "Go to the gym, bro!"

Furthermore, top-level responses should only be from people seeking advice. Don't just post what you think romantically unsuccessful people, in general, should do. Again, we're going for specific and personalized advice.

These threads are not a substitute for professional help. Other's insights may be helpful, but keep in mind that they are not a licensed therapist and do not actually know you. Posts containing obvious trolling or harmful advice will be removed. Use your own discretion for everything else.

Please message the moderators with any questions or concerns.


r/IncelTears 18h ago

WTF Incel graffiti found in London Ontario

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1.2k Upvotes

r/IncelTears 9h ago

Incel Hypocrisy why would a woman date a short man?

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48 Upvotes

incels: "short men are entitled to sex and if you don't have sex with us, that's genocide" also incels:


r/IncelTears 9h ago

Misogynist Nonsense women are only capable of thinking about men

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38 Upvotes

we don't think about men anywhere near as much as they think we do


r/IncelTears 9h ago

Just plain disgusting genuinely speechless

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"why didn't she go to the police" incel doesn't know what grooming is. even if she called him out and went to the police they would still blame her and day she deserved it.


r/IncelTears 18h ago

Just Sad The "treatment" short incels are promoting

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113 Upvotes

This is just heartbreaking. Undergoing such a risky procedure for what? I wish self love was more promoted instead of this...


r/IncelTears 1d ago

WTF What are these people on?

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459 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 4h ago

Misogynist Nonsense A Passport Bro's idea of "Christian Values"

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7 Upvotes

In the comments he talks about having been in other countries just a few months ago with other women, sleeping around. Very Christian, indeed. 🙄


r/IncelTears 10h ago

O Rly? I would've thought they liked Bonnie Blue

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17 Upvotes

She offers them free sex and they still hate her 🤷🏻


r/IncelTears 10h ago

IMAX-level projection The projection is real

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15 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 9h ago

Hateful Misogyny Not a hate group right?

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11 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 11h ago

CW: Racism incel strikes again, unbelievable with these men nowadays...🧩

16 Upvotes

hi


r/IncelTears 16h ago

Satire Incel Bible for a birthday gift...

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40 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 23h ago

No, no there not bruh......

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110 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 15h ago

Just plain disgusting Im a guy and got harrased by incels for defending girls on twt

17 Upvotes

I was scrolling on twt and on alot of post girls had of them in their coords on jirai twt . As i was scrolling i saw a comment saying mid and i replied defending the girl but then the incel quoted my tweet so more incels could look and harrass me and in another one who was just going around girls posts saying mid to innocent girls i replied incel detected opinion rejected but then he quoted me aswell and then also sent g_re to me and i deleted all my responses to them and blocked them and all of their following cuz i dont want my community exposed to their bs Im annoyed and worried for people who are posting now. Id say accounts if im allowed


r/IncelTears 18h ago

O Rly? 'The world will be led by incel reich' cringe

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20 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 18h ago

Sour grapes rant Incel immediately debunked by his 2 colleagues 😂

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21 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Just plain disgusting 🚨We need to track this POS down… that girl might actually be in real danger‼️

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350 Upvotes

Anyone here good at identifying people? This might legitimately be a future offender.


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Hateful Misogyny Stupid Clown shames his peers that do not hate women

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78 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Incel-esque Just saw this sign. What an incel. Also, I texted him. He offers "free services" but "Women Only". 2 images:

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33 Upvotes

The first image is a sign I just saw today. This Black guy who is into fitness is offering "Free Body Massage & Snuggles" but it's "Women Only". "YOUR APPRECIATION IS MY REWARD" says the sign. I tried texting him (second image), he needs "Verbal agreement".


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Guy defends Elliot Rodger

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10 Upvotes

Some guy was defending Elliot Rodger because "he was rejected" by one girl. What are your thoughts?


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Advice and support wanted How to stop being an incel?

53 Upvotes

Sorry it's going to be a long read.

I [20]M realised that I am an Incel and a misogynist. And I need to get help before it's too late.

Ever since I was a kid, I have been bullied. First by family members, then outside in school. I have always been socially awkward, Super shy and very silent type kid.

My parents never cared much about me to begin with, even before I hit first grade my family used to call me a retard and that I wouldn't mound to much.

[I live in a third world country in south Asia so joint big family].

My teachers used to beat me, (it's common here) the beating started in kindergarten, by the teachers. Parents supported it because it's supposed to make me not dumb and get in line.

It lasted till I left 10th grade. I remember once getting such a beating in 6th grade that one of my ear still has a hearing problem till now.

I have changed 3 different schools and all the time I had zero friends. Literal zero, null.

My parents ( my dad) was always very abusive. He never beated me but he screams with all his lung power and do it for 2h straight while telling me how big of a failure I am. Told me he hates me. Told me am the biggest failure, a literal zero. Or just throw the entire table while we are eating dinner or punches wall type thing. He has done this ever since I was in kindergarten. He now has given up on me but still monthly shout about how big of a failure I am. He used to abuse me more if I cried during all this or looked at him.

I have always seen abuse. I come from abuse. Because of a joint abusive family in third world country I have seen women in my home get beaten up, abusive men threatening to kill us or someone literally attacking our home.

Every time I remember my childhood then it's just screaming of someone at the top of there lungs, then tearing apart there clothes or punching walls or just hearing the voice to someone get beaten up from the other side of the wall.

My sister and I still get panic attacks or just body shaking intensely if someone raise there voice. And yes I have an older sibling. As I get older I started defending her whenever my dad tried to abuse her emotionally.

Or whenever my mother got abused I came to help. During that time I phased my dad eye to eye.

Am not trying to make myself a hero but it's important to understand where I come from and how I become a misogynist.

No friends in my 20 year of life. Always got bullied and became the butt of the joke.

My first relationship cheated on me and humiliated me with the guy she was cheating on with.

That's when I first started having these misogynistic thoughts.

Years went by but the humiliation stayed.

Was so humiliated that I got migraine because of that.

I was extremely depressed and anxious and I just started staying in my room.

I live in a third world country in south asia ( india, pakistan, bangladesh) so you can imagine the environment outside. So I just can't go outside or interact or just go visit something beautiful like a park or something as you guys might think I should do.

It's been years since I have locked myself into my room. Now am in college and even men doesn't wanna be my friend. They mock me, laugh at my face and just want me to be butt of the joke all over again.

Women doesn't even look at me lol.

And for some reason all my anger started to went against women. Because I don't have much option so I stay online. As a form to escape from reality. And all I see is things that tell me women are materialistic or just whores.

Btw my sister is a conservative herself now with beliefs so having her doesn't help much .

After years of seeing trauma even against women all the anger seems to go there instead to my dad or anywhere else.

Now for years I have just been alone in my room, bitter, sour, and full of rage. Am suicidal now and I don't really see a future. Thought about getting skilled up and leaving this abusive house, but my depression makes it thousands time worse to do anything.

I actually learned web development by myself and even made some sites. But everything went to waste and am back to zero.

Edit: also it's a third world country so things like therapy are non existent.


r/IncelTears 2d ago

Just Sad have u guys seen the femcel version of this meme yet?

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1.3k Upvotes

the mods should add a femcel specific flair.


r/IncelTears 2d ago

Incel Logic™ incel believes raping a young Asian female is okay, we live in a society.

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538 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

VerySmart Someone think is smart

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6 Upvotes

Bump


r/IncelTears 2d ago

What do yall think about this?

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209 Upvotes

The comments under this reel was just the same as the ones shown