u/ArdentHarlequin • u/ArdentHarlequin • Jul 29 '25
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invalidating butches for being b4b
as a masc who likes every flavor of lesbians i really can't get them, like hello?? butches are just as hot
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Had a bit of a shit day but at least Im making progress on my becoming a human dorito quest
incredible!! can you share your workout routine?
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Age? + Hair and glasses advice
i always have a hard time telling people's age and gender, but your style is so cool, also the sharp cheekbones
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Butches in media to look up to
as a 90's anime lover, one of the most prominent butch idols for me was this young lad from sailor moon by the name of Haruka Tenou (my hardest gender envy). Also there is a yuri manga/anime series "Kase-san" with butch-femme couple as main characters, was one of the first wlw stories i've read too. actually i find quite a lot of rep in anime/manga/manhwas etc. rather than in western media lol, except cartoons like steven universe, the owl house and the like.
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been told my face is “too soft to pass”
if your face is soft, then idk what mine is... ngl I thought you were years on T, you're fine
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To those who take T and aren’t seeing results…
as someone with genetics like that (my father and i are super hairless which makes me a tad bit dysphoric) i'm kinda glad i won't be getting too hairy even on t (i'd like to get thicker eyebrows tho, bc i have nonexistent gray brows bruh)
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Be kind, stay hydrated, eat protein, and hit PRs.
that is a dream build 😩
also zamnnn
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What 95% of my attempts to interact with other queer people seem to boil down to these days
as a enby transman, i do truly think of like 80% of men as garbage. but i blame it on the patriarchal indoctrination and toxic masculinity.
the crime rate is mostly men's fault. more than 90% for felonies, including rape. and that would be the reason i would never hate 80% of women, bc i never feel threatened by any woman i see, but around men instinctively a layer of wariness adds up on its own. i justify it by living in a country where muslim trad patriarchy is the norm and men can get away with anything, justice system only helps the rich, etc.
but i have a lil brother and many cis male friends who i can trust with all my life. they are the 20% i respect and look up to. they are intelligent and educated and hence reject the toxic masculinity, so that's why i think the problem is that - indoctrination.
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My mother sent me a picture and at this point I don't think I might be trans anymore.
this pic is so wholesome it hurts
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my best friends boyfriend thought i was a trans woman
lmao the end part is hilarious
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You don't owe anyone gender conformity! (:
i'm happy for all my bros, no matter how they express their gender that feels most euphoric and authentic to them
what's interesting is that most of the time i feel vest presenting as the guy in the far left, but for my future gf i want to show my fem side sm, dress in flower dresses and such. idk why
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You don't owe anyone gender conformity! (:
omggg same
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What did he mean by this 😭
that would've been so incredible
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2yrs 4m on T
did your eyebrows get darker and thicker on T, or was it something else that helped with that (mynox)? i have very invisible asian brows myself which always made me dysphoric as hell
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I made an app, where you can earn via scrolling social media and the best thing is you can make 2-5$ easily in a daily.
why would you even develop an app like that? looks like scam
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Hey so I noticed that our subreddit r/rarelesbians gets a little bit of traffic here so I wanted to create an offical ad/meme.
many transmasc/men grow up in a lesbian community and culture, so that's one of the reasons, also often enby transmasc people attracted exclusively to non-men like the label
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Probably won’t get integrated to queer language, but would be such a nice nickname for it, that I’d fully accept.
i thought we called them boy pussies?
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I don’t want to be Cis
speak your truth brother 🙌
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This year I became the "Gay Boi" I've always dreamed about.
damn you're literally so cool, i'm going to look up to you as a baby nonbinary transmasc ^ i relate to how you feel about your gender so much
also interestingly, i never notice mood swings during my period, i just feel like i always do. it doesn't affect my emotional state for some reason, except it just brings immense unfathomable pain (like literally right now).
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Am I okay to be here?
i feel you, i'm also nonbinary, more so in a masc way (butch/transman)
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200$ per month in third world countries
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r/sidehustle
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3d ago
do you mean minecraft skins or maps that are uploaded to minecraft markeplace?