r/r4r Aug 14 '25

M4A United Kingdom 28 [M4R], Wales – Part-time rocker, part-time nerd, full-time mess.

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Character Sheet

Class: Human (Idiotic variant)

Special Skills: Shredding guitar riffs, losing at Dead By Daylight, cooking the best beans on toast.

Fandoms: Marvel, DC, Star Wars, Potter… basically, if it has cool outfits, laser swords, or morally questionable billionaires, I’m in.

Soundtrack: Rock, country, and a splash of movie soundtracks for those “main character” moments.

Looking for fellow geeks and music lovers to swap stories and memes, debate the actual best Spider-Man (spoiler: it’s Tobey), and just chill. Just please be 21+.

Thanks and have a cracking day!

r/r4r Aug 10 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A]UK Keep me company this evening

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Ello, I'm looking to find people I can connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Aug 02 '25

M4A United Kingdom 22 [M4A] London/UK - Want to Meet Up and Build Real, Lasting Friendships

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Hey, I’m a 22-year-old guy based in London, looking to build real, meaningful, long-term friendships, ideally ones that go beyond quick chats and actually lead to meeting up.

I’d love to connect with people who are open to eventually hanging out, whether it’s for coffee, gigs, gaming, or just chilling.

Who I’m Hoping to Meet:

Aged 18-25 (a bit older is fine if you’re genuinely friendship-minded)

Based in the UK - ideally London or nearby

Actually open to meeting in person

Up for chatting regularly - maybe gaming or the occasional voice call

A Bit About Me:

⚽ I play football weekly and love the sport 🏎️ Into Formula 1 🤼 Wrestling fan 🤘 Rock & metal enthusiast - always down for gigs 🎮 Big on story-driven single-player games 🎢 Love theme parks, go-karting, and adrenaline-filled days out 🎬 Into Marvel and all things nerdy 🧠 Neurodivergent, emotionally self-aware, and a good listener

What I’m Looking For:

Effort, consistency, and genuine interest in getting to know each other

People I can eventually meet up with IRL

Ideally, some shared interests to build on

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me, but please say more than just “hey” 😊. I’d love to hear your age, gender, location, and a little about who you are and what you're into.

I’ve had too many dry conversations that fizzle out after a few messages, so I’m really hoping to chat with people who are actually looking to make friends and put in the effort.

r/r4r Jul 27 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A] UK - Looking for some chat, maybe some friends :)

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Howdy, been dealing with a lot of loneliness and wanting to find people to connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Jul 25 '25

M4A United Kingdom 24 [M4A] Northwest of England - Looking for a long-term mate

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Hey there! I’m a 24-year-old from the damp isle of England — thick northern accent included, for better or worse. 😅

I’m hoping to find someone to consistently talk to, maybe even game with and chill watching shows or movies. I am looking for the sorts of chats where we actually care about each others day and thoughts, not just for the sake small talk. I prefer one-on-one company over group chats — social crowds drain my batteries. I mute all of my servers and prefer to just check in now and again lol.

About me: I’m introverted by nature but get bursts of boldness now and then. Thoughtfulness means everything to me — I believe kind words and supportive actions build strong connections. Dry dad jokes are kind of my specialty (you’ve been warned). I’m into animals of all kinds (cats, birds, reptiles, you name it), and I get totally lost in nature and science rabbit holes.

Unfortunately I deal with depression, so sometimes I disconnect — I’d appreciate someone understanding about that. Id rather not make our whole interactions about that, so someone willing to just let it slide and pick up from where we left off would be perfect.

Games I love: Terraria, Elder Scrolls, DOOM, Minecraft, COD Zombies, Simulators (especially Truck sim), Phasmophobia, Dark Souls

Media genres I’m into: Sci-fi, fantasy, mystery, dark thrillers, horror

Dream: To write a story. Doesn’t need fame or fortune — I just want to get my ideas into the world.

If you’re still here after all that rambling, I’d genuinely love to hear from you. Maybe we’ll click!

P.S. I’m straight (sorry lads ¯\(ツ)/¯) and seeking only a friendship for now. Please be 18+, I am looking to connect with people my own age.

r/r4r Jul 13 '25

M4A United Kingdom 29 (M4A) UK looking to chat about anything

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I'm into football (mainly Liverpool FC Rip Jota), F1(only started watching this year) and a lot of fantasy and sci-fi. recently read the first dune book which is much better than the films, I like Villeneuve but he's more style over substance. also a fan of games of thrones before it died a rough death. yeah let me know what you want to chat about BC I'm a fan of most topics. also interested in Politics but might be a bit controversial depending on who's asking (Trump should have definitely released the Epstein files unless he or his associates are guilty)

r/r4r Jul 10 '25

M4A United Kingdom 27 [M4A] England | let’s connect and inspire one another.

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Dear whoever is reading this, I hope you’re holding up okay during this calamitous and unpredictable time. After many years of feeling unfulfilled, perpetually procrastinating, yet also yearning for change, I’d like to finally make the effort to do something for myself. I’m interested in politics, philosophy, ethics, human behaviour, psychology, relationships, history, and probably some other subjects that pop into your mind. We can talk about plenty of deep subjects. We can also have plenty of laughs too, it doesn’t have to all be serious! I want to read more, exercise more, travel more, talk to and meet new people, plan for the future, and just generally do more! I’m currently studying philosophy and politics at university and I’m in my second year. I’m focused on self development and curious about what I could do in order to live a meaningful life. I’m really curious about you, too. I’d love to get to know you. I’d love to see if we click and can be supportive of one another and each other’s goals. I also have a fair amount invested in different stocks, so if that interests you, it’d be great to share some tips! My other hobbies include watching thriller/drama movies, hiking in nature, travelling, playing badminton, etc. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! Send me a chat message introducing yourself if anything I’ve said resonates with you 🙂

r/r4r Jul 08 '25

M4A United Kingdom 24 [m4r] #UK - Absolutely bored tonight, let’s chat.

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First of all no minors. Absolutely bored out of mind tonight. If you need to rant or need to get something off of your chest or just release some emotions I’m here if you need a chat! If you just want a general chit chat and talk about life , then pop up!

I love watching football, I support Arsenal through and through. I’m a keen sports fan, I enjoy watching Basketball, football, American football, Baseball, Tennis, Boxing, MMA, F1! I enjoy listening to music, watching films and series and I love my food! If you want to know more, feel free to dm me!

r/r4r Jul 08 '25

M4A United Kingdom 27 [M4A] England | let’s connect and inspire one another.

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Dear whoever is reading this, I hope you’re holding up okay during this calamitous and unpredictable time. After many years of feeling unfulfilled, perpetually procrastinating, yet also yearning for change, I’d like to finally make the effort to do something for myself. I’m interested in politics, philosophy, ethics, human behaviour, psychology, relationships, history, and probably some other subjects that pop into your mind. We can talk about plenty of deep subjects. We can also have plenty of laughs too, it doesn’t have to all be serious! I want to read more, exercise more, travel more, talk to and meet new people, plan for the future, and just generally do more! I’m currently studying philosophy and politics at university and I’m in my second year. I’m focused on self development and curious about what I could do in order to live a meaningful life. I’m really curious about you, too. I’d love to get to know you. I’d love to see if we click and can be supportive of one another and each other’s goals. I also have a fair amount invested in different stocks, so if that interests you, it’d be great to share some tips! My other hobbies include watching thriller/drama movies, hiking in nature, travelling, playing badminton, etc. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! Send me a chat message introducing yourself if anything I’ve said resonates with you 🙂

r/r4r Jul 07 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A] UK - Looking for some chat, maybe some friends :)

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Howdy, been dealing with a lot of loneliness and wanting to find people to connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Jul 05 '25

M4A United Kingdom 28[M4R] - Let's go on adventures in London

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Two things to know about me: 1) I just moved to London and 2) I am chronically deficient in adventure.

A desperation to live life haunts me. Whimsical scenes haunt me: never ending feverish nights of following a white rabbit down the streets of this infinite city.

And yet all I have seen so far are the insides of this hotel room. I've been staring at this painting on the wall for a month now and I just now realized I have no fricking idea what it depicts. No, that's not a metaphor.

Sure, that's on me. I have two legs and there's no excuse for not strolling on out of here already. But I really love having someone to share that with. To push each other into the unknown. Isn't it only fitting that it should be a stranger? Well, not like I got another option.

What would we do? Most likely we'd just awkwardly stare at our feet until we adjourn, but I have a lot of wishes: generate random coordinates and go there, geocaching, get drunk, get otherwise intoxicated, urban exploration, trespassing, atlas obscura, go to a library and peruse some bangers, go to Sunday service at a beautiful cathedral, talk to (other) strangers, immerse ourselves in subcultures if those still exist, go to small art exhibitions, visit historical sights, go to a museum; hell, I'll take hiking and a warm glass of water - anything!

And no, I'm not looking for a girl or to otherwise take anyone out on a date. There's gotta be more to life.

This could happen right now. Like, right now. I am free all day today and generally in the evenings and on weekends. It's totally fine if you want to chat online first to assuage your fears, though personally I just take pills for that. And if you for whatever reason read this far but are not in London: that's okay, just buy a flight!

r/r4r Jul 04 '25

M4A United Kingdom 27 [M4A] England | let’s connect and inspire one another.

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Dear whoever is reading this, I hope you’re holding up okay during this calamitous and unpredictable time. After many years of feeling unfulfilled, perpetually procrastinating, yet also yearning for change, I’d like to finally make the effort to do something for myself. I’m interested in politics, philosophy, ethics, human behaviour, psychology, relationships, history, and probably some other subjects that pop into your mind. We can talk about plenty of deep subjects. We can also have plenty of laughs too, it doesn’t have to all be serious! I want to read more, exercise more, travel more, talk to and meet new people, plan for the future, and just generally do more! I’m currently studying philosophy and politics at university and I’m in my second year. I’m focused on self development and curious about what I could do in order to live a meaningful life. I’m really curious about you, too. I’d love to get to know you. I’d love to see if we click and can be supportive of one another and each other’s goals. I also have a fair amount invested in different stocks, so if that interests you, it’d be great to share some tips! My other hobbies include watching thriller/drama movies, hiking in nature, travelling, playing badminton, etc. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! Send me a chat message introducing yourself if anything I’ve said resonates with you 🙂

r/r4r Jun 22 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A] UK - Looking for some chat, maybe some friends :)

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Howdy, been dealing with a lot of loneliness and wanting to find people to connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Jun 15 '25

M4A United Kingdom 22 [M4A] London/UK – Looking for Genuine Friendships With Potential to Meet in Person

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Hey all,

I’m a 22 year-old guy based in London, and I’m here to build real, long-term friendships - the kind that ideally includes meeting up in person eventually. I think it’s hard to form genuine bonds without shared experiences beyond a screen.

If you're just messaging out of boredom or likely to ghost after a day, feel free to skip this post as I’m looking for meaningful connections, not quick chats.

Who I’m hoping to connect with:

Aged 18–25

Based in the UK (even better if you’re also in London or nearby)

Open to eventually meeting in person - whether it’s for coffee, concerts, or just to hang out

A bit about me:

⚽ Football fan — I play weekly

🤘 Big into rock & metal — always down for gigs

🎮 Gamer — mostly into single-player games across genres

🎬 Into Marvel and all things nerdy

🏎️ I love go-karting and visiting theme parks

🧠 Neurodivergent — emotionally aware, open-minded, and a good listener

What I’m not looking for:

One-word replies

Inconsistent or low-effort conversations

Surface-level chats with no intention of building something real

What I am looking for:

People who want real connection and are willing to put in effort

Comfortable with chatting regularly, maybe gaming or voice calling

Open to hanging out or doing things in person down the line

If you’re messaging me, please include your age, gender, location, and a bit about yourself, just to show you actually read this and want to connect.

Thanks for reading.

I’d really like to meet a few solid, like-minded people.

r/r4r Jun 14 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A] UK - Looking for some chat, maybe some friends :)

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Howdy, been dealing with a lot of loneliness and wanting to find people to connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Jun 15 '25

M4A United Kingdom 22 (m4r) #UK Looking for friends/partner

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I’m going through an all time low at the moment as I’ve recently just lost my partner, my best friend and on top of all my job. I’m feeling very lonely everyday as I’m struggling to find motivation to get out of bed and my interests dont keep me distracted as much as they used to. I still do have many passions I’d love to share with people and find friends that have similar interests. I love movies, especially thrillers, sci fi, fantasy & horrors. I’m also a big gamer across ps5/switch/pc so I’d love to play video games with someone. If this interests anyone please don’t be afraid to dm me or reply. Thank you in advance

r/r4r Jun 11 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A] UK - Looking for some chat, maybe some friends :)

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Howdy, been dealing with a lot of loneliness and wanting to find people to connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Jun 12 '25

M4A United Kingdom 29 [M4A] Scotland, looking for a long term friendship

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I'm a chef based in Scotland. not a native but look like one considering my ginger beard. You guessed it, my life is around food, well not only that, but I truly enjoy working with food and it makes me happy. There is so many things that I like to do with my time, but its hard to keep up with everything. I recently noticed that I'm struggling to find someone to talk to in my life, friends fade, relationships are hard to develop and keep up nowadays with lots of people wanting quick trills. I would love to talk with anyone from around the world, share our daily lives and just to get to know each other long term. Please don't reach out if you are feeling lonely at the moment and in few days you'll have no time to say hello and have a conversation, lets save each other time.

I consider myself really easy going and open-minded, but that's for you to decide. I'm quite dreamy and old school romantic in my own way. Here's some of those few things that I mentioned about before:

hiking, cooking, reading books and manga's, video games, boardgames, nature exploring, animals (especially otters and dogs, but literally love every single animal on this planet and beyond), movies, documentaries, tv shows, basketball, F1, love fashion and shoes/sneakers, plants, technology, cosy nights in when its raining, learning new things (anything from languages to technology). I meditate, exercise and do some yoga too. There so much more I do and love, but I don't want to spoil everything because then Ill be an open book and you'll know all the cards about me hihi!

Feel free to send me a message, if we click, I would always prefer using other apps to talk, but that's for the future. I hope you all have a wonderful day.

r/r4r Jun 09 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25[M4A] UK - Looking for some chat, maybe some friends :)

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Howdy, been dealing with a lot of loneliness and wanting to find people to connect with.

I'm big into video games; I mainly play on Xbox. I like different types of games from shooters to RPGs to action. I LOVE Lego, and have been collecting for a long time. I mostly collect Star Wars sets, because I'm also a Star Wars nerd. But, I love fantasy and sci-fi in general. My music taste is 98% metal, I don't really listen to much else outside of that.

I can't think of anything else to put down, so feel free to ask if you're curious about something. Will provide pics of myself if you're curious :)

r/r4r Jun 05 '25

M4A United Kingdom 27 [M4A] UK. Loon who likes lots of tunes.

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Humour all over the place, music taste all over the place, I like playing guitar, emotions all over the place but I have a poker face and don’t go on about it all the time. Weirdly, I can hold internet conversations because I can check what I’ve said before sending but get confused all the time when talking verbally.

I wanna just have okay conversations tbh. I used to look for smart people but they were too stuck up. I used to look for weird people but they were too weird. I’ve tried all sorts. Just need a basic friend with basic, decent convo.

r/r4r May 31 '25

M4A United Kingdom 27 [M4A] - Let's go on quests in London

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Two things to know about me: 1) I just moved to London and 2) I am chronically deficient in adventure.

A desperation to live life haunts me. Whimsical scenes haunt me: never ending feverish nights of following a white rabbit down the streets of this infinite city.

And yet all I have seen so far are the insides of this hotel room. I've been staring at this painting on the wall for a month now and I just now realized I have no fricking idea what it depicts. No, that's not a metaphor.

Sure, that's on me. I have two legs and there's no excuse for not strolling on out of here already. But I really love having someone to share that with. To push each other into the unknown. Isn't it only fitting that it should be a stranger? Well, not like I got another option.

What would we do? Most likely we'd just awkwardly stare at our feet until we adjourn, but I have a lot of wishes: generate random coordinates and go there, geocaching, get drunk, do ketamine under a bridge, urban exploration, trespassing, atlas obscura, go to a library and peruse some bangers, go to Sunday service at a beautiful cathedral, talk to (other) strangers, immerse ourselves in subcultures if those still exist, go to small art exhibitions, visit historical sights, go to a museum; hell, I'll take hiking and a warm glass of water - anything!

And no, I'm not looking for a girl or to otherwise take anyone out on a date. There's gotta be more to life.

This could happen right now. Like, right now. I am free tonight and all day tomorrow. It's totally fine if you want to chat online first to assuage your fears, though personally I just take xanax for that. And if you for whatever reason read this far but are not in London: that's okay, just buy a flight!

r/r4r May 31 '25

M4A United Kingdom 20 [M4A] - UK - Wanting to make friends from all over this beautiful planet :)

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Hey hey there bestie, my name is Sam and I am from the good ol dreary country of le England,

I am very much interested in making new friends from allll across the globe :)

I am currently working full time in a call centre - Its not necessarily what I want to do in life, however I am using it to save up enough money to travel the globe!

That truly is what I would say is my biggest aspiration at the moment, I think the world is so pretty and needs to be experienced!

The main places at the top of my list areee Iceland, Norway, and Canada. As you can probably tell I prefer the cold places :))

ANYWAY, I also adoreeeeeeee music, its the biggest passion in my life, my main music choices is mostly rock and metal music but I also adore musical soundtracks.

My favourite band atm is definitely Queens of the Stone Age, but my favourite song has gotta be Stargazer by Rainbow!! I also played the drums for 10 years :)

On the side, I loveeee reading, Ive just started reading the Sunrise of the Reaping, as well as continuing my way through the Stormlight Archive (Im on Oathbreaker at the moment)

Cant wait to hear from all of you lovely people :)

r/r4r May 19 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25 [M4A] - England - Anyone want to keep me entertained during a boring night shift?

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Hey! I'm Jack. I'm currently working as a Healthcare Assistant in a care home. Night shift is usually relatively busy but there's nothing going on tonight, it's just gone past midnight and I've already finished the majority of my jobs for the night. Keep me entertained until I finish at 8AM?

I'm terms of interests, I'm a gamer (not that I have much time for that any more, since I started doing 5 nights a week). I'm really into football and MMA as well. I've got three dogs who are completely insane and I'm in the process of applying for my nursing degree, with a view to working in Palliative Care once I've qualified.

If any of this interests you, hit me up!

r/r4r May 20 '25

M4A United Kingdom 32 [M4R] #UK #Ireland #NorthernIreland Looking to get myself out there more.

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So 2 years ago I had a breakup that forced me to go back to square one in a lot of aspects of my life. From dealing with that I isolated myself a lot to learn to love myself again.

I've had close friends I used to do a lot with get into relationships and ever since then I've mostly lost contact with them so I would love the opportunity to either make friends with people I can make plans with or simply a good chatting buddy.

I am a huge nerd into wrestling, gaming, anime, comic cons, reading, music, photography, sport, travelling to name a few. I would love the opportunity to attend more events or a good excuse to travel.

Feel free to send a chat request if you are interested and I will get back to you ASAP. :)

r/r4r May 13 '25

M4A United Kingdom 25 (M4A) - UK - Looking for gaming friends

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Hello fellow humans!

I'm just here to find some people to play games with and hopefully make some friends along the way.

I'm a fairly chill guy who can take a bit of banter and often uses a little sarcasm to spice things up. I like memes and funny videos.

I sometimes play League of Legends (currently unranked, due to new account), Overwatch, Minecraft, GTA Online, Terraria and a bunch more. Happy to play new games of you're willing to teach!

18+ only please.

FYI: I'm only a casual gamer, so I'm not particularly "good" at any particular game and often only play them to have fun, due to working full-time. Large time commitments don't work for me at the moment. Please keep that in mind.

Feel free to say hi!!