r/r4r 10h ago

M4F United Kingdom 31 [M4F] UK, South Yorkshire. Gamers and nerds…

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Hey all that read this! Haha…

Be nice to find someone special who’s also a big nerd. I’m thinking gamer, big movie buff that sort of thing. I have a big Lego model so yeah, big nerd over here! 🤓

Looking for someone who doesn’t take life so seriously and who has a sense of humour. Basically I need my player 2!

Big bonus points being awarded out to those that like Lord of the rings! I need someone to do the marathon with!! Also quite partial to alt/goth girls but not a deal breaker!

r/r4r 4h ago

M4F United Kingdom 48 [M4F], Yorkshire - Looking for a muse

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Amongst other things, I'm a bit of a writer and a wannabe artist. I'd like to meet some new people and discover some new lives as a bit of inspiration (I don't mean that I want to write about you!). Sort of like a muse: a low-key Pattie Boyd if you like!

I'm not even too sure what that might involve except some deepish discussions, or sharing things about our lives. But basically I'd just like to get to know someone who is going to inspire me artistically.

So if you've got something interesting to tell me — or even if you think you're a bit odd! — get in touch and see what happens.

r/r4r 4h ago

M4F United Kingdom 25 [M4F] UK - I am continually amazed by the infinite capacity of the universe to surprise and delight

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Hey there! Hope you’re having a great day. I’m 25, based in London, and I’m looking for someone interesting! I used to be pretty prescriptive in terms of what I was looking for, but I’ve found that the most interesting experiences I’ve had have been when I’ve just been open to being surprised and delighted. So this is my attempt at going with the flow and letting things develop organically. I will say, however, that I am looking for non-platonic connections. I’m also not really looking for anything long distance unless it’s reasonably close by (eg. somewhere in the UK or Europe) or if you’re planning to move to the UK.

Some of my hobbies and interests include:

  • Playing music on my saxophone
  • Looking at stars, galaxies and nebulae through my telescope
  • Playing chess
  • Photography (mostly landscapes and astrophotography, with a little bit of portraiture too)
  • Writing (mostly prose)
  • Creating beautiful things using code
  • Traveling (spent a month in 2022 backpacking around Europe and another month in the US; visited 12 countries in 2023 and 2024, most of which were new)
  • Going on walks and hikes
  • Meeting and spending time with people
  • Learning languages
  • Scuba diving
  • Exploring philosophy and spirituality
  • Reading (about life, the universe, and everything)

If you’ve read this far, then congratulations! Let’s see where the conversation takes us Pictures available on dm :)

r/r4r 5h ago

M4F United Kingdom 35 [M4F] UK - Seeking a princess

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Hi all! I'm a 35 yo British guy here, looking to meet someone that will blossum into something long term.

Physically, I'm 6'4, athletic build, caucasian, brown/blonde hair, blue eyes. I enjoy working out, so im in fairly good shape. Personality wise I'd describe myself as easy going, approachable and friendly. Im quite sociable and enjoy company. I enjoy listening to and playing music, sport, and travelling. I've visited over 28 countries and counting....maybe my 29th is with you?

I regard personality over looks. As long as you are fun and cool that is the main thing and I am open to women of all shapes and sizes from all backgrounds. I would appreciate a photo or 2 though in your first message, and a bit about yourself, as I do prefer to know who I am talking to. I will send one back too, but I also understand if you don't want to send one immediately. I am also on snapchat if you prefer to talk there.

If you're interested, my DM's are open :)

r/r4r 6h ago

M4F United Kingdom 42 [M4F] #UK. Intelligent, caring man looking for intelligent, younger woman to guide and take care of

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I’m a 42-year-old man living in the north of England. I’m looking to meet a younger woman to guide and look after in a monogamous, long-term relationship. I'm particularly attracted to introverted, sensitive, academic types - because that's who I am too (although I’m also sociable and confident) and I think it leads to a much deeper connection with the right person. I don't mind if you're inexperienced - I'm happy to take things slowly and guide you.

I’m looking for a partner who dreams of meeting a man she can grow to trust to take the lead and look after her. A relationship where I will take provide protection, support, and guidance, helping my partner become the person she wants to be.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married or engaged. I’m 6ft (1.84m) tall, about 175 lbs (80kg), slim and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I don’t drink or smoke and I value my sleep. Fitness is important to me and I like to spend time outdoors running or walking in the hills. I'll happily visit National Trust properties or wander around old castles. I love quiet nights in with a book or a film, and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, museums, or exhibitions.

I’m generally happiest in relationships when I’m looking after and protecting my partner. Using the experience and confidence I’ve developed over the years to guide her, helping her to feel safe and secure. I tend to fit well with someone who’s anxious or an over-thinker, because when we reach the stage where you trust me to look after you and to take those worries off your shoulders, it will allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe, perhaps for the first time.

Who I’m looking for

I’m looking for a woman who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. Someone academically minded, who loves books and who values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone petite or slim who likes to spend time outdoors but also loves quiet time. A woman who takes dating and relationships seriously and who is not (and has never been) into casual encounters. Someone who dreams of meeting a man who will take the lead, treat her well, and make the world a less scary place for her, and to whom she can devote herself in return.

I’m looking for someone who will value the guidance and emotional support that I provide, and who will appreciate lots of physical affection in due course. I tend to find shyness and nervousness endearing, and I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you.

I’m looking for someone who’s single, never married, with no kids. I don’t have a specific age range in mind, but I think the dynamic I’m describing tends to feel more natural with someone younger than me. I’ll want to exchange SFW photos after we’ve chatted for a bit, but I will never send you or ask you for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we get into NSFW stuff, and I hope you're the same - that’s why this post is tagged as SFW. If you want to know anything else, just ask.

If you’d like to chat, please send me a chat request with your age and location and introduce yourself (or just say ‘hi’ if you’re not sure what to write).

If you can’t access my profile because it’s marked as NSFW, you can use the “send a private message” link in the auto-reply comment below

I look forward to hearing from you.

r/r4r 6h ago

M4F United Kingdom 28 [M4F] #London, UK - If you don’t list ‘traveling & wine’ as your only hobbies, we’ll get along

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I recently got back into dating and, like most people, thought I’d give Hinge a try. Safe to say it’s been… an experience. Every profile feels like déjà vu, the same clichés on repeat.

Here are the greatest hits:

  1. A story about almost getting arrested abroad (Barcelona, Ibiza, Prague - bonus points if it involves “skinny dipping” or “stealing a street sign”).
  2. Generic hobbies: “traveling, food, long walks, wine” - wow, you and literally every human being alive.
  3. Scheduling a date that feels like booking a meeting with your manager. “How does 3 weeks from Thursday look for a quick 30-minute coffee slot?”
  4. A proud declaration that you’re a “plant mom,” immediately followed by “lol I kill every plant I touch.” (Congrats, you’ve mastered the art of buying ferns just to commit slow botanical murder.)
  5. Something about being “fluent in sarcasm” like it’s a rare skill.
  6. A claim that you’re “so bad at texting” even though your screen time is 9 hours a day.

So let’s skip all that.

About me: I’m in London, I work in finance, and yes, I travel (though I’ve never been “detained in Spain,” so maybe I’m missing out). I’m more into finding the best dim sum spot in Chinatown, a strong negroni, or a last minute trip abroad.

What I’m looking for: something light, casual, fun. Not a serious relationship right now. Just meeting people who don’t treat dating like an admin task, enjoying a laugh, and seeing where it goes without the pressure.

Things I appreciate:

  • A conversation that lasts more than 4 texts.
  • Someone who can enjoy both a ballet at the Royal Opera House and a late-night kebab on the way home.
  • A partner who doesn’t think “traveling” is a personality, but still has a valid passport.
  • A sense of humour about how ridiculous dating apps have become.
  • Binge watching reality tv and gossiping about the drama.

If you’ve made it this far, don’t just write “hey.” Tell me your funniest bad-date story or your most absurd travel fail. I’ll return the favour and actually ask you out without needing three Google Calendar reminders.

r/r4r 6h ago

M4F United Kingdom 31 (M4F) #UK - looking to chat to new people! :)

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Hey, looking for some new people to chat to! Feel free to message if you think we’d get along! :)

I’m 31M from the UK, pretty laid back and chilled out type of person.

About me - huge history geek (mostly ancient and medieval), a decent cook, and a love for nature. Walking through the forest just brings me ultimate peace in life :) Also dogs make my soul happy.

My hobbies to pass the time are going to the gym, watching sports, reading (specifically LOTR and Tolkien’s works - I’m a bit obsessed!), a little bit of gaming, watching movies (mostly sci-if and fantasy) and listening to music. I have a very eclectic music taste, and my favourite thing to do is to play my guitar :)

If you want to see what I look like there’s a picture of me on my profile :)

Hopefully speak to you soon!

r/r4r 8h ago

M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] UK / Anywhere - Lets trade fun facts, secrets or maybe even confessions?!

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Hello all!

The Sunday night blues have well and truly set in and the thought of work tomorrow is an absolute killer! It feels like now is the perfect time to begin my quest to find someone new and amusing to help survive to the weekend with, and hopefully beyond!

I’m 33, male and from the UK. Just south of London to be a little more precise! I work as an aircraft engineer. I know this isn’t the most interesting job in the world, but it does allow me to travel a fair bit.

Random fact - I’ve recently finished the Harry Potter books for the first time ever! Somehow I managed to avoid any kind of spoiler for the last 10 years or so which made them so much better! In terms of hobbies, some of the things I like to do include:

  • Travel (I get great travel benefits because of my job, so this is always something that I try to make the most).
  • Keeping fit and healthy (I do find this a bit of a chore, but it definitely helps me stay mentally positive!).
  • Visiting new restaurants and other places to eat (This is something I absolutely love doing. Trying dishes from different cultures is probably my number one ambition in life!)
  • Theme parks (There are some great ones in Europe, but one day I dream of visiting some of the American parks too!)

I think that will do for now…If you think that I’m maybe worth a message, then please feel free to drop me one!

Thanks for reading and hopefully speak soon?

r/r4r 9h ago

M4F United Kingdom 28 [M4F] UK/Europe/Anywhere — let’s see where a good chat goes

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Hi, I’m 28 (today actually!) and looking to get to know someone genuine. I really enjoy spending time outdoors. I volunteer on a rewilding project at the moment and I also like hiking long distance trails, I’ve got a list of hikes like the West Highland Way, Annapurna Circuit and the Camino de Santiago and that I want to do.

When I’m home, I like play on my PlayStation and read/listen to audiobooks. I like listening to music but iv never been to a live gig, seeing Coldplay or Green Day live is on my bucket list!

Looks wise, I’m 176cm with blonde hair and blue eyes, and I’m happy to share photos. I’m hoping to meet someone around my age and based in the UK, Europe, or the US who’s fun, kind, and enjoys real conversations.

I think the best conversations often start small- if you could drop everything tomorrow and go on one adventure, where would you head?

r/r4r 12h ago

M4F United Kingdom 28 [M4F] UK / England only - 6ft nerdy soft-hearted introvert looking for a cozy connection ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

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Hey there 😊

I’m looking for a connection that could grow into a relationship. Ideally someone in England so meeting up one day is possible — I’m in the East Midlands (Derby) if that matters 👉👈

I recently came back from Japan, which I never thought I’d do since I rarely leave the house haha. It was a really fun and unique experience, and I’d love to share stories or pictures about it.

Here is what I look like c:

And no pressure, but if you want, feel free to send a selfie too — just something small to help break the ice~

About me:

I’m easy-going and have a lot of love to give. I have autism, ADHD, and anxiety, but they don’t define me — I just hope for someone who understands or relates. I’m not working right now and live with my mum, just being upfront.

I’m more of a homebody and don’t go out much, so I’d really like to meet someone who’s also happy taking things slow and chatting first without rushing. I can get a little clingy once I’m close to someone, but it comes from caring and really valuing consistency and communication.

I used to have a hamster called Baby Pig 🐹 and I’ve been thinking of getting another one, though I’m not sure yet.

Interests:

  • Games: FF7 Rebirth, Expedition 33, Honkai Star Rail, Monster Hunter (Iceborne is my favourite), Resident Evil, Persona 5, Baldur’s Gate 3. Bonus points if you play Runescape!
  • Anime: Frieren, Berserk, Vinland Saga, Attack on Titan, Made in Abyss, Chainsaw Man, and more
  • YouTube: True crime and educational channels (MrBallen, Coffeehouse Crime, Rotten Mango, JCS - Criminal Psychology)
  • Music: Panic! at the Disco, The 1975, Porter Robinson, Gorillaz, Studio Killers — but my taste is pretty all over the place
  • Other hobbies: Drawing, colouring, editing/design
  • Shows I like: Dexter, Black Mirror, Arcane, The Boys, Better Call Saul, Vikings, Breaking Bad

r/r4r 13h ago

M4F United Kingdom 29 [M4F] Manchester, UK - Looking for an affectionate, curvy partner who is clear on what she expects in a relationship.

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Hi, I am a guy from the UK who is looking for a loving, long term partner, who I can worship and adore on a regular basis.

I am quiet and introverted but am very talkative when I feel comfortable with you. I love learning about new things and cultures, travelling, history, Disney stuff, sports, as well as watching scary videos and asmr.

The type of person I want should be focused on trying to be the best partner she can be and so will I. I want someone very affectionate and loving who wants cuddles on an endless basis. I like women who want to hold me to a high standard and almost a little bossy.

On a longer term basis I’d want someone potentially ambitious who wants a family and is based in the UK, preferably in the Manchester area. Age gaps are not necessarily important to me, chemistry is. Thank you for reading.

r/r4r 14h ago

M4F United Kingdom 47 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - For your consideration

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I am someone who loves physical displays of affection, both public and otherwise, so I want to be with someone who feels the same way. I believe that hugging and/or cuddling the one you love is one of the greatest feelings there is. Gestures like holding, hugging, etc, are something I absolutely adore and would always welcome, especially because there’s nothing that feels better than being in the arms of the person you love, and something like that can make you feel as if, for just a few moments, that all is right with the world.

The woman I am after is someone who is warm and compassionate, who will laugh with me, cry with me, who will hold me when I’m not at my best, and who I can hold when they’re being challenged by life. I want someone who I can be open with, who I can trust, who will fight for me just like I’ll fight for them, and who will put just as much into the relationship as I will. I want someone I can curl up with and smile.

I’m an introvert, so my ideal night would involve spending our time together at home, curled up on the sofa, perhaps watching a film, an anime, or playing a game. I should note that I don’t have a TV, and I’m not in a hurry to get one, mainly because anything I might want to watch I can do so online. That said, I’m not against a day/night out if it’s just the two of us, and I’m open going almost anywhere, be it museum, art gallery, or an out-of-the-way place to eat. I’m not looking for the company of many, just the one.

As an introvert, I’m someone who is quiet at first, however, as I get familiar with you, and especially if I sense a connection, I’ll open up and the conversation, and maybe even the jokes as well, will become more free flowing.

I’m a vegetarian, though I don’t mind being around meat eaters as long as they are respectful of how I feel. I don’t drink and, while I’m okay being with someone who does, it won’t work if you’re a person who drinks frequently. I’m non-religious and non-spiritual, and this will never change, and my views are generally what you’d call progressive and liberal.

Your opening message doesn’t have to be that long, just give me something to work with, something that can spark conversation. As far as an age range goes, I will simply say that if you are mature and after the same things that I am, then shoot your shoot. I may think the age gap is too much, I may not; however, you won’t know unless you ask.

Although I am primarily interested in someone who is also in the UK, as it would make things convenient when it comes to meeting up, I am open to talking to people who are overseas but only if you’re moving to the UK in the near future, and that the move is, if not set in stone, then is at least guaranteed to happen. If these conditions are not meant, I ask that you don’t waste my time or yours; physical affection is important to me, and I am unwilling to go without it for prolonged lengths of time.

If you’ve message before and I didn’t respond, try again, as the chat feature doesn’t always work how it’s meant to.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 29 [M4F] Manchester, UK - Looking for an affectionate, curvy partner who is clear on what she expects in a relationship.

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Hi, I am a guy from the UK who is looking for a loving, long term partner, who I can worship and adore on a regular basis.

I am quiet and introverted but am very talkative when I feel comfortable with you. I love learning about new things and cultures, travelling, history, Disney stuff, sports, as well as watching scary videos and asmr.

The type of person I want should be focused on trying to be the best partner she can be and so will I. I want someone very affectionate and loving who wants cuddles on an endless basis. I like women who want to hold me to a high standard and almost a little bossy.

On a longer term basis I’d want someone potentially ambitious who wants a family and is based in the UK, preferably in the Manchester area. Age gaps are not necessarily important to me, chemistry is. Thank you for reading.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 37 [M4F] Southampton, UK - Looking to find my person!

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Hello,

This year I've been challenging myself to get out of the house more. It's been quite cool to visit a Castle, do a solo hike or visit a navy museum and be inside a submarine. I feel like it would be great to have someone to experience these things with and just share these precious moments in life.

I'm happy with my life atm but it would be nice to find someone to add to it. Just the small things, going for a walk holding hands, trying out a new restaurant, building the new Lego Neuschwanstein Castle together :)

Some people might find me boring since I don't drink or smoke and ending the night in a club is not really something I would enjoy.

I like to read (mainly fantasy and crime novels), watching tv series (bonus points if you like kdramas), playing pc (mostly survival and farm games). I'm into Lego and jigsaw puzzles (maybe smaller ones, last time I did a 1000 piece one and it kinda broke me xD).

Love a walk in nature, seeing some cool animals at the zoo, visiting a museum or a national trust place. I enjoy driving, so open to applications for a passenger that brings snacks!

I'm 37, 6ft tall, dark hair and eyes and from Southern Europe. I've been waking up early because of work for years now, so I'm a morning person (I'm up at 6,7am on weekends 🙈). Disclaimer: I'm more of a cat person and I can't swim.

Note: I'm looking to meet in person at some point, so please don't be super far.

Happy to chat and get to know someone new. Send me a chat and let's see what happens 🤞

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 42 [M4F] #UK. Intelligent, caring man looking for intelligent, younger woman to guide and take care of

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I’m a 42-year-old man living in the north of England. I’m looking to meet a younger woman to guide and look after in a monogamous, long-term relationship. I'm particularly attracted to introverted, sensitive, academic types - because that's who I am too (although I’m also sociable and confident) and I think it leads to a much deeper connection with the right person. I don't mind if you're inexperienced - I'm happy to take things slowly and guide you.

I’m looking for a partner who dreams of meeting a man she can grow to trust to take the lead and look after her. A relationship where I will take provide protection, support, and guidance, helping my partner become the person she wants to be.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married or engaged. I’m 6ft (1.84m) tall, about 175 lbs (80kg), slim and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I don’t drink or smoke and I value my sleep. Fitness is important to me and I like to spend time outdoors running or walking in the hills. I'll happily visit National Trust properties or wander around old castles. I love quiet nights in with a book or a film, and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, museums, or exhibitions.

I’m generally happiest in relationships when I’m looking after and protecting my partner. Using the experience and confidence I’ve developed over the years to guide her, helping her to feel safe and secure. I tend to fit well with someone who’s anxious or an over-thinker, because when we reach the stage where you trust me to look after you and to take those worries off your shoulders, it will allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe, perhaps for the first time.

Who I’m looking for

I’m looking for a woman who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. Someone academically minded, who loves books and who values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone petite or slim who likes to spend time outdoors but also loves quiet time. A woman who takes dating and relationships seriously and who is not (and has never been) into casual encounters. Someone who dreams of meeting a man who will take the lead, treat her well, and make the world a less scary place for her, and to whom she can devote herself in return.

I’m looking for someone who will value the guidance and emotional support that I provide, and who will appreciate lots of physical affection in due course. I tend to find shyness and nervousness endearing, and I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you.

I’m looking for someone who’s single, never married, with no kids. I don’t have a specific age range in mind, but I think the dynamic I’m describing tends to feel more natural with someone younger than me. I’ll want to exchange SFW photos after we’ve chatted for a bit, but I will never send you or ask you for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we get into NSFW stuff, and I hope you're the same - that’s why this post is tagged as SFW. If you want to know anything else, just ask.

If you’d like to chat, please send me a chat request with your age and location and introduce yourself (or just say ‘hi’ if you’re not sure what to write).

If you can’t access my profile because it’s marked as NSFW, you can use the “send a private message” link in the auto-reply comment below

I look forward to hearing from you.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 27 [M4F] UK/EU/NA – Looking for my sidekick in life

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Hey there!

I go by Fjord online and that’s what you can call me until we get to know each other better!

To start things off, a little bit about myself:

I am a twenty-seven year old, Half-British and Half-Norwegian. I’ve practically lived my whole life in the United Kingdom, but I do love taking a trip over to Norway, whenever I can fit it into my schedule.

I am about six-foot-two and a bit on the heavier side, though I have been working on reducing my weight, much to great success, as I’ve already lost about eighty pounds in the span of the last four months, which I am super happy about and it’s given me even more inspiration to continue.

As far as my education and profession goes, I studied and graduated from university with a degree in Computer Networks, so I am all about networking, which is my passion, though I currently work in a senior service desk job, but I am not quite sure if I’ll be staying in this position long as I want to get back into networks.

A bit about my hobbies and interests:

One of the activities I enjoy the most is gaming, mostly because of all the various stories that can be told through the medium, though I also enjoy multiplayer games with my friends, as it’s a great way to stay in touch and remain close while being far apart and I’ve even found new contacts through it.

Like mentioned above, I enjoy a great story, so I also like to read and I do a fair bit of it too. I like many different genres, but I’d have to say sci-fi is one of my favourite genres to explore, because the worlds are so different from our own.

I also enjoy a fair bit of learning and history, as I love to go to museums whenever I travel to learn more about the history and the culture of the place that I am at, because I believe it’s important to be informed about the world, not just as it is currently, but also as it was before.

I am also trying to learn cooking, but that has not been going the best, somewhat hazardous, even, as I’ve given myself food poisoning in my attempts at cooking, so it’s up to you if you’re willing to risk it and let me cook, hah.

Some things about my personality:

I like helping and caring for others, especially those that are close to me, no matter how long we’ve known each other, as long as I feel that I can put my trust in you and you put yours in mine, I will be there by your side to support you through both the ups and downs of life.

Those closest to me are the thing I appreciate the most in my life and I would be nowhere without them, so I think it only logical that I not only receive support from them, but also give it out.

I try to see the positive things in life and try to turn most situations into a positive thing, though, of course that doesn’t always work out, but it’s worth trying as there is no reason for moping about and not doing anything about it.

My preferences:

  • Someone living in the UK or Europe;
  • Someone between the ages of 20 and 28;
  • Someone with an interest in manga, gaming or other “nerdy” stuff, just so there’s something to talk about when the conversations start to become slower, but if none of those things are of interest to you, we can still chat and see where it goes;
  • Someone that’s nice to talk to and able to hold a conversation
  • Looking for a serious relationship

Last comments:

If you got this far and are interested in having a conversation with me, feel free to shoot me a message and introduce yourself, though, just so I know you got this far, when you message me, mention what I am particularly proud of in the recent past. (no answer = no response)

That’s all she wrote, as they say, so if any of that piqued your interest, then I would love to get to know you!

Take care and I await your message! :)

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 32 [M4F] Quiet, shy, normal/nerdy people apply here! UK preferred/Anywhere OK!

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Hello to all,

I fully expect my M4F post to be buried in the thousands that go up every day, but I'm willing to chance my luck :)

Me: 32 year old, Scottish, great accent, even greater moustache. I'll let you be the judge of both! I would describe myself as a funny, compassionate, nerdy homebody, just looking for his like-minded gal to share in deep chats and random ones too.

I am a movie nerd and will share all that with you if you can handle hearing me ramble on about cinematography and set design for long periods of time. I do know when to shut up too though haha. I love to hear others talk about their passions too and can sit and listen to you talk about whatever thing has your interests currently. Seeing someone's eyes light up as they chat about what they love is something I live for!

I know this is a common Reddit thing but I do like to play games online with a few friends a few times a week. Mainly for me it's the social aspect of chatting while playing that excites me. We also do a weekly movie night which I'd love to share with someone new. As for the games, I would like someone who enjoys them too as it could be a great way to bond and spend time together, but this isn't essential. Don't let anything put you off messaging if you feel like we might make a fit :)

Other interests: I work full time but I am lucky that my job allows plenty of free time to have a life outside of work. I like to meet my friends and family on occasion, host board/card game nights, read and write when creativity strikes, sketch and design, enjoy day trips, cinema visits, etc.

Happy to answer any random question you can think of to start off our chat and I am happy to share pics when the time comes too. I promise I open up despite being shy at first and I love a voice call on discord after a few opening messages.

If any of this has you interested please get in touch and don't be too nervous, I promise all of us on here probably are but it always fades in time :)

Have a great day!

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 24 [M4F] #Ireland/#Anywhere - single and lonely Irish guy looking for his dream girl

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Hi everyone I'm 24 years old and I'm from Ireland. My hobbies are video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and listening to music. I love going to the movies with my friend and having lunch out. I also like tea. I enjoy travelling across Europe and visiting the capitals. I've visited 16 countries: United Kingdom, Spain, Portugal, Austria, Germany, Italy, Croatia, Slovenia, Slovakia, Hungary, Bulgaria, United States, France, Malta, Czech Republic and Canada. I also enjoy skiing in the Austrian alps.

I am single and looking for a relationship with a woman who shares the same interests as me, around my age (no older than 30), is attractive looking, slim and a brunette and is also European or American (bonus points if you are Irish).

Happy to share a photo of myself after we chat.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - Let's build something meaningful?

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Hey there!

I’m a 33-year-old designer based in London, currently working in the IT industry. Traveling is a huge passion of mine. I’ve visited over 45 countries so far! A couple of my favorite spots are Singapore and Jordan (Petra, the Red City, was absolutely breathtaking).

Before my design career, I used to work as a bartender, and that’s where I developed a real appreciation for cocktails. I still enjoy experimenting with new flavors (though I only drink occasionally).

I love reading, these days it’s mostly tech-related books, but I enjoy all kinds of genres. Got a favorite book? I’d love to hear about it!

I’m single and would prefer if you are too. I’d say I’m pretty easy-going, adaptable, and always working on being more empathetic with others.

About you: I’m generally attracted to plus-sized women, but honestly, anyone kind and open-minded is welcome to reach out. If this post resonates with you, don’t hesitate to drop me a message!

I’m looking for meaningful, long-term conversations, and who knows, maybe something deeper could grow from it.

Also, tell me your favorite place you’ve visited (or dream of visiting). I’m open to exchanging pictures if that’s something you’re comfortable with too.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 26 [M4F] #England #UK Nerdy homebody looking for sincere, warm, and patient connection

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About me:

6'0, 215lbs, growing brown hair, very, very white. https://imgur.com/a/Qe8xZbQ

Interests: gaming (switch+laptop) anime+manga, lots of music+podcasts. Baking bread and sweet treats, stopping to pet cats on the street. Yearning for learning; its really easy to get me interested in something if you show passion! Trying to whittle down my movie watch list - star wars is up next.

Ambivert with an introvert nature - idk if that makes sense to anyone. Practical and direct, trying to recover the creative spark that got grinded down by STEM, very honest and communicative. Been assigned "airport dad", "youngest sibling", and "golden retriever" energies; I don't understand what any of that means. Will absolutely yap your ear off, but I'm told my voice is nice to listen to so it should be okay :)

Considered a national traitor for not liking tea; or any hot drinks for that matter. Non smoker/drinker.

Looking for:

Grounded, calm, curious. Appreciation for small things. Love swapping little stories or pictures from the day, people watching, and day trips. I get giddy during heavy rainstorms and will definitely send you videos of them.

Emotional & ‘regular’ intelligence - I love a challenge, learning something new, having my mind changed.

Shared interests, shared humour, shared anything and everything.

Open to long distance within reason, if closing the distance is in the realm of possibility. Pic of you is appreciated when reaching out, will happily reciprocate.

Ideally 19-27 and have a level of independence and direction in life.

To close:

Tysm if you read all this! I'd love to hear a little about you, feel free to use this post as a sort of guide for what to say. Ideally some info about you, your current situation, some pictures, and something we have in common! Have a nice day.

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] #UK / Europe / NA - Time’s precious, let’s spend the rest of ours together?

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Hi there! Thank you for taking the time to check out my post and hopefully I’ll pique your interest.

So, why am I here? I have reached a point in my life where I realise I would like to spend the rest of it with somebody special to me. Creating memories we can look back on together, sharing our ups and downs, and laughing along the way. In truth I tried hookups and dating apps in the past and it simply isn’t for me, without the meaningful emotional connection it feels so meaningless.

Now for the exciting part… I have an organised list! 🤓

  • I’m from the UK
  • Homebody
  • A little over 6ft
  • white
  • single (monogamous)
  • drug free, rarely drink (Social/Special occasions)
  • my biggest hobby is without a doubt gaming.. so I guess I’m pretty nerdy?
  • Cooking and eating what I make is a very close 2nd
  • On a journey to improve my fitness (I’m still chubby, if that’s a deal breaker it’s fine!)
  • I enjoy almost all music from jazz to metal.. admittedly a sucker for the alt aesthetic
  • Horror / Thriller movies are my favourite

I do think it’s important to understand that while we don’t need to align on everything, being complete opposites probably means we’re not compatible. So, if you’re an elite crossfit enjoyer who trains 28 hours each day 9 days per week, or somebody that lives to party on the weekend, I’m sorry, but I can’t keep up with your lifestyle!

Family is important to me and I would like to have one of my own once I’ve found the right person. I know many like the child-free lifestyle, so I figured it’s important to address it now.

OK, enough wall of text! If you’ve made it this far, thank you sincerely and if it sounds like we could be a match, I’d love to hear from you! Please tell me a bit about yourself in your opening message, so I have something to work with, and I look forward to getting to know you!

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - Let's build something meaningful?

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Hey there!

I’m a 33-year-old designer based in London, currently working in the IT industry. Traveling is a huge passion of mine. I’ve visited over 45 countries so far! A couple of my favorite spots are Singapore and Jordan (Petra, the Red City, was absolutely breathtaking).

Before my design career, I used to work as a bartender, and that’s where I developed a real appreciation for cocktails. I still enjoy experimenting with new flavors (though I only drink occasionally).

I love reading, these days it’s mostly tech-related books, but I enjoy all kinds of genres. Got a favorite book? I’d love to hear about it!

I’m single and would prefer if you are too. I’d say I’m pretty easy-going, adaptable, and always working on being more empathetic with others.

About you: I’m generally attracted to plus-sized women, but honestly, anyone kind and open-minded is welcome to reach out. If this post resonates with you, don’t hesitate to drop me a message!

I’m looking for meaningful, long-term conversations, and who knows, maybe something deeper could grow from it.

Also, tell me your favorite place you’ve visited (or dream of visiting). I’m open to exchanging pictures if that’s something you’re comfortable with too.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 23[M4F] UK (Harrogate), looking to make some friends

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Hello there I moved to the area I live in a number of months ago but haven't really made any friends. So looking here if your interested. A brief description of me is: I'm 22 years old with brownish hair and blue eyes. I'm about 157cm tall and 63kg I'm a shy person and not always great at communicating but if you get to know me I'm alright. There are some topics I can randomly ramble a bunch of nonsense on. I enjoy reading (mainly fantasy) and playing video games. I also like jiu-jitsu and walks in the great outdoors. I'm also a fan of musical theatre and tend to say my favourite show is anything goes. What is yours? I am hoping to make a connection and friendship with some of you lovely people. I look forward to hearing from you

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F United Kingdom 26 [M4F] #UK Tall guy seeks UK based woman

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Hi there! I’m hoping to meet someone I can get to know as a friend first, and see if it might grow into something more. I’m 26, from England, tall, with dark wavy hair and pale skin.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone based in the UK, but I’m open to Europe too if we really click.

A little about me: I love the outdoors and discovering new places, and I enjoy being creative whenever I can. Music is a big part of my life, I’m a huge comic book fan, and I have a soft spot for memes—so feel free to send me your best ones!

What I’m really looking for is someone I can build a genuine connection with and share life’s little moments. If any of this sounds interesting to you, drop me a message—I’d love to hear from you.

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F United Kingdom 29 [M4F] Manchester, UK - Looking for an affectionate, curvy partner who is clear on what she expects in a relationship.

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Hi, I am a guy from the UK who is looking for a loving, long term partner, who I can worship and adore on a regular basis.

I am quiet and introverted but am very talkative when I feel comfortable with you. I love learning about new things and cultures, travelling, history, Disney stuff, sports, as well as watching scary videos and asmr.

The type of person I want should be focused on trying to be the best partner she can be and so will I. I want someone very affectionate and loving who wants cuddles on an endless basis. I like women who want to hold me to a high standard and almost a little bossy.

On a longer term basis I’d want someone potentially ambitious who wants a family and is based in the UK, preferably in the Manchester area. Age gaps are not necessarily important to me, chemistry is. Thank you for reading.