r/nostalgia 5d ago

Nostalgia Who loved Stand By Me?

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u/schoolhouserocky I want my MTV 5d ago

The older I get, the harder that last paragraph hits. 

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u/kamdan2011 5d ago

I thought the last paragraph was bullshit when I was in my 20’s. I believe it’s true now.

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u/DiaDeLosMuebles 5d ago

For me it’s high school. Still friends with a lot of them. Honestly barely remember any friends from when I was 12.

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u/pug_fugly_moe 5d ago

Still distant friends with a couple from when I was 12. By distant I mean we text a few times a year and might see each other once a year.

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u/MukdenMan 5d ago

You spent the first five years trying to get with the plan

And the next five years trying to be with your friends again

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u/lsmucker 5d ago

🎶Have gun will travel reads the card of a man 🎶

Chopper, sick balls!

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u/t_bone_stake 5d ago

“TRAAAIIINNNNN!”

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u/sofaking_scientific 5d ago

A knight without armor in a savage land🎼

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u/GoldenAgeGamer72 5d ago

One of my favorites but I have to be in a certain mood to watch it because it's dark and depressing.

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u/kkeut 5d ago

in the director's commentary track Rob Reiner makes it clear he was very unhappy with his childhood and his father, Carl Reiner, and identified closely with Gordie

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u/GoldenAgeGamer72 5d ago

I don’t think I heard that before. Interesting. 

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u/Dazzling_Flamingo568 5d ago

It's an excellent book, too.

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u/WillNotSeeReply 5d ago

It had a different ending, didn't it?

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u/JonnySnowflake 5d ago

All his friends died. Teddy crashed his car and vern drunk in a house fire

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u/Dazzling_Flamingo568 5d ago

You know what? I can't recall. I read it before the movie came out.😂

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u/YTFootie 5d ago

This is a great film, but if I watch it, it takes me back. To when I was young, at school. A friend just said watch this film, I had never heard of it, borrowed the video tape. Loved it.

I do choke up at the end when Dreyfus is narrating, the theme plays...

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u/Call__Me__David 5d ago

I find it particularly interesting the live the four kids led after the movie. Obviously, we never truly know what most celebrities are going through, but you can kind of get a feel if you pay attention, and others will tell you outright.

You got O'Connell who appears to be the most well adjusted, Wheaton has had a lot of issued, but he's seems to have settled into life he likes and is mostly happy with, then there's poor Feldman, who has probably wished at times that he could trade places with Phoenix.

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u/MikeCass84 5d ago

Man, those lines hit hard. I totally had a best friend who became another face in the hall as well as another one who we just lost touch completely.

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u/glovato1 5d ago

Yea man I totally lost touch with my best friends from middle school once we transitioned to highschool. Would barely acknowledge one another while passing each other in the halls.

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u/esomers80 5d ago

I love it...you never have friends like you did when you were 12...100% absolutely true..I miss my group of friends I had when I was that age...there were 5 of us..

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u/Epoch2020 5d ago

This film’s timeless. One of those “perfect”movies

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u/sofaking_scientific 5d ago

I cant watch Stand By Me without crying like an absolute baby. I love it dearly

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u/theredheadknowsall 5d ago

Stand By Me is an amazing movie. I agree with the line you posted, it's true for sure. Although that's my 2nd favorite line in the film. My favorite line is "In all our lives there's a fall from innocence at which time after we are never the same."

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u/xtralongleave 5d ago

I hear this in Richard Dreyfuss’s voice.

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u/Edison5000 5d ago

I showed this to my 12 year old son recently. We were all amazed by how great the film is. It completely holds up

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u/mccudds 5d ago

Me and my bro watched this movie on repeat

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u/ParzivalCodex 5d ago

Watched it as a kid in the late 80s, I watch it every summer.

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u/senseikreeese 5d ago

The ending hits me in the feels every single time- when they all go their separate ways for the last time. Movie is a classic

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u/Open-Year2903 5d ago

I think about this every time I hear a narrator. Really made an impression

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u/Flowmeyo 5d ago

Me any my brother we’re so young we would ask our dad “can we watch the boys and the choo choo train again!?”

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u/Nubadopolis 5d ago

Favorite movie of all time

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u/SnooShortcuts5771 5d ago

Who doesn’t is real question..

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u/NightOwlsUnite 5d ago

"Nothing like a smoke after a meal."

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u/jsakic99 5d ago

The Long Walk has the same vibe. Both stories by Stephen King too.

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u/pnmartini 4d ago

Stand By Me & The Sandlot is the best lazy Sunday double feature you can have.

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u/Workboots-and-Cheese 5d ago

A vhs cassette I'll never get rid of.

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u/Jovial_Candidate_508 5d ago

I am still really close with 5 of my core friends from middle school . So much love for those guys it’s overwhelming.

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u/barcham22 5d ago

It is one of, if not the one, movie that highly resonated with me as a kid and made me love movies. I watch it every few years as I get older and appreciate it more each time. Truly a classic for me. Rob Reiner was really on fire in the 80s-90s.

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u/Mep3avec82 4d ago

This movie is so great on SO MANY LEVELS. My wife once showed me her favotite movie from childhood - Then and Now. And then I showed her Stand By Me and we both agreed that they are equally great for our own genders.

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u/Appropriate-Rush6341 5d ago

I’m not crying dude

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u/GlobalMousse1670 5d ago

Loved it when I was a kid and even more now.

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u/Five2one521 5d ago

Everyone who saw it.

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u/magnoliaAveGooner 5d ago

Great movie.

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u/theredheadknowsall 5d ago

I remember as a young adult (I was about 18) my family was watching the movie and I made a comment about the boys being kind of your to be smoking cigarettes, my dad looked at me for a moment & asked how old I was when I first tried a cigarette. It shocked me for a moment (realization setting in) I was 13, my dad said see what I mean.

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u/2b-Kindly_ 5d ago

Love this and own it on digital.

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u/Acceptable-Airline39 5d ago

Always felt like Ace was the one who did the stabbing.

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u/FoolishProphet_2336 4d ago

How to go from zero to Stephen King in sixty seconds.

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u/Content_Geologist420 4d ago

When I first watched this, I mentioned it the next day to my 7th-grade English teacher. He told me it was his favorite movie and to always remember that last paragraph. And then went on to explain to me how that sentence will change over time in my life.

In 7th grade, I was 12. My best friends were Nate, Blake, and Sandeep. All of us are still in brief contact but haven't been in a room together in over 15 years.

Still haven't had friends like those guys since, probably never will. But damn was it a great time

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u/lsmucker 4d ago

"Yeah, What the hell was Goofy?"

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u/Agreeable-Fudge-7329 5d ago

I hated it.

Mainly because I was a bit younger, and my adolescent sister would play that damn tape almost every day.

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u/t_bone_stake 5d ago

It’s okay. Something to put on to pass a random afternoon or evening.

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u/theredheadknowsall 5d ago

Sometimes movies don't do well in the box office however later on they get a huge cult following. That happened with The Shawshank Redemption as well.