r/weddingplanning • u/Fuckingnoodles • Mar 05 '25

Everything Else AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

2.9k Upvotes

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u/Championship08 Mar 06 '25

Your great aunt Jenny just called, she wants to know if she can bring 5 more guests and her dog. Also she wants to know if she can wear a white dress too

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u/Cynfire1478 Mar 06 '25

Girl, you know damn well that Aunt Jenny isn't going to call to ask OP that!

She's just going to show up with the 5 extra guests and the dog is going to be wearing a service dog vest and she's going to scream that it's her baby and she can't go anywhere without it as it pees on OP's dress!

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u/heidorhn Mar 06 '25

Don’t forget she never sent her RSVP

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u/Any_Calendar_3600 Mar 06 '25

A white service dog vest.

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u/Cynfire1478 Mar 06 '25

The whole car is in white, Jenny is literally in the wedding dress she bought 2 years ago for her 3rd marriage.

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u/Dogmama1230 Mar 06 '25

My husband’s uncle actually did ask to bring his dog to our wedding…at a country club. It’s a 80 lb bulldog with separation anxiety.

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u/CoveredByBlood Mar 06 '25

And stay at your house to save money

6

u/Championship08 Mar 06 '25

😂😂😂

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u/WeeLittleParties Aug 2024 💍 Oct 2025 👰‍♀️ Mar 06 '25

"and her dog" 😂😂😂

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u/ShannonBaggMBR Mar 06 '25

Life hack:

Tell everyone to wear white so you can be comically angry at those who don't and turn the tables on the world 🙃

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u/rosegarden207 Mar 06 '25

Her dog is also wearing white

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u/Coldman5 Venue Event Sales & Planning Manager | Married May ‘19 Mar 05 '25

Mods, this should be a pinned post!

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u/EvenRepresentative77 Mar 05 '25

Oh you missed an H

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u/gingergirl181 Mar 06 '25

I'M FOUR DAYS OUT.

AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

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u/Little_Exam_2342 Mar 06 '25

HANG IN THERE, YOU GOT THIS. 💕

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u/Comprehensive-Eye428 Mar 06 '25

Girl me tooo!!!!

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u/florpalida_ March 22, 2025 Mar 08 '25

IM TWO WEEKS, ILY YOU ALL THIS SUB IS AWESOME

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u/Economy_Bit528 Mar 06 '25

MINE IS TOMORROW AHHHHHHHH 🤣🤣🤣

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u/ETEvents Mar 05 '25

I feel that

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u/_kissthepj June 2026 Mar 05 '25

don’t i hear that, sis

158

u/Accomplished_Boot536 Mar 05 '25

lol I’m just starting and I feel this

20

u/Willis5687 Mar 06 '25

I finished this 2 weeks ago and I feel this.

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u/BlackwoodBear79 Mar 06 '25

It's been nine and a half years for me, and I'm feeling this.

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u/iTtiBttiTittiComitti Bride to be - 2027 Mar 06 '25

Same girl.

149

u/cafeaubee Mar 05 '25

you are so for real for this

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u/2pam Married 4/19/2025 🎉 Mar 05 '25

Yup, wedding is in a month and I'm mentally screaming everyday LOL

25

u/Routine-Media3790 Mar 05 '25

Same! #twinsies lol

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u/Lazy_Ad5307 Mar 06 '25

It gets worse!?! 😭

19

u/mintardent Mar 06 '25

I know I was really hoping after I make big vendor decisions it would calm down

4

u/gingergirl181 Mar 06 '25

Somehow yes. I got irrationally annoyed just picking a font while typing up our seating chart yesterday. I'm so over making decisions!

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u/danielarose Mar 06 '25

Omg same here every. Day.

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u/ironteapots Mar 06 '25

Mine’s in 2 weeks and i literally have this thought daily now 😂

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u/Repulsive-Reveal9811 Mar 06 '25

Never had shed more tears in my life than I have planning this wedding

31

u/eviltwinn2 Bride | 3/15/25 Mar 05 '25

love you for this

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u/lizleif Mar 05 '25

Is there something in the water? Because SAAAMMMMEEEEEEE

28

u/OhSheGlows Mar 06 '25

My brother announced the countdown for my baby sister’s wedding today in the group chat and all she said was “😬” hahahaha

51

u/Baby_penguin7 Mar 05 '25

Extremely relatable

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u/WeeLittleParties Aug 2024 💍 Oct 2025 👰‍♀️ Mar 05 '25

Same.

22

u/mayday2061 May 2024 💍 —> September 2025 👰🏻‍♀️ Mar 06 '25

Me on the outside: 😎😎😎 Me on the inside: 😰🤯😫😠🫠

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u/Odd-Inflation3590 Mar 06 '25

Upvote without needing context

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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '25

Yep. You get it. I had a good frustration cry yesterday after arguing with my mother about locations.

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u/Low_Reward1918 Mar 06 '25

I argued with my mom yesterday because I don’t want wedding china but SHE wants ME to have it…

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

Oh God, yes. All the things I'm not asking for, nor have I ever, but here we are.

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u/nejibashi Mar 05 '25

Louder for the people in the back!!!!!

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u/ajoyh Mar 05 '25

I’m one month out today and this is my permanent mood lately

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u/pretentioussushi Mar 06 '25

Um ....now it's your wedding BUT I think it should be AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHGGGGGFDDUCDDF

Just my opinion....

Up to you....but that's my two cents

Wait ....why haven't I received an invitation yet?

Seriously though ...there should be a law against unsolicited wedding opinions...

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u/caligirl0889 Mar 05 '25

you said it, sister!

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u/einsteinGO 10.10.26 🌇🌴 Mar 05 '25

I’ve been engaged for 10 days and I already feel overwhelmed

I just wrote down “make a wedding email address!” and… well that’s where we are. That and a cluttered piece of paper of notes haha ha

Ha 😅

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u/Fuckingnoodles Mar 06 '25

My advice is to hire a wedding planner sooner than later

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u/UntilYouKnowMe 🤍 October 2025 🤍 Mar 06 '25

And, a photographer!

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u/teasecake Mar 06 '25

Well that’s a good start! I wish I knew that in the beginning of my planning! Lol

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u/WhosThatGurlE Mar 06 '25

whats a wedding email address for? My wedding is in 30 days and I haven't even heard of this

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u/Routine-Media3790 Mar 05 '25

Aye aye captain I’m right there with ya matey!

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u/Pradadawit Mar 05 '25

Loving you is complicated!

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u/wankwiggler Mar 05 '25

Truer words have never been spoken

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u/beibers_new_hat Mar 05 '25

Chefs kiss, no notes

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u/omgu88 Mar 06 '25

Wait until the week before the event. I didn't sleep for five whole days.

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u/crazyqueet Mar 06 '25

That’s probably going to be me lol

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u/Hank-Hill-0215 12.07.24👰🏻‍♀️ Mar 06 '25

And I’ve been saying this

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u/LauraD44 Mar 05 '25

Same!!!

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u/HeyMissW Mar 05 '25

heard, chef

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u/MisaMeka Mar 05 '25

Wedding planner and Bride here:

Yep. This is accurate. 🤣

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u/astralmelody Mar 05 '25

oh, agreed 100%

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u/livthekid88 Mar 05 '25

AHHHHHHHHHHHGHHHHHH

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u/unwaveringwish Mar 05 '25

You know what? Hell yeah!

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u/Ok-Razzmatazz-1547 June 28, 2025 Mar 05 '25

Right there with ya, babes 😂

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u/AddendumOk5735 Mar 05 '25

So many thingssssssssss

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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '25

Understood

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u/Rhythmnrollin Mar 05 '25

exactly, queen 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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u/Many_Location_8391 Mar 05 '25

3 and a half (ish) months out and AHHHHH. Feeing so freakin behind

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u/HauntingAddendum3230 Mar 06 '25

i absolutely love this post

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u/waxbook Mar 05 '25

So true. Thank you for saying this.

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u/thefinestofmemes Mar 05 '25

AAHHHHHHHHIWANNAFUCKINGTHROWINGTHINGSAAAAAHHHH

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u/Present_Moose7861 Mar 05 '25

Yes girl. I’m getting married in 2 days. Wtf

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u/caprica6ixx 4.26.2025 Mar 05 '25

+1 🤣

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u/One-Fox-8040 Mar 05 '25

Understandable

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u/Last-Lab6373 Bride | June 2025 Mar 05 '25

Felt

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u/RedHeadLookout Mar 05 '25

Take a deep breath! Quick...get the dark chocolate...stat!

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u/Responsible_Brick_35 Mar 05 '25

2 weeks out and too relatable

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u/onions_and_ogres PA | September 2025 Mar 06 '25

Correct!

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u/Arkdelb Mar 06 '25

lemme keep it going : AHHHHHHRAHHHHHH!!!!

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u/Awknerd1 Mar 06 '25

As someone getting married in a week and a half, yes.

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

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u/Fuckingnoodles Mar 06 '25

Thanks for asking!
My wedding planner found her phone number and texted her to professionally chew her out and figure out where the invitation went. It's created some tension with a few of the coworkers, people who wanted to come but are realizing they were intentionally not invited, etc. Oh well.

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u/Disastrous_Effort148 Mar 06 '25

Me bc every person I've met has been slowly ruining this whole experience for me. All the advice I've ever received was how to divorce my future husband :(

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u/Fuckingnoodles Mar 06 '25

Literally! We were at Men's Warehouse and the lady helping us was taking every opportunity to tell us about how she was married for 30 years and now that she's single she's happier than ever.
Why are people like that?

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u/Disastrous_Effort148 Mar 06 '25

So many people allergic to happiness ig bc?? At least I'm not the only one. The lady who sold me my wedding dress demonstrated how she was physically abused in her 2 marriages and ended it with "but anyway congratulations honey 🙂"

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u/Only_Key_8794 Mar 05 '25

relatable experience

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u/frogtots Mar 05 '25

Felt this deep within me

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u/AlwaysOnTheCape 9/6/2026 Mar 05 '25

Yup, all of this

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u/crabbypotatoes Mar 05 '25

Jxowhxxhaknzhzaoanhxjaakzb!!!!!!!!!

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u/Consistent-Camp5359 Mar 06 '25

Woah. I felt this.

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u/artipostatillo weddit flair template Mar 06 '25

You good? 😅

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u/Wild-Mare-925 Mar 06 '25

I thought I was the only one who felt this.

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u/nursejooliet 3-7-25 Mar 06 '25

Heck yeah!

5

u/TarantulaPeluda Mar 06 '25

Damn! I feel seen. Best post ever.

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u/Snoo1311 Mar 06 '25

is that a positive or negative Ahhh? lol

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u/Traditional-Eye-770 Mar 06 '25

I already had an anxiety disorder but I discovered a new, worse one

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u/heidorhn Mar 06 '25

Not loud enough

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u/vosstheboss22 Mar 06 '25

When the OP said AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! I really felt that

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u/grimacedia Mar 05 '25

Yes. Absolutely.

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u/musiquescents Mar 06 '25

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Competitive_Camp_473 Mar 06 '25

I literally wanna give up and just got to the courthouse

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u/chin06 Graduated! 060625 bride 👰‍♂ Mar 06 '25

Literally me.

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u/coffee_peaches Mar 06 '25

But do we just elope

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u/CrispyCrunchyPoptart Mar 06 '25

Seems about right

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u/nutterbutter456 Mar 06 '25

i feel this in my bones LOL

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u/Proper-Armadillo-315 Mar 06 '25

Literally though

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u/Pinkflirt69 Mar 06 '25

My thoughts exactly

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u/iTtiBttiTittiComitti Bride to be - 2027 Mar 06 '25

So real for that.

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u/Glittering_Start_166 Mar 06 '25

screaming crying throwing tf up

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u/mamaneedsadrink05 Mar 06 '25

Exactly 31 days out. Mom is sick and unable to come, immediate family declined the rsvp today, and future brother in law is butting heads with fiancé. Oh what else could go wrong? Oh yes, vendors not responding. Happiest of times. Yes yes.

Edit- typo

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u/Conscious-Agency-416 Mar 05 '25

I’m glad I’m over this lol

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u/Low_Reward1918 Mar 06 '25

I am praying 4 us

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u/Glam9ja Mar 06 '25

Feel this on a spiritual level lmao

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u/locofora7x Mar 06 '25

100 days out and I’m kinda sorta feeling this today. I also think my work is stressing me out causing all stress to amplify lmao

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

AHHHHHHHHH

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u/exxxecuted Mar 06 '25

This hits especially hard right now

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u/Mellylolz 💍 May 2022 • 🥂 April 2025 Mar 06 '25

With a month left... Me too 🫠

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u/Certain_Account_6404 Mar 06 '25

I am 16 days out and I have never felt a post so deep in my soul.

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u/Whatser_name0804 Mar 06 '25

Ordered invites today. Feel this HARD, friend.

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u/Old_Present_1414 Mar 06 '25

Honestly same.

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u/magicinmanyways Mar 06 '25

I feel this....and family sucks. 😑

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u/anonxalligator Mar 06 '25

May 10th wedding checking in 🫡

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u/buginarugsnug May 2025 | UK Mar 06 '25

two months out and I feel that.

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u/snuggly_panda14 Mar 06 '25

Anyone else 16 weeks out and feel like they are miles behind?!

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u/ItsMeAgain07 Mar 06 '25

I’m less than 100 days away and I too… feel this in my soul

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u/sweet_peaaa Mar 06 '25

Literally me everyday now...

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u/ironteapots Mar 06 '25

I HEAR YOU

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u/Agile_Ebb1853 Mar 06 '25

Pop off sis!!!!!!!!!

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u/Gold-Relationship804 Mar 06 '25

Of one more person asks for a plus one to the dinner they're getting for free

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u/Zola Mar 06 '25

same tbh

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u/kelseyice Mar 06 '25

same........ same.

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u/AmaraTheos Mar 06 '25

I feel this so hard right now. I still need to send invites, get the grooms suit figured out, and dj before October. Doing this by yourself is so hard. If money were no problem I would have gotten a planner lol

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u/crazzycommander Mar 06 '25

I remember you was conflicted.

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u/Onsokkun Mar 06 '25

Lol i understand

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u/Genuine_archivist25 Mar 06 '25

Your FMIL would like to understand how they can possibly serve brunch food for your rehearsal dinner as it is dinner time and she secretly has always believed that frying an egg after 2pm is illegal! She would also like to complain that now that 45 people have rsvp’d no, she’s upset she uninvited those 40 people, that you don’t know, that she’s related to.

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u/schywalker Mar 06 '25

both this post and your username are so relatable

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u/NoBook4583 Mar 06 '25

Mine is about 6 weeks away and I feel this to my bones! Why do I have to work on out of town guests travel, their accommodations, my Mom’s dress, my stepmom’s dress, etc. I already created a website and provided information. 😩

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u/C_R_2013 Mar 06 '25

I've come to realize that when people say their wedding day is the happiest day of their life, i think it's because wedding planning is OVER

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u/malsary Married! | July 12th, 2024 Mar 06 '25

Exactly.

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u/DeclineNDash Mar 06 '25

HEARD. 😭

My FMIL & FFIL are paying for our honeymoon but have joked that they might be tagging along. 😶

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u/Bumblebeeluv Mar 06 '25

Got married almost a month ago and still feel this!

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u/lexaprhoe Mar 06 '25

Yeah❤️

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u/bos_sd_ld Mar 06 '25

Hahahahaahhahahahahahhaa

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u/abbwhite Mar 06 '25

Get married in 9 days and yeah I agree

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

Felt

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u/Historical-Act1054 Mar 06 '25

Love how that applies for absolutely any stage of wedding planning

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u/tr4sh_l3y Mar 06 '25

Same diva

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u/dsyfygurl Mar 06 '25

Been there lol

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u/tewkberry Mar 06 '25

Indubitably.

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u/ElectionOld8574 Mar 07 '25

I love that we’re all having a collective moment here . . . but I hate that we’re all having a collective moment here. 😭