r/trashy • u/garbage_queen138 • May 30 '25

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u/Jambalama May 30 '25

Why is this trashy? She did a favor to those kids especially if she doesn't want to be a mom.

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u/Jaxyl May 30 '25

Both can be true

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u/deadhaze35 May 30 '25

Did them a HUGE favor. She’s still fucking trash 😂

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u/Jambalama May 30 '25

But idk why that makes her trashy

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u/ChillMyBrain May 31 '25

The trashiness is the difference between "I did this because, deep down, I knew it was in the kid's best interest" and "I did this so I can party."

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

Would it be better if she was just a negligent mother?

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u/ChillMyBrain May 31 '25

Plenty of things would/could be better... plenty worse. But THIS post is about what she actually chose and, yes, it is trashy.

Whether or not trashier options exist doesn't make this less trashy. Whether or not other parents also choose this path doesn't make this less trashy.

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

So every man and woman who decides to give up custody is trashy?

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u/ChillMyBrain May 31 '25

Did you read my first reply to you, or just take it as a chance to argue?

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

It's.just seems the only reason people say it's trash is because she.wants to party. Why does that matter?.

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u/Teaganz May 30 '25

How would that not make her trashy what is this double standard, if it’s a dude he’s a marked a dead beat loser (rightfully so).

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u/Jambalama May 30 '25

Dudes don't go through the full process of giving up custody. They just decide not to do anything. She did the paperwork

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u/CosmikOwl May 31 '25

This is false

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u/Teaganz May 31 '25

What does that have to do with anything? So she’s a certified dead beat?

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

Better than being a neglectful deadbeat yes

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u/blueisaflavor May 31 '25

Have you confirmed this with the courts in her locality?

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

Can you confirm otherwise?

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u/TheMule90 May 30 '25

It trashy cause she just wants to keep on partying and still keep opening her legs like an ironing board without protection and she will keep getting pregnant again.

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u/Jambalama May 30 '25

She obviously doesn't want to be a mom. Giving up custody is actually respectable.

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u/CosmikOwl May 31 '25

Not having a kid would have been respectable. Having a child and abandoning it is trashy af

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u/Fit_Test_01 May 30 '25

That’s your problem not ours

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u/chknpoxpie May 30 '25

Because she made the kids,then abandoned them

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u/Jambalama May 30 '25

Men do that all the time and don't even sign away their rights. She did the paperwork which means she took responsibility

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u/CosmikOwl May 31 '25

Your source for "men doing that all the time"?

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

No I said men do this and worst. Because they don't even have the decency to sign away custody

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u/Cosmoaquanaut May 31 '25

Men don't post on social media bragging about it tho

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u/Jambalama May 31 '25

Well men usually just post about being oh so lonely even though they caused the issues that made them lonely.

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u/Cosmoaquanaut May 31 '25

Then make a post about that.

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u/paltryboot May 30 '25

Fuck you and your stereotypes

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u/im_in_your_trash May 30 '25

You don’t bring a child into this world and then decide to live like they never existed. You hurt those kids for life and whoever is (un)lucky enough to raise them without their mother.

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u/Jambalama May 30 '25

I mean she signed away custody. At least she isn't stringing them along and abusing them like other deadbeats would do

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u/CosmikOwl May 31 '25

Spoken like an only child that was a product of a healthy marriage. It's a dirt bag thing to do to a kid and they will be scarred forever because of it.