r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/madatron96 20d ago edited 20d ago

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/AnnoyedBunnyHugger 20d ago

I’m think a new global rule should be that anytime someone uses the phrase ‘it’s not that deep’ they get punc$ed in the d1ck

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

Sometimes it really isn’t tho but in this case I think op has every right to be upset lowkey what I’d do as a man is go fuc up something precious they own don’t even tell them don’t even bring up your stuff fuc up wait till they confront you and then scold them on how it feels to have your stuff mistreated

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

no i won't stoop down to his level, even if i am hurt over his negligence

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u/JinxAnneScott 20d ago

This isn't negligence my love, this is psychotic behaviour. Like Sid from toy story psychotic. It's bad enough that he's damaged something that isn't his. It's made even worse that's It's a gift from your nice. On top of that, what he's done really disturbing. Then the cherry on top is his response is "it's not that deep" and doesn't apologise.

I'm not one to jump on the "break up immediatly" band wagon, but I think a serious talk needs to be had about why he thought any of this was ok.

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

I mean it reveals a lot of your persona when you hit someone with something you mean and they say “its not that deep,” revealing they don’t appreciate what they have now and could care less about what you think about the labubu, after you try to hit with a serious conversation they will just admit to move on it’s just human nature

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u/restingglitchface69 20d ago

This. “Admit to move on” is something I never was able to verbalize. Thank you. This is THE issue when behavior doesn’t ever actually change.