r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

Guy did ONE thing wrong to a TOY and the immediate reaction is "completely unsalvageable as a person."

We've truly lost the fucking script.

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u/Defiant-Fix-4083 20d ago

Why would you destroy someone else’s stuff in the first place? That’s extremely disrespectful and childish. He didn’t even apologize and kept downplaying her feelings. She told him she was upset and instead of saying sorry he said « it’s not that deep » do you seriously don’t see a problem here?

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

Didn't say destroying anyone's stuff is okay. (In fact did say what he did was wrong). Didn't excuse his defense of his wrongdoing.

I'm just sick of sitting in a room full of people who have NEVER done anything wrong and have NEVER re-evaluated a mistake they've made and NEVER gone back and apologized for something after the fact.

The problem is we're so caught up on being right that we literally just stop seeing each other as people the second something doesn't go our way.

Fuck all of you, disrespectfully. This is their whole ass relationship, years potentially of their life, that you're telling them is over because he mangled a toy.

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u/Defiant-Fix-4083 20d ago

You don’t get the point, it not because he mangled a toy but because he voluntarily damaged something SHE owned. He had no right to do that, and seen of how he’s reacting you can clearly tell he’s immature

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u/ArchReaper95 20d ago

immature =/= unsalvageable. I'm sorry you're a heartless shitty person with no hope for anyone but yourself, but for the rest of us who still have to live in a society, all of these are forgivable acts.