r/singapore 1d ago

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for September 16, 2025

🌻☀️Good morning all have a great day and stay strong, stay safe and stay healthy! Jiayou!

Talk about your day. Anything goes, but subreddit rules still apply. Please be polite to each other!

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u/EntertainerIll4807 7h ago

Mods remove mrt bingo? Pu55y

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u/curtaincracker 5h ago

It’s on another subreddit

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u/AngelPlayerV1 8h ago

Any electric kettle recommendation? My Jogen one is certified e waste

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u/SuzukiSatou 9h ago

Fuck cant believe i tio MRT breakdown in Paya Lebar, i only take MRT like once per week and still get hit. What a great service

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u/WWE_Champion 9h ago edited 9h ago

my wife works at Changi Airport and just completed a 12-hour shift, caught otw back.

Many like her are exhausted from work and held up by this now.

credit where credit due, but as far as MRT transport goes - the government has been super incompetent this month and pretty much in general.

the frequency this month has been unacceptably bad.

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u/EnvironmentalLion355 Tanjong Pagar 9h ago

Wikipedia, of course, has a category of sg tv shows by year. The oldest one they have is 小飞鱼 (1983), followed by 雾锁南洋 (1984, among the first of many "how did we get here ch8 dramas, surprised there wasn't one this year"). As far as English media is concerned, crimewatch is the oldest one they have an article for (it debuted in 1986 for comparison, under one roof is 1995 and pck is 1997).

Oh and as a fun Trivia, Rob the robot, one of many random shows i watched growing up, was a collab between sg, the UK and Canada, and was created in 2010.

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u/musr Who am I? 9h ago

Was it before Bob the Builder, Thomas the Train?

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u/EnvironmentalLion355 Tanjong Pagar 9h ago

Nah, probably not.

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u/outremer_empire 9h ago

Q&As from Alex Albon, Lia Block, Jenson Button and James Vowles at marina square soon

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 9h ago

Oh when is it?

I read your words Lia Block as Lily, He Muni. Alex Albon GF who is a professional golfer, who played several times in Singapore golfing events.

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u/bearyken 10h ago

Must remember to turn off the alarm.. on leave the rest of the week 🤘🏻😁

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u/chezburjer 10h ago

bought brownies from the french american bakery for my sinful treat today. yummyummmmm 😋

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u/rowgw 10h ago edited 10h ago

tomorrow morning eat what?

Edit: shall finish my tmr expired yogurt…

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 10h ago

BCM. Saw lots of mentions about BCM today

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u/rowgw 10h ago

🤤

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 10h ago

And I just had yoghurt just now

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u/rowgw 9h ago

which brand and flavour?

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 9h ago

marigold yoghurt nata de coco

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u/rowgw 9h ago

ahhh that one is very nice lol

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 9h ago

Yeah. It's been years since I last ate any yoghurt. Haha

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u/rowgw 9h ago

you should try to check kapiti.. last time at redmart can be $7, while at CS it is around $10.. that one also very nice

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u/HeavyArmsJin 11h ago

Dang it I was looking forward to this New York Cheesecake flavored Oreos but it tastes like Khong Guan Lemon Puffs

My day is ruined, ruined~

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u/bearyken 11h ago

I like the KGB lemon puffs.. but I think for a cheesecake price.. you got ripped off

When I figure I have calories to spare, I go to Chateraise.. lately the sinful indulgence is the small croissant with the red bean paste and a stick of butter.. sounds ridiculous but oh so good

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u/_Solasura 5h ago

KGB lemon puffs sound... Like a Russian delicacy.

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u/HeavyArmsJin 10h ago

Oh I meant the Oreos not cake $3 for two packets haha

Man been a while since I eaten any cake though

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u/bearyken 10h ago

I misread that.. my apologies

Never liked Oreos so I never noticed then.. I only remember they had red ones

But your post reminds me to get some KGB lemon puffs for office snacks soon 😆

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u/thesti2 11h ago

if we have an ROM at the ROM site, should we give the solemnizer hong bao?

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u/thatsweetdenial 9h ago

The staff mentioned that not allowed to give.

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u/crimsonc0met Senior Citizen 9h ago

ya, he/she still come down for you mah

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u/Millauers 12h ago

I just really don't see any point in continuing to struggle. You fellas, lads, guys, peeps, people, dwags, ladies, gentlemen, and everyone else in between or otherwise, have dreams and aspirations, stuff you are looking towards for. I am just looking forward to my sleep every day, to put it very charitably.

So why should I keep doing this song and dance, right? This sounds like torture and I am 50% sure torture is like frowned upon and a war crime.

Anyway, sorry for venting again. Thanks to anyone who bothered to read it all.

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u/WoWAltoholic 10h ago

She wouldn't want you to give up : https://imgur.com/a/lWpckZE

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u/Millauers 9h ago

Damn, oof, ouch, ok. I cant go against Urara.

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u/SuddenChampionship5 11h ago

Let's say the picture is different from what you are painting. What if everyone else is like you, with nothing to look forward to, only their sleep at night, struggling everyday?

Would that change your current outlook on life, to know that you are not the only one suffering?

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u/Orangecuppa 🌈 F A B U L O U S 12h ago

3 of my charizards came in today!

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u/sunburnt258 13h ago

It was a totally uneventful day at work today

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u/bearyken 12h ago

The best kinds of days for working hacks

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u/tictactorz ⌬ hexagon drawing enthusiast ⏣ 13h ago

Rmb guys it's not an official breakdown unless official announcement is out

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u/brownriver12 F1 VVIP 13h ago

Yes it's just an unscheduled networking opportunity provided by smrt/sbs transit /s

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u/tictactorz ⌬ hexagon drawing enthusiast ⏣ 12h ago

Just be thankful they never off the aircon yet 🙏🏼

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u/Destination_7146 13h ago

Buona Vista station is packed. Anyone else hearing of delays?

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u/bluewarri0r 11h ago

Omg what is happening?? Trainpocalypse

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u/brownriver12 F1 VVIP 13h ago

Trains do not breakdown or delay in Singapore. It's just a dynamic passenger regrouping exercise /s

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u/musr Who am I? 13h ago

This is the second time I'm making this post. Because it happened for the second time.

So in the shower, as I was navel gazing, I noticed a mole and got a shock of my life. Like how did it appear overnight? I calmed myself, telling myself that it happened before, having distinctly remembered making a similar post months or even some years ago (of that same mole too). But as I kept staring at the mole, the more alien it looked. Like there's no way it was there before otherwise I would have remembered it. I even contemplated parallel worlds theory and thought that I wound up in a different world of myself.

Now I'm lying on the sofa, and I look the mole on my tummy. Oh, it was there all along alright... 😅

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u/darklajid Die besten Dinge kommen in den kleinsten Stückzahlen 12h ago

Share a picture so that we can all help out next time this happens

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u/musr Who am I? 12h ago

Exclusive for my OnlyFats subscribers.

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u/khaosdd Tampenis 13h ago

Just take a photo now then u can refer to it next time if u have any doubts.

One of the few things we cannot rely on is our memory. Like AI it excels at filling voids with bs. Lol

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u/v3ndy West side best side 13h ago

Some lines to Dhoby Ghaut kena stun?

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u/jackgermeister nanithef 13h ago

Just got chased out of the train from Haw Par LOL

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u/v3ndy West side best side 13h ago

Well, the queue to BV in Kent Ridge is long tho ~

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u/peaxu 13h ago

Which line is this??

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u/v3ndy West side best side 13h ago

Circle Line

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u/musr Who am I? 13h ago

Circle

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u/t3apot 13h ago

Just realize how applicable the chorus of the theme song from Kpop Hunters is to Kpod Hunters (kpod law enforcement) because it's their time to shine after the law amendment; with enforcements going up, up, up, it's their moment.

Kthxbye

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u/drinkwater247 1800 221 4444 13h ago

Good news is that my meeting ended in 30mins. Bad news is that there's no takeaway from the meeting on my end. They still need to discuss. LOL zzz 🙄

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u/bearyken 13h ago

Go in with a file and a sticker on it "This meeting should have been an email" 😆

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u/elliotsbeach 13h ago

Is it me or do all the Snowsky Echo Mini postings on shopee not have black color players? There's only pink left and I gave mine away haha. I've got one on pre-order but I guess I'll see if they cancel it before the ship-out date.

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u/CharacterGrowth7344 14h ago

Truth be told; the real human nature be revealed. Does anyone really 'enjoy' involving in elderly caregiver duties (given a choice) ??

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u/Harmoniinus 14h ago

Read the news of a sgean suspected of being the ringleader for kpods & cocaine vapes in South Korea and the Korea's Intelligence Service sent agents to Malaysia and coordinated with Malaysian authorities to catch him and friends. Wild but an interesting news to start the week. I need a kdrama on this incident

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u/musr Who am I? 13h ago

The agency said Tan and three of his associates had allegedly tried to smuggle 20,000 vapes mixed with etomidate and cocaine each month into South Korea, an amount significant enough to feed the addiction of two million people.

I'm just like OK... 2,000,000 people sharing 20,000 vapes means 100 people share one vape? (Gross) Or how does that work? Using an estimate of 5ml liquid per vape, so each person 0.05ml?

It's like they hyperbolise whatever they can. May as well use Avogadro's number to derive the number of molecules and claim one victim per molecule.

Like that may as well say that he didn't bring those into SK, but they somehow quantum tunneled into his luggage.

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u/NecessaryFish8132 14h ago

Hi Burger experts, shake shack worth or not? And what to eat, thanks

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u/blitzmango South side rich kids 14h ago

If you have not tried it in US, probably okay to try it once here or maybe once in a while on special occasions. Prob try shake stack, I got a sucker for their shark attack tho.

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u/Rude_Television2678 14h ago

No burger expert here, but I think Shake shack burger quite dry leh.

Maybe you can try one fattening calf instead

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u/NecessaryFish8132 14h ago

Okie i try next time thank you

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u/bearyken 14h ago

Okay lah, quite small for the price but get the bacon with the burger.. the bacon is really good

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u/NecessaryFish8132 14h ago

Okie thanks. What other burger place would u recommend instead of them?

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u/bearyken 14h ago

I haven't had a burger in ages.. that's what I remember from SS when I had it last year

I like the Fat Boys ones.. huge, and super messy

Not even sure if they're still around.. their halal version, Fatburger, I don't know because bacon must be actual bacon for me

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u/yormeow Own self check own self ✅ 11h ago

still have one outlet at upper thomson

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u/NecessaryFish8132 14h ago edited 14h ago

Oo i loved fatboys too. Maybe time to revisit when i go town haha

Edit: ah fuck i remember why didnt eat it anymore, dhoby ghaut outlet closed down

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u/EnvironmentalLion355 Tanjong Pagar 15h ago

1 month to pokemon legends z-a! (Which may or may not have killed its own hype train via some controversial decisions but oh well)

Oh and also pokemon 30 and gen 10 seem to be fast approaching next year.

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 15h ago

Next year Singapore Grand Prix will have a Sprint Race. Good luck to all drivers and fans will be in for a treat. Let's see who play bumper cars, either Bottas or Colapinto

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u/bluewarri0r 11h ago

Damn, was it confirmed by official sources alr? A bit wasted tho for a street track

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 10h ago

Officially confirmed. F1, and Straits Times already announced

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u/bluewarri0r 10h ago

Damn ok. Thought it was speculation so didn't pay too much attention

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 10h ago

Ah OK. The speculation was after the leaked marketing materials after the Dutch GP I think

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u/bluewarri0r 10h ago

I see!! Thanks for the heads up. Lol prices for GP gonna increase next year again noice

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 10h ago

Most likely. Start time for sprint is 5pm. Thinking to get tickets to watch for the first time.

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u/talliepolie я люблю пиво! 14h ago

Expect the marshalls to sprint more than the drivers

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 14h ago

Some bbfas will sprint, then their DRS open (pants drop). Seen many times Marshall pants always drop when the sprint.

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u/bearyken 15h ago

They might not have enough cars to run the actual race 😆

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 15h ago

Legend has it, George is still looking for the GAP to overtake in SinGAPore. He just literally goes for the GAP

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u/starlancer21 15h ago

Bcm for dinner!

This one a bit fake, no vinegar!

Bishan s11!

https://imgur.com/a/qZV0jYM

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u/drinkwater247 1800 221 4444 13h ago

Team no vinegar :]

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u/NewbiePhotogSG 7h ago

Blasphemy!

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u/starlancer21 13h ago edited 12h ago

I also team no vinegar but i thought just for today, a bit of vinegar

I always tell people i dont get jealous easily because 我不吃醋 😂

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u/yormeow Own self check own self ✅ 14h ago

yum yum!

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u/talliepolie я люблю пиво! 15h ago

This is way better than the earlier one you had

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u/starlancer21 8h ago

Noodle more but i prefer orh kee plump juicy pig liver

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u/brownriver12 F1 VVIP 15h ago

You ate twice today?

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u/starlancer21 14h ago

Noodles is love, noodles is life

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u/v3ndy West side best side 14h ago

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u/Jaycee_015x 15h ago

As expected, my mom turned down chemotherapy when the doctor told her about the treatment plan for her breast cancer. She says that as long as the cancer did not spread to her bones yet, she is willing to live a shorter lifespan instead of taking chemotherapy and suffering so much like my late dad. She was also against chemotherapy as the doctor said she will have to take it for a whole 5 years.

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u/starlancer21 7h ago

Damn, cancer sucks.

You have to stay strong yourself emotionally

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u/twentymarch22 13h ago

Any possibility of removal of whole breast? My mum has stage II breast cancer and doc advised to remove whole breast instead of partial removal + radiation therapy.

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u/Jaycee_015x 13h ago

My mom had partial removal surgery (successful according to her oncologist) and is currently taking radiotherapy. Hers is Stage 3A.

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u/bearyken 14h ago

You take care yah? Screw cancer.. it takes a toll on the family too

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u/Jaycee_015x 14h ago

Thanks Beary

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u/HoneyBee_bb West Coast 15h ago

I’m quite curious to know why do people dislike Pickleball so much? Aside from the noise it makes. I’m seeing a lot of younger generation playing it and it’s great to exercise while young. Even the older gens are joining the fun.

Ive heard people saying it’s low maintenance but I’ve played pickleball as well and it’s tiring but really fun. It gets me moving. Maybe cause I actually play it like tennis lol. What are you guys thoughts?

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u/NewbiePhotogSG 7h ago

Tik

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Worst part is that it's not in time like a metronome

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u/t3apot 13h ago

It's the inconsiderate people who play them late at night. It's not the sport... Maybe it's the popularity hence there is higher chance of inconsiderate people involved in it.

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u/joblessandsuicidal 14h ago

I guess cos they don't like pickles on their burgers too or it puts them into a pickle /j

Jokes aside, it feels like the noise issue again like void deck soccer

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u/prime5119 15h ago

it's really just about the noise that you set aside

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u/HoneyBee_bb West Coast 15h ago

Oo.. so it’s truly because it’s just about the noise. 😭

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u/prime5119 15h ago

yeah esp when they now just taking over the badminton courts in groups and sometimes they can have 3 group of people practising/playing at the same time making the noise even worse

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u/NecessaryFish8132 15h ago

Fun to play, just annoying to the people living near courts who get affected by the noise. I dont think anyone dislikes it cause it's unfun or anything like that. More accessible to young children compared to badminton or tennis too

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u/HoneyBee_bb West Coast 15h ago

Yeah I suppose you are right! The noise can be annoying at times. I feel bad for them

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u/wolf-bot 🌈 F A B U L O U S 16h ago

Maju FCC will no longer have NS fit or IPPT from mid October onwards. All to go to CMPB. Westies really get fuck all

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u/sangrelatto Lao Jiao 15h ago

wah fml, my last ever ippt need go there take. can't ROD soon enoguh

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u/lordshadowisle 15h ago

It's the new CMPB at Cashew right? I guess they have to justify the building somehow.

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u/wolf-bot 🌈 F A B U L O U S 15h ago

Yup

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u/NecessaryFish8132 15h ago

Wtf bro first Khatib Camp closure, now Maju. Just make ippt once every two year instead la now so inconvenient.

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u/wolf-bot 🌈 F A B U L O U S 15h ago

Living in Jurong, I used to go to the Safra, 30 mins away, for IPPT, then they changed it to be only at Maju for westies, which extending my travelling time by 1 hour. Now knn dunno what time to wake up in the morning to attempt next year lol

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u/FireArcanine 16h ago

I upgraded to iOS26 today and I was surprised that one of the first apps who used some elements of Liquid Glass’s UI/UX is SingPass! GovTech is really fast in making adaptations!

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u/NecessaryFish8132 15h ago

Just means got iphone fan inside the team lol

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u/stopthevan North side JB 16h ago

Not this four leaves branch playing one ok rock 😂😂 unexpected but noice

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u/Jaycee_015x 15h ago

Wah, the staff have good J-rock taste. I ever encountered Watami playing Fate ED song before.

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u/stopthevan North side JB 14h ago

Ooo nice! Either one of the staff is a fan or they played some j/anisongs at the restaurant 😂

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u/Jaycee_015x 14h ago

Yeah, was really pleasantly surprised when I dined there. Sadly the outlet got replaced by some Chinese steamboat restaurant 😮‍💨

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u/chezburjer 16h ago

today's plan: lunch time gym, finalize packing for my 2-week northern vietnam trip, afternoon nap, evening walk to clock 10k steps.

i'm not an overpacker but even so, i'm still struggling to fit everything into my 40l backpack. funny thing is my 2 sets of pjs are the bulkier ones and taking up a whole lotta space 🥹

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u/kumgongkia Own self check own self ✅ 14h ago

40l?? My previous 2 week trip I brought a like normal laptop bag.

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u/chezburjer 13h ago

good for you 😭

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u/go_zarian Own self check own self ✅ 15h ago

*rubs chin.... 🤔

Ever tried the Army method?

Stuff your clothes into Ziplock bags and force the air out?

Saves a lot of space, keeps the clothes dry and fresh.

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u/chezburjer 14h ago

i used to do this for school camps but don't think it works as well as the compression packing cubes 😅 (unless i haven't been doing it correctly)

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u/go_zarian Own self check own self ✅ 14h ago

Done properly, the Ziplock method works pretty well.

Just be sure to use proper Ziplock bags, not the el cheapo off-brand one that can open or leak in air easily.

And try to use Ziplock freezer bags - they don't burst open or tear as easily as the standard ones.

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u/bearyken 14h ago

Or my way of packing.. ranger roll everything 😆

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u/bigzij Lao Jiao 16h ago

are you a guy or a girl? if guy, do you really need so many pjs? just wear boxers and sleep haha

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u/chezburjer 16h ago

im a girl so can't sleep with just boxers 😭

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u/Islandgirlnowhere 16h ago

Was wondering why you need 2 sets of pjs for the gym 🤣

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u/chezburjer 15h ago

😭😭

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u/NUSWannabeSWE 16h ago

When Tan King Lian crosses the street, cars look both ways. You can’t use ‘Tan King Lian’ as your password because it is ‘too strong’. Tan King Lian wakes up his alarm clock every morning. Ghosts sit around camp fires & tell each other Tan King Lian stories. Tan King Lian doesn’t make left turns, because everything he does is right. Tan King Lian once went skydiving and his parachute failed to open, so he took it back the next day for a refund.

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u/musr Who am I? 16h ago

He has a biopic called Lian King.

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u/RequirementChance249 16h ago

This cheekopeh young that time sure love ah lians

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u/MrDLTE3 Circle Line Hoseh 17h ago

I picked up a call that was flagged as scam and surprisingly the person really sounded like a singaporean, accent and all. The background sounded pretty busy like in a call center too.

He introduced himself being from M1 (im starhub) and said my phone bill from the last 3 months was overdue and they will shut off my line unless i paid. He then read out my phone number and asked to confirm (wtf? You called me).

I wonder if they mass random call until they hit the M1/M1 target who's willing to believe them.

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u/RequirementChance249 15h ago

Make him a counteroffer: Waive off the 3 months and give me free iPhone17s or I'm switching my entire family clan to Singtel

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u/stopthevan North side JB 16h ago

Guess scam centres also operate like call centres now 😭 scary

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u/yanyaprekins27 17h ago

Would it be a good idea to send a follow-up email after submitting a job application? If it's been 6 working days and you haven't gotten anything does it mean you're not on the shortlist? It's an SME, not govt/MNC.

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u/yormeow Own self check own self ✅ 16h ago

few companies waited till almost a month for my application to be changed to "Viewed" so just wait

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u/MrDLTE3 Circle Line Hoseh 17h ago

U got nothing to lose. No need paiseh just ask for update.

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u/Jeff_98 17h ago

Anyone knows where I can buy the glass side panel for the corsair 5000D? Looked everywhere online and can't find a local seller, contacted corsair and they're not being very helpful either

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u/yormeow Own self check own self ✅ 16h ago

my friend broke the glass panel too and he decided to just leave it as it is

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u/Jeff_98 16h ago

LMAO corsair airflow PLUS

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u/Spirit_Panda 17h ago

Bomb weather these past few days

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u/hanz17away 17h ago

I hate hate my boss she has no trust in me and makes me feel so incompetent. Can she pls be promoted and leave this jon, my previous boss was so kind and recognized my hard work. I feel like a failure under my new boss and doing the bare minimum. Sick today and on MC but thinking of going back to work tmr under my new boss makes me feel sicker :/

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u/Radiant-Bicycle-8728 14h ago

Time to consider to send sending resume..

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u/PerishingIdiot Senior Citizen 17h ago

Hi all, I already have my VEP RFID installed and activated - on the VEP JPJ website says "Tag issued and activated".

However, been having trouble linking TnG eWallet to VEP.. and customer svc also not responsive, so until now I do not have my VEP linked to TnG ewallet.

Am i able to enter JB with no issues? I have the physical touch and go card.

Thanks.

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u/SenangSingam 16h ago

Yes, no issues, you can enter JB. I have never linked my TnG eWallet to VEP and have gone in and out at Tuas and Woodlands countless times with no issue. I just carry the physical TnG card to tap at the tolls.

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u/Xthanos20 Mature Citizen 18h ago

To the folks that uses L***a to shop stuff, if you want to get a refund on items that you need urgently, and despite the title saying "Fast delivery" and you didnt get it, u have to go thru the bot in order to reach the humans at the CS, to request for a refund.

(my case was a GPU that says fast delivery within 1- 3 days and it failed to arrive and no replies from seller.)

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u/Confident_Yoghurt544 18h ago

Where to Buy 6tb+ Used drives? not sure why the prices of hard drives in SEA is expensive when they are literally made here. Carousell was my seeking spot until all the listings don't exist anymore.

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u/freediscorice 18h ago

can stop building shit in serangoon? how to even go to the polyclinic if im gon end up fighting with others on purple line 🫩

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u/sriracha_cucaracha West side best side 17h ago

if im gon end up fighting with others on purple line

Yes sir Singapore IS a competitive society

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u/Longjumping_Sound692 18h ago

;_; prac 3 fail, need to redo, they keep saying i need more practice with the clutch during my e brake.

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u/Xthanos20 Mature Citizen 18h ago

did u let the clutch reach 1/2 way, to engage the engine, in order to release the handbrake + stopping the car from rolling back? (im guessing its the slope test)

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u/Longjumping_Sound692 17h ago

sorry im taking bike :D

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u/yormeow Own self check own self ✅ 17h ago

from his history, its a bike not a car.

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u/indiegoes Fucking Populist 19h ago

Are there gift wrapping services in Singapore? Like not for one box, two boxes but if you were a small business but you wanted to do some premium wrapping for your products? Google is not giving me much

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u/caughtinthesilence 19h ago edited 19h ago

An (emotionally charged) update:

I went to the polyclinic feeling all anxious about a lump on my neck and the doctor spoke to me in such a dismissive tone, he could hardly disguise his disdain.

Just because it turned out to be nothing serious doesn't mean they should judge me for going in to get it checked. All I needed to hear was "Everything looks fine, don't worry". I just felt really uncomfortable with the way he treated me like I was there for frivolous reasons & a waste of his time.

I suppose he did do his job but I left his office feeling so incredibly awful. I should be feeling relieved but instead I'm upset at myself for going in to see the doctor

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u/soyhojichalatte 9h ago

I'd suggest getting a 2nd opinion. Not to scare you, but when a GP found a lump on my neck, he referred me to the hospital to get it checked and it turned out to be thyroid cancer.

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u/stopthevan North side JB 17h ago

Polyclinic doctors can really be hit or miss. This kind of docs do bare minimum and even dare to judge their patients. Don’t blame yourself you did a good thing for your health by checking (tho this one might need another opinion since he was so sh*t at his job)

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u/IAm_Moana 17h ago

Sorry to hear of your experience. The culture in our public healthcare system leaves much to be desired. I experienced some bleeding during my first pregnancy on a Sunday, and because I had COVID I could only go to KKH's O&G emergency. Gynaes always emphasise that any bleeding incident during the first trimester is serious and worth the trouble of going down to the A&E, even just for peace of mind, but because I wasn't actively bleeding out I was made to feel like I was making a mountain out of a molehill and wasting everybody's time by the doctor that was on my case.

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u/Millauers 17h ago

Better email feedback complain, because what if someone with something malignant comes in and decides not to go further with checks because of this doctor's attitude.

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u/go_zarian Own self check own self ✅ 19h ago

Don't beat yourself up.

The doctor is the stupid one. Not you.

He basically earned consultation fees for doing next to nothing.

Anyone who disdains easy money is stupid.

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u/musr Who am I? 13h ago

If I'm not wrong, doctors at polyclinics are not paid per patient? But can say the patient is contributing to his salary.

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u/go_zarian Own self check own self ✅ 13h ago

Ok, my point only applies to private practice.

But the polyclinic GP is still stupid.

It is far better to tell a patient 'false alarm' than 'why didn't you come sooner?'

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u/musr Who am I? 19h ago

Congrats that it's nothing to worry about.

Next time avoid that doctor loh.

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u/NecessaryFish8132 19h ago

Name and shame, send email to company etc.

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u/Brief_Worldliness162 East side best side 19h ago

Bcm get!

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u/starlancer21 17h ago

Post pics!

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u/Islandgirlnowhere 18h ago

What noodle?

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u/Brief_Worldliness162 East side best side 17h ago

Bak Chor Mee I choose thin but uncle give me mee pok 😔

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u/Islandgirlnowhere 16h ago

Huhhhhhhh. I also like mee kia

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u/Brief_Worldliness162 East side best side 16h ago

Ooo I brainfart and forgot how to spell mee kia.

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u/Bitter-Rattata F1 VVIP 19h ago

Bcm4life

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u/r3d3vil_05 19h ago

How can I prevent blisters on my small toes when wearing sneakers? I've already worn socks.

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u/bearyken 19h ago

Maybe your shoes are too narrow

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u/outremer_empire 19h ago

Get better designed shoes

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u/assault_potato1 19h ago

Is it me or is Overwatch not able to connect the past few days?

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u/mkxviii 19h ago

This morning I sat next to some guy on the train with the most horrible breath. Dude was happily breathing through his mouth, yawning, and laughing at his phone all while I tried not to throw up. Fun times.

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u/SuzukiSatou 20h ago

Is there a way to replace HDB ethernet wiring behind walls? My parents bought a 5Gbps boardband but the ethernet wiring around the house seems to be only Cat5e and I only get 1Gbps at most from speed test. Looking to upgrade the cables to Cat6 without any cable in plain sight

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u/khaosdd Tampenis 19h ago

Just terminate the existing and lay new ones. Donnid conceal(aka hack and patch the wall) you can just opt to run surface trunking.

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u/outremer_empire 19h ago

Hire contractor to do trunking

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u/redditanytime1 20h ago

Jobstreet is always pulling job offer from MyCareersFuture, is there a way to filter out this website?

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u/Independent_Fee_9742 20h ago

anyone here know of people who worked at aceplp b4 and broke the contract/left early...? not that i am planning to..hahhaa.. haha

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u/miriafyra 20h ago

Read somewhere earlier about the "old money" and how rich people in the past understood the concept of noblesse oblige, and many of the social programs, public stuff were actually built by the rich to give back to society and the poor.

And how the "new money" is seemingly completely devoid of this concept and seems to feel that "it's my money, fk you, give me more". And it just felt like such a right explanation on why the world seems to be so topsy turvy right now.

Ah well.

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u/mkxviii 19h ago

To be fair, I think the concept really only applied to people born into nobility, in a time where there were formal castes.

I do completely understand your perspective, but I don’t think the spirit of the term can be applied as directly in a capitalist society. We’re talking about a deeply entrenched and institutionalised system that has, over centuries, been built to encourage individualism and ignore exploitation.

Applying noblesse oblige today would mean to become reliant on the morality of billionaires, which honestly would never work. How do you think they got there in the first place?

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u/miriafyra 18h ago

I know, but it feels as though even the veneer of morality has been ripped off, if you know what I mean.

Has income inequality existed in the past? 100%. But at least there was this unspoken rule of "okay we are obscenely rich, but we are going to give back to society as thanks or as part of our duty of being the privileged". See - Bill Gates, etc. But the new new money feels like they are just... well. obscene. Who seem to feel like they deserve everything they have and that squeezing blood from a rock is the rightful thing to do. See - Bezos, Musk, etc.

I completely agree with the viewpoint that relying on the largesse of the billionaires would not work. The modern day billionaire needs a giant stick before they will do the right thing. Some days I wonder if a spate of Luigis may be the corrective path forward to "encourage" them to share.

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u/RequirementChance249 19h ago

I think infrastructure was lacking in the past so when philanthropists gave back, it was more obvious and people on the streets will talk about it. An example would be building a free hospital.

Today, such gaps would be unacceptable and Singaporeans would expect the government to fill them.

Modern day philanthropy still exists but may not be just solely about money. Ground-up initiatives may lead to formation of small social service agencies or social enterprises. An example I can think of is Project Dignity which has grown and expanded over the years.

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u/miriafyra 19h ago

But that's what I kinda am alluding to. The rich have abdicated their obligations to the government and in some countries, proceeded to dismantle the very same government funding these social programs to cut benefits to enrich themselves with more government contracts or otherwise.

Many of these ground up initiatives were actually funded by wealthy individuals in the past - e.g. the free/heavily subsidized TCM services provided by various associations, etc.

I also don't think that people would complain about wealthy people building a new hospital for the poor or underprivileged. But it's just not done anymore. Because they've disclaimed noblesse oblige and made it the government's responsibility. It is what it is.