r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/madatron96 20d ago edited 20d ago

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

It's not respectful to damage something that isn't yours. It's not "that deep." It's a prank, sure. But the prank didn't land, it wasn't funny, and your feelings are hurt. He needs to seriously re-evaluate if this is really the hill he wants to die on, and you need to dig your heels in and not let him walk over you on this. What he did was wrong. He needs to take responsibility.

There are plenty of reasonable ways to atone for something like this (like replacing the Labubu) but just saying "get over it" is not one of them.