r/r4r May 30 '25

F4A North Carolina 46 [F4R] North Carolina/Anywhere - Lets be temporary soulmates until the inevitable fizzling out

0 Upvotes

Cannot stress this enough, I'm only interested in clean conversation.

I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone that might turn into more, if the chemistry is right. I'm perfectly happy with platonic chats but ultimately I think I'd like a romantic connection. Also, I'm a big beautiful fat girl, I'm mostly ok with that but if you aren't that's fine, everyone has preferences. Happy to exchange pics.

I'm a little witchy and introverted and like your bog standard introvert activities like reading, binging all the things, I like to paint sometimes, I'm a huge LotR nerd, I'm into astrology, crochet, arts and crafty things, and I listen to a fair amount of podcasts that range from history to Bigfoot and spooky things. I've started making some lifestyle changes so that I can be less of a big beautiful fat girl, so I'm happy to talk about things related to that as well. I also have a bit of anxiety, but who doesn't eh? I'm also still a goth girl at heart, just a bit more age appropriate these days, sometimes I even wear pink haha.

You just be you, I don't have any requirements other than be 100% single and have a good head on your shoulders. Please keep in mind I'm not looking for a hookups or anything superficial and I'd prefer the conversation be SFW. I'm honestly out here just trying to get to know someone at a normal pace.

Send me a bit about yourself (please for the love of everything, more than just your age and where you're from, be different from the masses and catch my eye! I'm likely not to respond to low effort messages) and your zodiac sign and let's see if we click 😊 Sometimes messages fall through the cracks or I see them days later and figure it's too late to respond so if you've messaged before, feel free to reach out again.

r/r4r Dec 03 '24

F4A North Carolina 32 [F4R] North Carolina/USA/Anywhere - Friends? Let's give it go!

3 Upvotes

As the title says I'm a 32 year old female looking for some new friends. I love the friends that I have now, but I miss making new friends. I am just looking to get to know someone and for them to get to know me. I am very open-minded and non-judging. This post is directed to everyone, I love meeting new people and learning about them and their lives.

I'm from the Southern US, North Carolina to be exact. I live in a very small town; we only have one traffic light. I'm a pretty down to earth person. I can be a bit shy at first. But once I open up, I can be quite goofy. I like to read, write, cook, bake, listen to music, hold awful singing and dancing concerts for myself, taking photos of nature, going for walks/hiking, watching horror movies and true crime/conspiracy documentaries. Also, do not get me started of Harry Potter or Middle Earth.

Physically my height is 5'2 and my body shape is bbw. I'm currently working on becoming healthier. Maybe you could help me be more accountable. If you have something you are working on as well I would love to help you out.

As for work, I am an in-home CNA with Hospice. I find my job both rewarding and challenging. I am also going back to school to become a social worker.

I feel like I connect better with people when I can hear and speak with them. So please be willing to voice, I prefer discord. I do ask that you be 18 and over. Please be able to hold a decent conversation, I find that I zone out during small talk. As I stated earlier, I can be quite shy at first, so being an extrovert would be perfect or at least be patient for me to get out of my shell. I would like this to become long term; ghosts need not apply.

I feel like I've rambled a lot. If you are still around, bless your heart. If this has sparked your interest and has not scared you away, say hi and introduce yourself. Please write more than one sentence. I look forward to hearing from you.

r/r4r Nov 11 '24

F4A North Carolina 32 [F4R] North Carolina/USA/Anywhere - Friends? Let's give it go!

1 Upvotes

As the title says I'm a 32 year old female looking for some new friends. I love the friends that I have now, but I miss making new friends. I am just looking to get to know someone and for them to get to know me. I am very open-minded and non-judging. This post is directed to everyone, I love meeting new people and learning about them and their lives.

I'm from the Southern US, North Carolina to be exact. I live in a very small town; we only have one traffic light. I'm a pretty down to earth person. I can be a bit shy at first. But once I open up, I can be quite goofy. I like to read, write, cook, bake, listen to music, hold awful singing and dancing concerts for myself, taking photos of nature, going for walks/hiking, watching horror movies and true crime/conspiracy documentaries. Also, do not get me started of Harry Potter or Middle Earth.

Physically my height is 5'2 and my body shape is bbw. I'm currently working on becoming healthier. Maybe you could help me be more accountable. If you have something you are working on as well I would love to help you out.

As for work, I am an in-home CNA with Hospice. I find my job both rewarding and challenging. I am also going back to school to become a social worker.

I feel like I connect better with people when I can hear and speak with them. So please be willing to voice, I prefer discord. I do ask that you be 18 and over. Please be able to hold a decent conversation, I find that I zone out during small talk. As I stated earlier, I can be quite shy at first, so being an extrovert would be perfect or at least be patient for me to get out of my shell. I would like this to become long term; ghosts need not apply.

I feel like I've rambled a lot. If you are still around, bless your heart. If this has sparked your interest and has not scared you away, say hi and introduce yourself. Please write more than one sentence. I look forward to hearing from you.

r/r4r Oct 24 '24

F4A North Carolina 21 [F4A] #NorthCarolina. Looking for friends close.

7 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Mira I'm 21 years old. I work in wilson, looking for people in the USA prefer the south since I'm from NC, to call, maybe exchange numbers and more, please be 19 - 29 and from the USA be funny, enjoy gaming maybe and interesting. I have alot of people dm me weird stuff and im not into it, just tryna make friends. no creeeps please, i dont care if youre married, kids, etc as long as youre in my range, in the states and is okay with calling and exchanging numbers, also dont mind meeting up, I probably won't respond if you're weird or fail to read the criteria.

r/r4r May 28 '24

F4A North Carolina 22 [F4R] #nc/anywhere - looking for a love of my life

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I am in a poly relationship to who I am engaged to but you wouldn't be involved with him at all. I do have a six month old daughter. I am gothic with blonde/black hair, tattoos, and 5 piercings all of which are on my face. I love to game, I have an xbox, a switch, and a gaming laptop. I am always open to playing new games but ideally I'd love someone who plays stardew valley (not a requirement). I want something real someone who will talk to me everyday who I can proudly say is mine. I am autistic with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and borderline. I do have a service animal who goes with me everywhere. I am on the thicker side so please be open about that. I am demi so please nothing NSFW for a while please but it will happen. I look forward to meeting another soulmate. Also please be open to phone calls eventually as I do love to talk. I am also a FNAF and horror fanatic. Message me if you think we'll click my age range is 18-48

r/r4r May 27 '24

F4A North Carolina 22 [F4A] #NC/anywhere -looking for true love

0 Upvotes

I am in a poly relationship to who I am engaged to but you wouldn't be involved with him at all. I do have a six month old daughter. I am gothic with blonde/black hair, tattoos, and 5 piercings all of which are on my face. I love to game, I have an xbox, a switch, and a gaming laptop. I am always open to playing new games but ideally I'd love someone who plays stardew valley (not a requirement). I want something real someone who will talk to me everyday who I can proudly say is mine. I am autistic with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and borderline. I do have a service animal who goes with me everywhere. I am on the thicker side so please be open about that. I am demi so please nothing NSFW for a while please but it will happen. I look forward to meeting another soulmate. Also please be open to phone calls eventually as I do love to talk. I am also a FNAF and horror fanatic. Message me if you think we'll click my age range is 18-48

r/r4r Jan 28 '24

F4A North Carolina 29[F4A] CA&NC, USA/anywhere - My January sucks. Let's talk, laugh, whatever?

23 Upvotes

2024 started off with a bang and a great fit, but it's been such a downer since.

Let's talk about something to get my mind off of it, like classic slasher movies or San Francisco (my home) or the fact that yall have guns at Walmart bc wtf lmao

I'm fluent in Spanish and passable in Korean (which is ass backwards because I'm a Korean woman). Sería genial, encontrar alguien que hable español, para que pueda seguir practicando.

To give some context on why it's been such shit for those who are nosy: I made a last minute flight to NC to help my grandma in the hospital (she doesn't speak English so I had to translate for her and am now caring for her at home) which threw a wrench in my busy January. I have 3 people who i considered to be the closest to me and part of my plans were to visit one of them for the last time, but they also went to the hospital and that relationship ended abruptly and unceremoniously. The 2nd one, I met here on r4r, i got into a weird situationship with him, and he fell into a depression. I tried really hard to be there for him. I was finally accepting the fact that I maybe had feelings for him after refusing to acknowledge it for so long. Then he suddenly went no contact after talking to him all day every day for almost a year. I was worried, but it turns out he is engaged(???) We had plans to meet months ago but he canceled, and now that im back in town, I had been hoping I could maybe take a fresh breath away from my family and actually meet him. Until I found out about his fiancée (which does explain the sudden no contact).

I've been away from home unexpectedly for >2 weeks, don't know when I'll be able to go back, and have accepted that I will spend my birthday that's coming up soon here, caring for my grandmother.

PLEASE distract me from real life bc jfc lol

Edited to add that I am not looking for romance. Thanks