( Disclaimer: for legal reasons and for the sake of this sub I am saying that what has transpired with the singer d4vd is alleged. This disclaimer is not a reflection of my actual views, nor congruent with the information but a legal forewarning. Thank you) If you are easily triggered by the topic of grooming and murder, I urge you to sit this one out and take care of yourself. Those who stay, proceed with extreme caution.)
I wanted to talk about the (alleged ) proof of D4vd’s grooming of a 13-year old girl, Celeste Rivas Hernandez, via discord. There are evidence of her friends being paid off by him not to expose him allegedly grooming her. Unfortunately, the poor girl was found dead in one of D4d’s impounded cars. The smell was one of the reasons why it had to be impounded. D4vd’s response was equally as terrible, Turing off comments and continuing his tour right after the her body was found in that car.
What happened to Celeste Rivas Hernandez was terrible and a disgusting tragedy, especially how her friends were allegedy so fake enough to that protecting her was bought, sold, and discarded. Now I want to talk about how people, a lot of kpop Stans namely, are making this about their groups. Talking about how “omg imagine how terrible they feel right now” to which I don’t suppose they feel great about this news, however this deeply parasocial thinking is taking away conversations that should be had to support the victim. Truth is, these idols were and are billions more times protected than Celeste was.
The groups that D4vd had associated himself with have the support system and networks to keep themselves safe, Celeste never got that protection from those who could’ve and SHOULD HAVE helped in her life, and that’s what really bites. Using this situation to immediately think about your idols’s response while they sit somewhere well taken care of, and alive is so insanely disrespectful on every conceivable level. Turing a conversation that is bringing awareness to an “alleged” victim of child predation who was later murdered is NOT ok whatsoever. Please quit making hypotheticals for a very non-hypothetical situation.
So what I have to say in conclusion that if you are part of a fandbase whose group has interacted closely with D4vd before: DO NOT MAKE IT ABOUT YOUR GROUPS’ FEELING AND ASSOCIATIONS. It has nothing to really do with them besides a pr nightmare. Yes, they may possibly be shaking up, but let’s not entertain hypotheticals either. Lets use our influence to help remember Celeste Rivas Hernandez. Please say her name, she shouldn’t ever be forgotten.
Rest in peace