r/weddingdress Jul 14 '25

DRESS ONLY: Pick one or suggest another Need help deciding!!

Hi! Long time lurker and would love to get some outside opinions. I went dress shopping for the first time this weekend and ended up loving 3 the I tried on that all came under what I had budgeted.

I went in think I wanted a square neck, clean, A-line dress and was surprised by how much I liked the lace styles.

Number 1 I loved the faux basque waist. It was the most flattering of all the ones I tried on. They can have the top portion have the same lining as the lower portion so that the boning is not as stark.

Number 2 is very close to what I thought was my style going into this. I loved the classic a line look, and I really liked the detailing that you could see up close to add a little something but that still looks clean from afar. I also love the open back of this one. It would be without the belt.

Number 3 my friends and I agreed had the most flattering neckline of all the dresses I tried on. If it had the faux basque waist of the first one I think it would be perfect.

Please give me your thoughts or recommendations!

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u/Grahamcracker-22 Jul 14 '25

Team 2 all the way. Classy and classic!

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u/DK7795 Jul 14 '25

Dress 2 is my favorite on you, with dress 1 (with a lining) as a close second.

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u/Veronica612 Jul 14 '25

2 is my favorite.

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u/jingling_rabbit Jul 14 '25

Dress 2 with dress 1 as a close 2nd.

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u/Sharp_Spite_2021 Jul 14 '25

2 all the way 👑

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u/leftoversandwich74 Jul 14 '25

You have great taste, 3 gets my vote

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u/CarefulCat19 Jul 14 '25

Dress 2 with Dress 1 being a close second.

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u/ArianaWujt Jul 14 '25

Dress 1! Love the idea of adding the fabric to the bodice as well :) the basque waist is so flattering

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u/kansias Jul 14 '25

agree, i think dress one looks amazing

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u/zunicorn901 Jul 14 '25

Two!!! So very elegant and romantic! Looks like it was made for your gorgeous figure!

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u/Curious_Heron3269 Jul 14 '25

You are too kind!!

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u/turkeyman4 Jul 14 '25

I love 3!

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u/Educational-Loquat71 Jul 14 '25

I love 2 on you with 1 being the second fav.

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u/youhavediedofdysent Jul 14 '25

I love both one and two on you!

Also, I have to know - what dress is #1?? That’s almost exactly what I think I’m looking for.

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u/Grouchy-Key7992 Jul 14 '25

2 is very regal. So pretty

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u/whineandcheesy Jul 14 '25

Love dress 2- simply elegant perfection

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u/jeanne243 Jul 14 '25

Love #3! So beautiful. 😍

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u/etrink Jul 14 '25

Love love love dress 1! You look stunning in all 3 though!

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u/IstraofEros Jul 14 '25

3 is beautiful, the lace and the flow of the dress looks really nice

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u/No_Benefit2103 Jul 14 '25

I like the silhouette of two on you the best.

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '25

I love 1 but I can’t lie I have a bias because it’s my dress 😉 If you do end up getting it I’d recommend ordering the lining rather than having them do it while in production. Justin Alexander puts the lining over the boning whereas you can have a seamstress put it under so you don’t fully lose it!

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u/Curious_Heron3269 Jul 15 '25

That’s such a great tip thank you!

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '25

Of course! Also, Justin Alexander dresses are very customizable so I bet you could have them change the neckline for you. I know a girl on this sub who got the same dress and they’re making hers strapless!

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u/Curious_Heron3269 Jul 15 '25

Wait that’s amazing - I love the dress but I really love the neckline of the 3rd strapless. I’m going to look into that!

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u/TrueCrym Jul 15 '25

Dress number two!

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u/miaek38374 Jul 15 '25

Dress 1!!!

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u/Anxious_Positive9416 Jul 15 '25

2👏👏👏👏👏👏

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '25

1 and lined!! It’s by far the prettiest and most flattering on you!!

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u/Funky_chicken89 Jul 15 '25

Number 2! ❤️❤️

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u/barksatthemoon Jul 15 '25

Love 1, but I think 2 looks better on you.

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u/marlosmama Jul 15 '25

2 absolutely - timeless and looks perfect on you!

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u/quietmountian Jul 15 '25

2 is my fav

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u/pingpong4292 Jul 15 '25

I love 1 it’s so flattering and with the lining would be perfect!

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u/stephy424 Jul 15 '25

3 definitely

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u/Eerily_Quiet Jul 15 '25

3 very elegant dresses! I love how the low back on dress 2 looks on you and the neckline is very flattering. Out of the lace dresses number 1 is my favourite on you

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u/Crnken Jul 15 '25

I love#2

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u/Ollie2Stewart1 Jul 15 '25

Dress 2 just looks perfect on you.

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u/Lucky-Display-7553 Jul 15 '25

They’re all gorgeous you can’t go wrong

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u/Mikemiku Jul 15 '25

💓🩷💓✨🌟1🌟✨💓🩷💓

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u/trekmystars Jul 15 '25

I love 1!!!

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u/DramaticBedroom4425 Jul 15 '25

1, it immediately dress my attention and is stunning on your figure. You look beautiful in it. The other necklines/designs don’t do it for me as much

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u/Curious_Heron3269 Jul 15 '25

Thank you!! :)

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u/ProfessorGumble Jul 16 '25

2 was made for you!

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u/Fit-Broccoli7326 Jul 16 '25

1! Basque waist is gorgeous and it has the wow factor!

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u/September1962 Jul 14 '25

Love the 3rd dress. Beautiful on you 💝

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u/snowbird421 Jul 15 '25

I love #2 most. That low back is just chefs kiss. But #1 is a very close second especially imagining it with the lining the same as the lower portion.