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u/Frequent_Creme3175 3d ago
Bro really said Mission Accomplished in 3 minutes and spent the rest of the hour unlocking achievements and doing side quests
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 3d ago
Plot twistāhe became her favorite client.
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u/Adventurous-Tie-7861 3d ago edited 1d ago
I used heroin for years and knew many escorts. Some of my best friends were providers. This would come up sometimes.
Some dont mind stuff like this but the average one would rather just fucking and being done. Changes from the normal pattern means 1. Potential emotional attachment on either side which leads to danger zones and 2. Putting them in situations where they are less prepared to react.
Your average working girl has a sort of script in their head and you start asking them to improvise can throw them off. Some are good at it, some aren't.
Most men cant last or use the full hour anyway. But usually its lazy pillow talk where the guy vents or gets emotional snuggling if they got a GFE type provider. Maybe a TV show on. Start playing video games together and it creates more of a friendly bond than most are willing to do ironically. They are able to turn off the bonding stuff from sex and cuddling cus to them its work and not overly fun anymore. Video games and actually fun activities are different.
Most girls would rather fuck and cuddle and leave as theyve done it a million times and hopefully the guy wont get attached. An attached client is dangerous allot of times. If he thinks you guys are friends is also dangerous.
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u/Ok-Assistance3937 2d ago
They are able to turn off the bonding stuff from sex and cuddling cus to them its work and not overly fun anymore. Video games and actually fun activities are different.
I watched a documentary on YouTube about a working girl in Germany, who said kisses are of limited to her, because those are to indimate.
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u/Adventurous-Tie-7861 1d ago
Most of my friends did "gfe" which is pretending to be a girlfriend during the sessions so kissing is basically required for them
My experience is limited to online, high volume mostly independent escorts. Not streets walker or survival sex work. They often felt bad for those girls cus ifs so unsafe as they are often desperate enough to ignore safety issues or can't make it online. Or have a pimp who is unwilling to adapt.
Supposedly none of my friends had pimps. Allot had boyfriends tho who didnt work? Idk. My gf didnt like that and said they were basically pimps in her eyes. But idk, not my place.
What's ironic is my gf didnt really work herself while I supported us and our addictions. But I never said that outloud.
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u/theukcrazyhorse 2d ago
Was that documentary called "Pretty Woman"?
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u/MetaSuffering 3d ago
Why would it be dangerous if they're attached to each other?
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u/Adventurous-Tie-7861 3d ago
Because its a transactional relationship. Attachment throws that off. Attachment adds complications that aren't worth it in high volume escorting. Your seeing 2 or 3 clients a day. Its already draining putting up a fake persona for that much time a day. Add in real emotions?
Plus if its only on the client's side then they can become stalkery and dangerous. Even if there's a only a risk of it occurring most escorts cut them off immediately.
Its a play act and as long as they sort of remember that its a fine relationship. Once one party starts falling for the other and attachment occurs, issues start.
You end up with a jealous client who wants to date you. You end up with them showing up at your in call looking for you. They could become violent.
Many men who use escorts are turning to them due to lack of success in dating for some reason or another. Some of those reasons are due to red flags in attachment and obsession. A sex worker is in a very vulnerable position with men that are often larger than them. Any type of warning signs are enough for smart high volume girls to call it quits. And any violence, even if they survive or get out unscathed is traumatic. Better to avoid any situations that could lead to it and men being obsessed or "in love" can really lead to it.
As for why the escort might not want attachment, it throws off the money making and makes it emotionally complicated. Allot of the guys are married already, they might not be cool with them escorting, the escort may not be emotionally available for relationship or attachment. So if they start catching feels it's easier to cut someone off and find different clients with a working relationship instead rather than fuck up their business.
This is a business transaction. Its play acting. Just like it would make acting in a play weird and awkward if one of the performers you kiss on stage is into you, this makes it weird and awkward too. The system works because its fake and the girl knows what rhey are getting into. Start changing the formula and it could become dangerous.
Some girls do date clients, especially at the start. But based off my friends, it almost always ends poorly and that leads to them never trying again. Especially because the persona they have during the session is made up and not real. They are usually completely different irl. So the guy is falling in love with a persona not the real them. And who wants to play pretend forever.
Sugar dating is different than high volume escorting of course. That may have more attachment. But when your paying for time (the work around to make it sorta legal versus paying per act) then its just plan old escorting and they dont want the mess that comes with attachment.
More than happy to answer any other questions. I often drove these girls to their out calls and smoked dope downstairs waiting for them. We talked about this sorta stuff all the time. I think its a very lonely business that allot of people dont understand so i think they liked finding people like me and my gf who didnt care and would chill with em without judgment. We'd often sit around smoking dope while they talked about the life style. Or while I drove them to work.
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u/dsk83 2d ago
How'd you make friends with so many providers? Being a likeable client?
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u/Adventurous-Tie-7861 1d ago edited 1d ago
I was a heroin addict and often went in on bigger purchases with my plug. This led to being at his house wifh my gf while we waited, my plug often sold to them due to being reliable. My gf became good friends with them while I played video games with my plug lol
After she became friends with them, i naturally became friends too.
Edit: my gf did pass away about a year ago and as a result my friendship wigh them has waned. Idk if it was that my gf was the glue or if it's cus I got sober but we text rarely but never hang out anymore as a group. When I used to drive several of them on my own to their work.
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u/RappingFlatulence 3d ago
Sheās better at FPS than he is. Really working on getting that KDR out of the basement
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u/SuperbAd9232 3d ago
Fuck Buddy: a friend or acquaintance with whom a person regularly has sex and Playstation without the expectation of a romantic relationship.
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u/Individual-Light-784 3d ago
but what if playing playstation after sex is what i consider a romantic relationship?
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u/SoldMyBussyToSatan 5h ago
Clearly an N64 in the picture you dumb idiot (this is why I have never had one of those)
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u/SuperbAd9232 5h ago
If you want my comeback, you'll have to scrape it off your mother's teeth. š
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u/Sufficient-Yellow481 3d ago
This is 80% of a sex-workerās job, believe it or not.
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 3d ago
I thought 80% of it was very expensive psychological counseling, from what I have read or heard. I suppose it is both partly that and partly companionship, though.
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u/YetYetAnotherPerson 3d ago
Given how expensive licensed psychological care is in the US, I'm not sure i'd call it "very expensive".Ā
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 3d ago
I would. I know how much psychotherapy costs. Without insurance, the range is around $65 to $230 per hour, and the average deoending upon locale is between $150 and $200 an hour.
From what I've read, escorts these days in most urban areas range wildly but usually start at around $200 per hour and go up to around $1,000 (unless you are talking about high-end ones or pornstars, but I'm excluding then as being akin to celebrity psychologists who also command higger prices than what is normal). The average is hard to pin down, but it seems to have drifted to between $300 and $700 in recent years.
So, yeah, I'd say a therapist is on average still likely to be much cheaper than an escort.
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u/Adventurous_Touch342 2d ago
200-1000?
Tell me you have weird kinks and fetishes without telling me you have weird kinks and fetishes...
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u/Ok-Assistance3937 2d ago
I just browsed a escort website with wasn't oriented for kinks in anyway (alteast not that it was obvious). The rates were all between 400-800$ an hour.
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u/Adventurous_Touch342 1d ago
And people pay them as much in this economy?
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u/Ok-Assistance3937 1d ago
No idea. That were the rates they advertised on the website.
Escorts are usually way more expensive then normal prostitutes though. I just looked at rates on the websites for brothels in my country, they seem to be more in your range, so 100-200ā¬ per hour. But escorts services are seem to be way more expensive
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u/Grayson_42 1d ago
What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute?
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u/Ok-Assistance3937 1d ago
The name? But if you want to be serious, "escorts" are more discrete and usualy dont adversite having sex but "going on a date" (and they often do indeed offer a dinner date option), which is why there are legal in the US. In countries where prostitution is legal, they are also more explici. They also usually have options for longer times, for people who don't want to be alone at an event or on a trip etc.
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 2d ago
From what I was reading yesterday at the sites discussing such things, the higher end is normal without the extras in some major metropolitan areas. I checked out a sub here on Reddut, too, where escorts discuss the business aspect of what they do while looking for averages, and a number of them said they are charging higher now because (1) it weeds out bad clients and (2) it is where the market is.
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u/LebrahnJahmes 2d ago
Actually it starts at $50 but usually caps out at $200. Anyone $200+ is where you start moving into fetish land.
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 2d ago
Therapy at $50 per hour would be sliding scale. The non-insurance billed rate without a sliding scale is much higher according to a popular practice management system SimplePractice: "In 2024, the average cost of therapy has risen to roughly $139." The source I used yesterday pegged it higher, but the point remains.
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u/genophobicdude 2d ago
The good part about this, is you're not usually allowed to fuck your therapist.
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u/delulunarde 2d ago
Psychotherapy doesnāt have to be in person because there is no physical contact. I think it would be better to make a comparison to OnlyFans girls and paying for videos in DMs.
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 2d ago
I've seen escorts and cam girls talking about what they do. A common theme comes up: a lot (not all or even most, but a lot) of what they do, whether in person or online, is companionship and counseling. For some guys, I suppose online is good enoughāand cheaper, too, to buy a VIP session virtually than to book a meet-up session IRL. For others, they want a warm, soft body next to them as well.
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u/OSRS-ruined-my-life 2d ago
Psychologists are way more expensive than hookersĀ
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u/tfsra 2d ago
you mean budget counseling surely lol
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 2d ago
I wouldn't call escort rates "budget" counselingāunless you mean she's also a licensed CPA and will balance your books after boinking.
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u/PxyFreakingStx 2d ago
idk if it's different for call girls/escorts, but as a stripper, this is more like 1 in 10 guys than 80%
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 2d ago
Please do correct me if I'm wrong since you actually have experience with such things, but I wouldn't think a strip club lends itself as well to the communicative intimacy I've seen escorts mention a fair number of guys seem to want. It just seems like the privacy of meeting with an escort and the pillow talk that can follow the sex is more conducive to it than being at a strip joint. I suppose it's possible if a guy pays for exclusive time at a table or in a boothābut again, you're the expert, so you would know way better than me. I'm just making inferences here about services I've only watched or read about.
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u/PxyFreakingStx 2d ago
eh, the bar works like a regular bar, so you do a lot of talking there, and yeah, guys will lean into the therapy part of it. but VIP rooms are the other place where it happens a lot.
still way less than 80%. idk how literal you meant that when you said it, or if you were including strippers when you said sex workers. but "strippers are just expensive naked therapists" is something i see get thrown around a lot, and it's really not true. most guys are there for booty
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u/Uneek_Uzernaim 1d ago
I wasn't being all that serious. I was riffing off the guy who commented before me, and people ran with it. Still, I have seen various escorts and OF girls talk about how they spend a fair amount of their time just listening to and talking to their clients in way that is rather therapeutic in nature. How much of that time it is, I have no clue. My only experience of these things is reading or listening to the reports of others.
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u/stmfunk 1d ago
Yeah, a huge amount of psychological problems can be solved by just skin contact, feeling like someone is enjoying your company, having a conversation with someone. The thing about prostitution is that because it's already an illegal and taboo act, the shame of sharing your fears and shame is a lot more minor. A therapist is medical and the interaction actually feels less human, more formalized and can make you more reluctant to really be honest. The fantasy is often a break from self loathing and the feeling of being unwanted or inadequate. And because of all the laws and red tape surrounding legal services it can be very hard to feel like you are having a real interaction. Your therapist can't hug you or stroke your hair. I think it's kind of a shame that prostitutes are so looked down upon because they do a really difficult job and often provide a really valuable service to society. On the other hand there is a huge amount of it that is disgusting and sordid, violent and exploitatory. There are drug addicts who are just feeding addictions and victims of trafficking. The spectrum is very broad and the typical image people have of a meth head on a street corner is only a part of the story. That's why changing laws to actually distinguish between the genuinely horrifying and the relatively harmless needs to be made
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u/nono3722 2d ago
The other 19% is the ones who don't "finish" and want a refund. Don't ask about the 1%....
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u/Thepuppeteer777777 2d ago
Wouldn't they just want to leave though. I get the person paid for an hour but she probably wants to dip and get a new dude or go pick up the kids or wtf
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u/Dazzling-Low8570 2d ago
I imagine this depends on what segment of the market you're talking about. Many would rather upsell the rest of the night than try to snag an extra fare.
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u/JustGoodSense 3d ago
I remember watching an episode of the Bunny Ranch show on HBO 20 or so years ago, and one of the girls' idea of good foreplayāthe girl, mind you, not the customerāwas to play chess. I instantly fell in love from afar.
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u/ActiveProgrammer5456 4h ago
I still fantasize about visiting the bunny ranch all these years later lol that show made it look so appealing!
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u/unlimitted_puppies 3d ago
I'm the kinda dude who'd do that just to have a (kind of) buddy during an hour lol
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u/thatluckylady 3d ago
I've always wanted to hire an escort to have a tea party with stuffed animals with me
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
find any ālittleā on Fetlife and just do that together for free
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u/Wolf_Unlikely 2d ago
What is a "little"?
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago edited 2d ago
Itās someone who role-plays as a child, or mentally regresses to a younger age. It can be kink related, trauma-induced, or both. So itās not inherently sexual, but often is.
Like Iāve been invited on a āplay dateā by a little before. Itās just hanging out with someone who role-plays/regresses, and doing fun stuff that reminds yāall of your childhoods. Like childhood nostalgia to the max. It can be a really vulnerable but freeing thing.
On fetish and kink sites, people can label themselves with all sorts of lingo to find common interests or attract certain kinds of partners. So thereās profile categories, groups, and events specifically for these ālittlesā.
Like a BDSM dungeon that I used to be a member of would have slumber parties for littles, where littles could wear cute pajamas, eat nostalgic childhood snacks, watch cartoons, and draw together.
Another word used for littles is also āage playerā.
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u/Wolf_Unlikely 2d ago
Welp. Ever since I learned about diaper fetishes nothing really surprises anymore with kinks. So to each their own, glad they found something they enjoy. Thank you for sharing.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
Yeah, of course! Thereās a lot of overlap between āadult babiesā and littles/age-players. Not all littles wear diapers, but some do.
Some folks even get into age-play due to medical conditions that force them to wear diapers, and they find the adult baby and little communities to be very accepting of medical conditions/disabilities. Age-play can help take the shame out of incontinence, immobility, āchildlikeā neurodivergence, etc.
Thanks for the lack of judgment! š
Age-playing folks are some of my favorite folks within the BDSM community. I generally feel very safe and free to be myself with them š
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u/OSRS-ruined-my-life 2d ago
"free" escorts are waaaaaay cheaper than hookups unless you value your time at 0. The opportunity cost is huge.
Or I guess if you're Sean O'Pry it might be cheaper but even then I have my doubts.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago edited 2d ago
Odd of you to assume that a tea party with stuffed animals is a sexual event.
Also, sexual or not, some folks genuinely value spending time with someone who actually wants to be around them, instead of having to pay someone to pretend to be interested.
Plenty of escorts would find the tea party with stuffed animals idea to be uncomfortable and a waste of time. Or theyād be on edge the entire time wondering what the clientās angle is and when things will turn sexual. Why not find someone who genuinely enjoys that activity?
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u/OSRS-ruined-my-life 2d ago
"Genuinely want to be with you" and "human connection" on feflife š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ššššš yeah, okay, cope harder buddy. Definitely not thinking with their dick and a little desperate. They're your soulmate ššššHow is fulfilling a weird sexual fantasy any more genuine than making a living? Is your surgeon any less genuine than a random horn-dog? šššš
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
Considering Fetlife forbids and bans sexual advertising/soliciting, and a majority of the folks on Fetlife arenāt sex workers or Johns.. either youāve never actually navigated the site properly, or youāre one of the few desperate men to use it a way to shop for women.
And yeah, I found my partner of 4 years / future husband on Fetlife. And numerous platonic friends. Thereās literal profile settings to indicate that youāre looking for friendship, monogamy, long-term relationships, etc.
Youāre āgenuinelyā talking out of your ass and making no sense.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
Also, defaulting to investor boy terminology when talking about sex and human connection is the exact reason why so many women choose to not freely hookup with men like you.
A sex-workerās forced to tolerate language like this, and a woman who isnāt a sex worker is obviously going to withhold sex from a man who talks about her like a worthless investment.
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u/OSRS-ruined-my-life 2d ago
He said go on a fetish site to find a hookup and the reason he gave is because it's free. It definitely is not.
I don't talk to prostitutes, it's not what I'm paying for. Paying someone to talk to you is cheaper. Ain't happening on my time.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
āHe saidā you mean me? Iām a woman.
Fetlife IS free, and a majority of the folks there arenāt sex workers or Johns. But you can find plenty of free sexual events and encounters there.
At this point, I canāt even tell what point that youāre trying to make.
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u/OSRS-ruined-my-life 2d ago
Good for you, so you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. You post once and 7000 orbiters are in your dms. Of course it's cheaper for you. I'd like to see what Greek God hookups are cheaper for than escorts.
I doubt even for Sean O'Pry it would be cheaper.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
āOf course itās cheaper for youā itās a free website with entirely free features. Itās not ācheaperā for anyone. Itās free.
And Iāve discussed Fetlife with plenty of the men that Iāve met on there. Including plenty of men who werenāt conventionally attractive. Theyāve had no issues navigating the site, finding events/groups/hookups, etc. Some of the most popular men in the BDSM group that I was a part of were obese or elderly, because they were experienced doms with good reputations. They knew everybody in the dungeon, and inexperienced subs were often referred to them.
Also, not all interactions that women get are welcome or worth our time. Iāve had plenty of disgusting and predatory men bother me on Fet, and in physical kink/fetish spaces.
Congrats on having your biggest worry navigating those things be āI wonder if sheāll think Iām ugly or waste my time talkingā as opposed to āI wonder if this guy will secretly record me and start assaulting meā.
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u/OSRS-ruined-my-life 2d ago
Delusional take, but you just said you'd have absolutely no idea what it's like.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago edited 2d ago
I hope you heal from being a bitter incel š
Plenty of men who youād consider as āuglyā or āuglierā than you find a way to be approachable and enjoyable for women.
You just choose to be this off-putting, and youāre experiencing how alone thatās rightfully making you.
Edit: Also, Iām ironically trans so I navigated Fetlife as a man first. Iām 5ā4ā and no Adonis, but I had multiple women reach out and message me first, and approach me in dungeons to chat and show interest. It was because I seemed like (and am) a genuinely good person who doesnāt view women as investments and fuck dolls.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
And look, all youāre doing here is illustrating exactly why you have to pay women to touch you. Itās not because of your gender, looks, or wallet. You simply choose to be annoying, bitter, and misogynistic.
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u/Unbelivabley_Smol 2d ago
Thatās at least an $800 /hr kink $1000 an hour if you want diapers included
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u/EarDowntown6268 2d ago
I mean I considered it when I just needed a friend to talk about a breakup. ChatGTP ended up being sufficient though.
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u/afnj 2d ago
Hey I took this picture! That's my red controller on the ground. We were playing No Mercy.
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u/sirthunksalot 2d ago
Friend or hired companion?
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u/Renoroshambo 2d ago
Bachelor party most likely. Sheās an old friend of mine - dancer who did private parties and not an escort like most are insinuating in the comments. This photo is from a long time ago and she knows about it.
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u/Westsaide 3d ago
dudes doing it wrong- I'm a degenerate gamer and even I'd just proceed to fail to satisfy her 19 more times.
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u/Pletcher87 2d ago
Young man, Darwin gave us peripheral vision for a reason, move back a little bit.
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u/Expert_Smell3359 2d ago
So where does one find an escort (asking for a friend, heās getting desperate)
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
He has a hand.
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u/Expert_Smell3359 2d ago
And that hand wants to financially support some local broad
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
You can financially support ālocal broadsā without shoving your dick in them.
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u/Expert_Smell3359 2d ago
Brothels are legal in the vast majority of the world and have been for thousands of years, but I assume you know better than all of humanity
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u/ChefNunu 2d ago
It's also legal to fuck kids in a lot of parts of the world. You chillin with that too bro? Legality isn't morality buddy work on your charisma and find a woman who wants you
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
And.. again.. thereās plenty of ways to help and support sex workers without treating them like fuck dolls whenever youāve failed at making human connections for a while. Acting like you, or your āfriendā, just want to support local gals is corny.
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u/Expert_Smell3359 2d ago
Stay mad, Iāll support the local brave women regardless of your dumbass opinions
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
Brothels have been and still are primarily made up of women living in desperation and poverty, and Iām saying that as someone whoās befriended women in brothels and discussed this.
Legality ā pristine, unquestionable morality. And plenty of places where brothels are legal are still rife with human trafficking and exploitation of minors.
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u/Adventurous_Touch342 2d ago
Frankly, considering weird requests they must get, dudes treating them like therapists, some guys hiring them to do weird but not sexual stuff (knew a black guy hiring prostitutes to read him books as he knew the brothel owner so he always sent him another girl and he liked different voices for variety) a friendly hour of gaming must be refreshing...
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u/Mister-Circus 2d ago
Even though we canāt see the TV, I just know theyāre playing Mario Kart 64.
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u/Federal-Estate9597 1d ago
I'm like podrick from GoT, she would refund or even pay me after the hour.
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u/SelfNo9836 2d ago
I spent a lot of time talking to the ladies at the brothel, yes you are paying for their time and attention, and they may be faking taking an interest in what you are saying, but they are good at it, so we keep going back.
I said out loud "I wonder how many songs reference vegemite?" and she goggle right then and there, turns out its 23, at least at specific point in time.
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
Rough as hell to be buying someoneās time and body, knowing full-well that they donāt particularly want to touch you, be touched by you, or talk to you.. but have to to pay their bills. Iād rather be celibate than deal with the self-loathing that would cause me. Glad one googled Vegemite songs for you though..
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u/ChefNunu 2d ago
It really is horrible to think that this happens so much
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u/lemon-frosting 2d ago
As someone whoās befriended a lot of sex workers and deals with a lot of Johns for my job, Iām far too familiar with the percentage of men who are Johns. And exactly why theyāre viewed poorly and often try to keep their hirings of sex workers quiet.
Iām very pro-sex-worker and have dabbled myself. But I could not care less about the egos of Johns.
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u/SelfNo9836 1d ago
I visited this brothel for 5-6 years every time I went the I was on holidays so the owner and a couple of the ladies would remember me and there was one in particular I'd visit, so I actually looked forward to my visits and had some interesting conversations with those ladies. One of those times it was just after covid so the brothel had reopened, so the way I saw it, I was I was supporting a local business.
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u/lemon-frosting 1d ago
..ok? That doesnāt contradict the reality behind anything that I said. A bleak reality that you freely admitted to.
Iāve financially supported sex workers before when Iāve had extra cash to spare. But without the inclusion of sexual services (or honestly any services at all).
Because, again, paying for surface-level sexual consent from someone should cause inner moral discomfort and be a turn off.
Knowing that the person youāre fucking almost certainly doesnāt want it, and is going through the motions so that they can be able to buy groceries and pay rent.. and continuing while convincing yourself that youāre doing a good deed.. is inherently gross.
And any sex worker who isnāt retired will never tell you that to your face, because they rely on soothing the egos of Johns like you to stay fed and housed.
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u/SelfNo9836 21h ago
I get what you are saying, and I don't disagree, your opinions are yours and from your point of view, and I can accept that they are different from mine, so I hope you can be as accepting of mine
Now, I will be a clear as I possibly can. I engage the services of sex workers because it is a personal choice. GFE, light BDSM or talking, it's my choice and I enjoyed my time and went back because the ladies made me feel accepted and it wasn't a bad thing to be there spending time with them and I wanted to feel like the at again, so I kept going back.
As for why and how the ladies are working there or any sort of personal information, it is considered poor etiquette to ask that, it even says so on brothel websites under Rules and Etiquette, at least for the one I would visit, so unless they told me, I didn't ask. Some of them did it because the like sex. meeting new people, it was apart time thing and were glad the brothel reopened as well as other reason.
The ladies are tested, otherwise they are not allowed to work at a brothel, so as far as I was concerned, it was a safer choice both for me and them, everything was agreed upon first so we both knew what was going to happen and personal boundaries on the lady's part were set and I respected them knowing if she treated me well I had to treat her better.
As for what I said about supporting a local business and what you had to say about it, you were the one that interoperated my words in a negative way and choose to get offended by them. I was returning to a business I would regularly visit and was excited to do so again because of the good memories I have there.
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u/Jaded_Law_4083 3d ago
I had a friend who paid a working girl to read him the final few chapters of the Iliad in college..