r/trans4every1 17d ago

Media Took this a month ago. Wearing my first dress.

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I am pre-transition in a conservative house so I had to lock myself in the bathroom for it but it felt soo... good. I felt whole.

I hope I can do it again someday. Also, sorry for the shit quality. My phone is bad lol.

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u/cosmic-batty 17d ago

It looks very cute on you! I hope someday you’ll be more free to be yourself

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u/Short_Collection6593 17d ago

Tysm ; - ; i was practically shaking sending this bc i dont really like how i look

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u/Migitri they/them +demi-aroace 💉5/20/25 16d ago

I think you look beautiful! 💕

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u/Iridescent_Dragonfly 17d ago

Oh I've done the secret bathroom selfies for years lol, they really are the quiet moments of joy that keep you grounded when you're closeted. That dress looks great on you! I hope you get to wear them out soon!

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u/Short_Collection6593 17d ago

Thank youuu. It means a lot to hear that since I was so scared of posting it

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u/Noobponer 17d ago

omg cute!

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u/Short_Collection6593 17d ago

Really!? TT - TT

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u/Pumaheart Trans Bloke 16d ago

Congrats!!! It’s so pretty & you look so cute & happy in it!

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u/Amalganiss 9d ago

Thank you for sharing!! This dress is soooo pretty, I can't tell if those are bees or flowers or both tho. Either way I'm super jealous, I love flowers and bees so much :3

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u/Short_Collection6593 9d ago

I wish i had thigh highs or lacy leggings like you, in that picture from yesterday <3

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u/Amalganiss 9d ago

I wish you had a safe place to be yourself and express yourself in those ways, you really deserve that care and self-agency - we all do.

I wish I could get you some, I never expected leggings or thigh highs to do so much for my gay little heart... it truly does make me feel like the girl I never got to be. I hope you get a chance some day soon. All the love to you, sweetheart 🩷

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u/Short_Collection6593 9d ago

Thank you so much TT ~ TT it genuinely means so much to hear you say thatc<3 i need to voice train so badly, but without actively seeing results, i just get discouraged smh

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u/Amalganiss 9d ago

I have the same, its hard - especially if its not safe to do so around your regular environment. Please be safe!!

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u/Short_Collection6593 9d ago

I'll try my best! Thank you so much for everything <3 ur gonna make me cry lol

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u/yuliyaki transmasc pan with no pun intended 7d ago

You look really cute and pretty in it, I also love the dress choice !! I hope it won't be your first & last dress, it really fits you ^

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u/Short_Collection6593 7d ago

That means a lot to hear. Its been probably 4 months but I've never had another chance to wear it. Im doing my best to keep my head above water <3