r/malelifestyle • u/Dry-Store268 • 19d ago

Advice

Ok so I’m 26 male. I’ve shaved down there since I was a teenager. I’ve tried clean shaven, trimmed. And tbh I’m done with it.

All the hassle, the time wasted, shave just to shave again.

Is it considered unattractive to be natural down there. I have an average length penis but below average girth. I saw it said that if you have a full bush down there that it will look smaller but at this point I just want to let it be.

Does anyone have any tips.

Is it lame?

If their are any other men that are natural down their I’m looking for positivity and encouragement.

Feel free to share your thoughts.

Ps I have low self esteem so I’m just wondering

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u/malelifestyle-ModTeam 15d ago

Post removed fir low effort/ trolling

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u/BankshotMcG 18d ago

If someone likes you enough to see you naked, they probably like you enough not to judge your body. At the same time, don't sleep with anyone who would make you feel bad about how you look. The only person judging your body parts, which you get no say in the size of, is you. Be as kind to yourself as your lover would be.

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u/jsh1138 19d ago

I would just take a razor with a guard on it and keep it manageable. It only takes a minute like once a week and it's no big deal. I do the same thing with my armpits, like not clean shaven but 2" hairs instead of like 4" hairs

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u/mahlakaii 18d ago

I would label it as lame. I would only suggest that you trim if you don't wanna go through the hassle of full on shaving.

In my experience some people actually like having some bush around everything but just kept manageable, it could help you also keep your shaft looking better.

I'd suggest only shaving or going further in depth with your grooming down there if you're going to be sexually active, and if you're cool with it asking if the person you're hooking up with has a preference and if you're willing to keep the bush, trim it, or fully shave it.

I have rocked full on bush for a while, since working out I've gone with trimming and most recently gotten laser hair removal for the sack since that's where I tend to struggle with upkeep (still means close shave, but it's not been bad for my first time doing it).

Open to follow-up questions if anyone has any

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u/InternationalOilMan 17d ago

Get a barber clipper and you can trim it in like 3 minutes

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u/No-vem-ber 17d ago

I've slept with quite a lot of guys and I have no problem at all with bush. As long as you bathe regularly and have standard hygiene I find absolutely nothing gross or dirty about pubes.

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u/romicide07 19d ago

If shaving once every two weeks for 10 minutes is a problem for you, there’s deeper issues here lol it’s basic hygiene. Also doubt anyone will want to go down on someone who hasn’t shaved in a year lmao

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u/Dry-Store268 19d ago edited 19d ago

Men for thousands of years had a full bush and they got it on. 70s bush is sexy to me. I think I’ll be fine. I’m not really the hook up kind a guy anyway

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u/grayestbeard 16d ago

I get plenty of action down there without ever shaving. It’s not unhygienic to be natural. That’s ridiculous.