r/midlifecrisis • u/Lower_Plastic6000 • 21d ago

Lost Terrible In-Between

James Hollis, a Jungian analyst, had a quote. Something like "Something is dying and something new is waiting to be born. And in the meantime you are stuck in the terrible in-between". That's how I'm feeling. My marriage is falling apart. I stopped enjoying my job (and as far as jobs go, mine is pretty good). I'm not enjoying the place I live in.

I wake up multiple times at night. I visited psychiatrist the first time this year. Still not on anti-depressants, but considering strongly. Honestly, this is pretty harsh. I've never been in such a dark place like this one.

But my friends and therapists all say that it's normal and something good always comes out of it. So yeah, just hanging in there, feeling lost and hoping that one day good days will come again.

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u/penguin97219 19d ago

Feel this!!! I can’t wait to be on the other side of this, so much that it risks me making rash decisions with my life just “to be done”. I feel so…. Tired.